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Getting married and on disability!
Posted Tuesday March 14 2023, 3:23 pm
I am 33 years old and have always wanted to get married and I currently have been dating this wonderful guy for almost 5 months and I totally in love him and want to marry him one day ,but the thing that is getting in the way is everyone keeps telling me we should just live together because if we get married I will lose my disability check and insurance , I just don't feel right about doing that for one I am a Christian and it is against both of our religious beliefs to do so and for another I feel like that's cheating the government. I just wouldn't be able to afford my medicine and my medicine is over $4,000 and I just don't know what to do please give my advice any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
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Going to club
Posted Saturday March 11 2023, 6:52 pm
So my niece is 21 and is getting a divorce and I am 33 never been married so I don't know if this ok or not . She wants me to go the club with her next weekend,but I am in a steady relationship with someone we have been dating for almost 5 months . I really don't want my niece at a club by herself ,but my niece is in a different town than my boyfriend. I am supposed to bending the with her. Do I need to tell my boyfriend about my plans and see if he is ok it because I know my niece will go by herself if I don't go with her . Please help !
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How to address a breakup if you work together
Posted Tuesday February 28 2023, 2:56 pm
Dated my co-worker in secret for the past 3 years. She never wanted to come out for fear of repercussions at work. We talked about a future together and I fell hard. Now she broke it off and wants space. I am in love and want some advice on dealing with it since I see her every day at work.
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How can I fix this?
Posted Sunday December 4 2022, 9:22 pm
Hi there, I hope you're doing well. First, I want to ask for no judgment when reading this because I am not proud of this at all, and I will do anything to fix this. So this Halloweekend, I went to my friend's college to party with her and some of our other friends. We had drank a little in the beginning before heading over. When we met up with our friends, there was a guy with them and I thought he was really attractive, but I was a little tipsy and while at the party, everyone was drinking so naturally I started dancing in front of him and got really close with him and even started feeling his chest dancing with him, but he didn't seem to mind. I even asked him many times, 'Is this okay'', 'Please let me know if this makes you uncomfortab...
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Should I tell my family that i have a bf when they told me I can't yet?
Posted Tuesday November 22 2022, 8:30 pm
I am a younger person, my family says i can't date till I'm am 16 (i have a few years to go still), but I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart I haven't meet him in real life yet but i know what he looks like. I wouldn't say my family is strict but I'm just worried if i tell them about our relationship they will make us brake up.
Should I tell my family?
(his family knows about us and is happy for him)
I wouldn't like to say my age but I am female.
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jumbled feelings
Posted Wednesday November 16 2022, 12:14 am
okay so lost my virginity last month with a tinder man after only knowing him for about 2 hours this is not how i would have liked to do that not really bc it was my first time more of i just didn’t know the guy at all and to make things worse my cherry popped and it was a whole thing prior to all this the man laid things out really clearly that there are really 3 options on how things go with new people 1 relationship 2 friends but more 3 fuck buddies i understood 2 as friends that could turn into more but after the night of i came to realize that it was more of friends with benefits so i said 2 is how i would like to go about things and then he mentioned that he had no time for a relationship and 2 would work better for him anyways but ...
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What do you do when physical therapist is turning you on?
Posted Tuesday October 18 2022, 3:56 pm
Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures and I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal. It sucks because I do play baseball, but at least I have lots of time to recover before next summer. So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week for 8 weeks and maybe longer depending on progress. After my PT they let me use one of the treadmills and I usually run for about 30 to 60 minutes. My post today is about the attractive female therapist I have been assigned.
I started with a guy but another patient who was way obese needed his help so he switched with this freaking cute as hell female th...
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Stuck between my ex and my fiancee
Posted Monday October 17 2022, 12:04 am
I have been asking myself a lot lately if I still want my ex back, but I am very happy in my relationship with my fiance. But when I ended up finding out that my ex was talking to somebody I flipped out, I got very upset and felt like I was losing something.. I just don't know what.
