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I need advice to talk to my ex girlfriend whom I left in my hard time and m
Posted Monday September 13 2021, 2:20 pm
I want to propose my ex girlfriend again becuase I breakup with her when I was not at good mental state
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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
Posted Wednesday September 8 2021, 2:52 pm
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a...
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Why do I find this a red flag?
Posted Saturday September 4 2021, 7:20 am
28/f 32/m
I was reflecting over my last relationship and I can’t help but keep thinking that this is a red flag—
When I first met my ex, he told me that he was moving to Texas because he was building a house. Eventually it had been revealed that his MOM was building a house in Texas and he was moving into the house (but his parents are planning on staying in California).
Later on, I found out that the condo he was living (and later sold) in California was also owned by his parents. Which by the way, this was a condo that him and his ex-fiancé lived in. When it was sold, he moved back in with his parents but he lived in a separate area in the house so he could have his own privacy.
I ...
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my boyfriend and I are insecure and its destroying our relationship
Posted Monday August 30 2021, 2:09 am
No long intro, Im 22 (female) and he is 18.
We both met/got to know each other in february. I met him online and we have pretty much the same friend group. We were always kinda attracted to each other and on 29th of june he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.
We couldnt meet up in august, which made me overthink a lot. I knew he had A LOT of work. He would basically work all day because he got 3 jobs at the same time. The only time he had was on sundays but he needs some time for himself as well, so I respected that. We still played games together, or watches tv shows.
Yesterday we had this conversation about how he is scared that I will lose interest and leave him. Im in love with him and would in alm...
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Flirting or just friendliness?
Posted Wednesday August 25 2021, 9:23 pm
I can't tell if this guy I like is flirting, or being friendly, or if he was just tired at the time. The reason why I think he's flirting is because he said things like "My are you a lovely yet deadly little rose," and "Awh that's adorable" and gave me those suggestive emoji-things.
He has flirted with me before, and it has looked like this every time. Yet he has also told me that he's weird and "annoying" when he's tired. This seems to be the actions he takes when exhausted. (And it was early for him at the time.) Is he just like this though?
I'm stuck, because I automatically reciprocate, and I don't know if I should. I have no idea what to do in this situation, especially when ...
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Should I show my viganal part to my boyfriend in the phone
Posted Sunday August 22 2021, 9:44 pm
I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please.
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is this how kissing is supposed to be?
Posted Saturday July 24 2021, 12:18 am
For context, I am a sixteen year old girl in high school. I’ve kissed a boy before, but never more than a peck. Just recently, my boyfriend and I made out for the first time. Now I know people will say that it tends to be awkward and all, but it was more than that. I feel like there was no chemistry there and there was no pleasure. It was a weird sensation because I had built up this idea in my head of a perfect romantic kiss and this was nothing like I had pictured. I feel bad saying it, but I was disappointed. It’s hard to describe because there was no buildup and no feeling attached to it.
My questions are as follows: is it normal to not feel anything at all when kissing someone? does the person you’re with truly ef...
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How do I even respond?
Posted Friday July 23 2021, 11:48 am
28/f
32/m
Has anyone ever expected you to “be fine” after your loss?
I feel like my boyfriend expects me to be that way. For example, I lost my job because of Covid, my dad passed away, then I moved out and was nomading for a bit, lived with my toxic mom sleeping on an air mattress for another month, found out that my dog is 75% blind and is dying of old age, and moved into a new place again just three weeks ago. All of this happened within a six month period.
My boyfriend was there for me for all of these things. As a matter of fact he came into my life three months before I lost my job. So he came into my life at a very strange time. And now that I’m just now starting to get back ...
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Relationship advice
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 7:34 pm
Well, my boyfriend has been acting differently, he won't say "I love you" back to me like he normally does. We argue from time to time and now I just feel sad and drained. I feel like he's cheating on me now at this point. He says he wouldn't do that, but I feel like he is.
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How did his emotions change so fast???
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 12:35 am
So I have this friend, who I set up with my other friend. He and I aren't super close, but recently we've gotten closer because he's dating my close friend now. There's not really a problem, but I'm just super confused about how he's been acting. He and my other friend have been dating for about 4-5 weeks now? And he's already said I love you, and asked her to take that step too (he was very gentlemanly about it, didn't pressure her, that's not the problem). The problem is that just a week before she confessed to him, he told me that he was crushing on another girl from his church, and he seemed pretty smitten too, but he wasn't going to do anything about it and he claimed that he was fine just being friends with her. The next day, he told...
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Guy I have been talking to has a girlfriend
Posted Saturday June 26 2021, 8:47 pm
I am 32 year old female and I have been talking to this guy I met online for about a week now so today his supposed girlfriend texts me from his phone and says this is Justin's girlfriend. I responded back and said I am sorry I didn't know he had a girlfriend and said it wouldn't happen again and I blocked the number. Did i do the right thing?