I have been with my fiance almost 3 years, and in the last 3 years it's been some down and up days.. mainly up days. I don't know if I'm afraid of losing my ex because he's talking to somebody new or I'm afraid of moving on from my ex because I was with him for 12 years and we have three kids together. I just really don't know what to do, I feel like some days I just want to cry another days I just want to just scream why me.. because I don't want...
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My side chick gives silent treatment almost every other day
Posted Saturday October 15 2022, 12:23 pm
I'm 48, and from Nigeria. I'm married without kids. I have a side chick, who is not married but has a 5-year-old son out of wedlock. She is my subordinate in my place of work. (I got her the job there). She knows I'm married, knows my wife and my wife knows her as my subordinate at work. My side chick and I love each other. She finds it hard to get a boyfriend because she has some toxic tendencies; she picks a fight at almost everything. We quarrel almost every other day over flimsy issues, and she gives me the silent treatment every now and then until I strive to get us back on talking terms. This has been going on for about 7 months now. Each time she stops talking to me, I want to leave her, but I start to miss her so much that I end up ...
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My SO came out as trans and we plan to continue dating
Posted Thursday October 13 2022, 10:05 pm
I'm in high school and the person I've been dating for a year recently came out as trans. He (formerly she) has begun dressing like a guy, has cut his hair short, and is now using a male name.
He says he still loves me but understands if I no longer want to be involved. I've always thought of myself as straight. But I'm still very much in love too and so I told him that I'm willing to give this a shot.
My parents and a few of my friends seem to think I'm crazy for wanting to remain together. Maybe I am but, like I said, I'm still in love and want to see if we can make this work. Any advice on how to make everyone back off and just accept that this is something I have to do?
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I have an STD. What now?
Posted Sunday September 25 2022, 1:44 am
I am a 24 year old woman. He’s 27. 3 months ago, I rekindled a situationship I had with this guy because I felt like I might have been too hard on him. The reason I left him the first time was because he made me feel violated. We had already been having sex just moments before it happened. He wanted to keep going when I didn’t. I actually had to push his head away. When he realized I was frozen, he was very apologetic and just saw his way out. But, after more thought I decided to give him another chance. Everything has been great for the past 3 months. We went on many frequent lovely romantic adventurous dates and we spent a lot of quality time alone together, over the phone, and with friends. We have had quite a few emotional conversat...
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How do I tell my boyfriend to calm down?
Posted Thursday September 22 2022, 11:49 am
This is about my boyfriend Cameron who is a good person but keeps annoying me. He said he understands I do not want to have sex and he said he will be a virgin with me and not put any pressure on me to have sex. He says the right things but his body is saying something different. Every time we are together he is having constant erections and trying to hide it. It is embarrassing like he is a sex maniac. I do not even have to touch or kiss him for it to happen but even if I just hold his hand or hug him. He gets one every time we cuddle and I have to tell him not to touch himself and he gets mad and says he just adjusting to hide it better. Even when he tries to hide it I can now tell when it is happening because he gets squirmy and n...
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Do we need chaperones to keep from touching each other?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2022, 6:16 pm
So something really strange happened to me recently and my relationship with my new girlfriend has taken a weird turn. We both feel we are too young for sex even though we think about it and even talk about it sometimes just because it is fun to think about each other that way. It amazes me what we talk about late at night on the phone together. We text too but true voice is best. We are definitely bolder and more open with what we say to each other than when we are in person.
So a weird thing happened on a movie date where I bought a condom from a machine in the bathroom to show her as a joke and she thought it was funny and during the movie she said she wanted to see it. So I handed her the package. She looked at me all sexy, ...
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Why does sex have to be a reward or bribe?
Posted Tuesday September 13 2022, 6:41 pm
Hello to the whole group. I am maybe overanalyzing something about my love life with my girlfriend but I would love it if maybe there is some feedback for me to better understand what is going on between us.
I know I am 22 but this is my first serious relationship and even though we are now active sexually we are literally each other’s first so I feel I can benefit from the experience of others. I read a lot of posts before I wrote this and noticed a lot of the guys ask about sex, so I guess that is okay and I will join the crowd.
The question I have is about how us having sex almost always seems to be tied to either me being rewarded for something or sex being offered in exchange for me doing something. It started wi...
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Husband Refusing To Get Help
Posted Saturday September 10 2022, 11:55 pm
A few months ago my husband went into the hospital because of pancreatitis. The doctors said it was caused by drinking, and he was going through severe alcohol withdrawal. Thankfully he recovered, but they said he might not be so lucky next time. My husband comes from a family of alcoholics. His mom and two sisters are bar-tenders and they all have a problem with drinking too much. When he went in the hospital they couldn't possibly accept that it was the alcohol that caused it. They kept saying that they don't know how he got sick, and that maybe someone even poisoned him. I showed them the toxicology report which showed that nothing was in his system except alcohol, but they still don't believe it. They've been telling him it's ok to drin...
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Ashamed about video that is going to be exposed.
Posted Thursday September 8 2022, 12:27 pm
I am getting legal advice on this but I also need some personal advice on how to manage a nightmare I have created with a really bad decision. On a dare and because of my own insane vanity, I auditioned for a pornographic movie. It was very sketchy in a crappy motel. I obviously had to get naked and there was this really weird interview about my sexual experience (which is not a lot) and then they took a lot of pictures and some video of me with two women. I did have a condom for all that. It all took like 4 hours and I had mixed feelings the whole time like both an ego trip and guilt trip. At the end I was offered a part in some movie which fed my pride and ego, but I turned it down because it was just a prank. I signed a release at...
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GF Makes Me Earn Kisses
Posted Wednesday August 31 2022, 2:38 pm
My GF is the greatest and I would do anything for her and I am like so lucky she likes me back the same way. She does this weird thing though on kissing. If I ask her for a kiss, she tells me I have to earn it and makes me do some kind of dare each time to get a kiss. Sometimes it is some kind of exercise thing depending on where we are like so many pushups or situps. She knows I can stand on my hands so sometimes she makes me do that for her. Sometimes she makes thump my chest and holler like Tarzan. Sometimes she makes me flex my arm for her like I am some sort of skinny body builder. Sometimes she makes me try to recite the lyrics to her favorite Taylor Swift songs. Yes, I memorized them. What is up with the whole earning a kiss...
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Should I move back?
Posted Monday August 29 2022, 6:42 am
So a couple of months ago I moved out from my mom’s house into an apartment in a new city. This city has more opportunities and I was able to find a job, that pays me well. But the problem is, that before moving out, I got into a relationship with my boyfriend, who I ended up loving more than anybody else, and became a huge part of my life. At first we were able to meet every weekend, he would drive down to be with me, and the next weekend I would do the same. But due to change in my work, I have to work even at the weekends, so we wont be able to see each other much. Only a few days in a month. I have been crying a lot, and haven't been able to enjoy myself in this city, because I miss him, and want to spend my time with him. So my quest...
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How do I explain to GF my pain from having sex is no big deal?
Posted Tuesday August 23 2022, 6:41 pm
My girlfriend and I have gotten to the point where we are starting to be sexually active with each other. We are both very attracted to each other, but she made me wait for a while but that is okay because she is worth it. Our first two nights together have been wonderful but not without some concern.
On the positive side, even though I am less experienced than her she said I did very well and she did not have to fake anything. She asked for repeats during the night so I guess I was doing something right. On the negative side, I did hurt myself with some joint dislocations several times each night.
The deal is I have a medical condition called Ehlers Danlos which can cause joints to dislocate easily and causes joint pai...
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Should I break off my engagement?
Posted Thursday August 18 2022, 3:26 pm
My Fiancé of one year and 5 months is on a trip to greece with his friends and we got in an argument because he disrespected me by telling me to "Grow the fuck up" while we were arguing about something- and so I avoided conversation with him and told him he had no respect for me and to just end the conversation now. Its been 2 days and he hasnt contacted me at all or told me anything about his trip. Not who he is with, where he is, no updates, no nothing. I wrote him the day after saying " So your not gonna update me? Is that what your doing?" and he said "Your the one who didn't update me yesterday or say goodnight" So I told him "Suit yourself, after the disrespectful behavior and words you said to me y...
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