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Hugs
Posted Tuesday June 22 2021, 12:48 pm
So my boyfriend keeps getting picked up from school by his parents
He text me the other day saying that it was all his mum's fault
I asked why
He said that he was gonna do something
Without thinking I asked what
He said he was gonna kiss me
I don't know what to say!
Did he really mean it?
Was he saying that he was gonna do it but he actually wont?
I'M JUST REALLY FLUMMOXED (confused)😁
Pls can you help!!!
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Should his response about his dog be concerning for me?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2021, 11:57 am
28/f, 32/M
My boyfriend has a dog and like other dogs, she’s afraid of fireworks. She would have panic attacks and sit at your head for 30 minutes. Fireworks has been happening in his neighborhood everyday since I’ve met him and based on my past experiences with other dogs and have taken care of other dogs myself, I said “have you thought about those thunder vests? I’ve heard great things about them. You should give it a try.” And he’s said, “maybe.” When I stayed at his house for a month, even his mom said that when his dog freaks out about fireworks, putting pressure on her helps significantly. So I told him once again to look into it. And even after I left (it’s long distance relationship), I kept watchin...
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my boyfriend hugged me today for the first time, twice!!
Posted Thursday May 20 2021, 12:43 pm
So my boyfriend hugged me today for the first time, twice!! One was a dare and the other was normal. When he did it for the dare, did he do it just for it, or he did it because he loves me??
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I Feel like I was Groomed
Posted Thursday May 13 2021, 12:53 am
When I was 16, I met E. E was around 24 when I met him. E was my coworker at the time, and we seemed to hit it off. We became very good friends. We would joke around with each other a lot, and a bunch of that joking was inappropriate jokes. I didn't think too much of it at the time since my humor was a bit immatur too. We would send each other porn as well. At first, it was just funny stuff that neither of us found arousing, but then it got to actual stuff that we both liked. At this time, I knew he had a gf. I also had a little crush in him at the time, bit it does pretty fast after I found that out, and was happy just being friends.
Fast forward to age 17. He invites me over to his house for the first time, and we decide to...
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Different sex drives in marriage
Posted Sunday May 9 2021, 5:05 pm
Hi,
My husband and I are very happily married. One thing that's surprised me though is our different libidos. When we first started having sex, we were about evenly matched for the first year- we basically did it whenever we were able.
Now though, I (the wife) am finding that my drive is much higher than my husband's. I want to do it about once per day, while my husband wants to do it once every 1-2 weeks. I've heard that most couples are reversed, with the guy usually having the higher drive.
There are many days when I feel frustrated and undesirable. But when I ask my husband to have sex more than once a week but he gets really tired and I feel guilty afterwards. What can I do to reduce my frustration?
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Leaving an abusive relationship
Posted Tuesday May 4 2021, 1:20 pm
I am desperate for validation and for someone to tell me that I'm not crazy.
I've been in a relationship with someone for about a year and half. I started to realize that that there were major issues last June, when my grandmother passed away. Those first two weeks after her passing, I couldn't even eat. I couldn't get out of bed. I physically was unable to move. I would sleep, wake up, and cry. I had such a severe migraine that I lost vision from one eye for a few days. The grief was just so intense, I couldn't bear it. It was during this time that the person I had known for the past 9 months turned into someone I no longer knew. He was angry at me for every little thing. He was snapping at me constantly. His response to my ...
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Should I kiss on our first date?
Posted Monday April 12 2021, 4:21 pm
I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm from India. I have been talking to a girl since a month and a half. We like each other but we want to meet to make sure if we want to be totally serious and date. So should go for a kiss on our first date itself or not? If it's a yes, then how should I go for it? If it's a no, then how do I deal with it? I don't want to force her though. I need your advice on this one.
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advice fr married man who cheated or “other woman” only please
Posted Thursday April 8 2021, 2:47 pm
I am a 40 something year old female, recently divorced. I met a married man through work. I did not work with him but he worked for a vendor we bought supplies from. We became friends and he told me about his family and I knew he was married with children at home. I’m not sure how it happened but our friendship turned into a flirting relationship. He started texting only during the day and never on the weekends. We begin exchanging photos and even Sexting and before long hurting turn into a physical relationship. I never had any expectation of him to leave his wife and we really never discussed her. He is six years younger than me and I’m recently divorced so for me, this was just a good time. The affair lasted about nine months and I w...
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I’m not sure whether to leave him or keep him at arms distance
Posted Monday March 15 2021, 12:52 pm
I have been dating this man for 7 months now. But it doesn’t feel like that long because we don’t see each other very often. About once a week throughout this whole time. He told me that his intentions with me are to be in a relationship. He also told me I’m his favorite woman out of everyone he’s dating and he does special things for me and no one else, the other women are just sex.
My problem is not that he’s with other women. My problem is that i feel like he doesn’t like me as much as i like him. I’m afraid “I love you” will slip out of my mouth before he says it to me. And i will feel like i care the most. Which has always hurt me in the past, and those relationships have ended because I’ve become cl...
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