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Should I show my viganal part to my boyfriend in the phone
I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please.
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I stand by what Dr. Stephanie said. Men don't seem to worry about nude photos of themselves being found on line because females don't tend to pass them around on the net and most times, guys like the idea of showing off their package.
But females, whoa girl...don't be taking any pics to send to your bf and you can explain why. Now here's the whys you don't do this: 1. He may not show it or send it to anyone but a friend of his may grab his phone, go snooping and find and send your pic out to friends 2. Even if your face doesn't show, guys tend to like to brag about their girl. Before my second husband I dated and had a male friend when I didn't have a bf yet. Eventually we decided on the friends with benefits thing but he was about 12 years younger and that ended up being a big thing to him and he told me he told his friends out of state, about me, particularly that we had sex. If telling is so easy, how easy is it to show a photo? 3. A random guy could copy your photos once found on the internet. I know someone, a guy who admitted that as a young adult, he filled up CDs with photos of women, faces included who had their pics for their sweeties on display for the whole world unfortunately and these CDs were then sold to men who wanted the pics to view during masturbating. In rare cases, some women applying for a job didnt get it cus HR checked out their Facebook or Instagram and even if photos weren't in there, they may have found photos by checking out the pages of your friends. I have had many men use Facebook as a dating site and write to me even though it plainly says I am with someone. In all of these, men will use photos of some random guy in uniform, army or such, but if I go digging into who their friends are, I catch photos of African people, not a single white person as myself, and its a dead giveaway. Then theres a photo labeling their self as one in a group photo and they don't look anywhere similar to the banner photo. I could give a couple more scenerios, including women sending pics to guys that aren't themselves, whether in an LDR, or sex parts without faces, so this all is why you should not be sending out a photo.
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The short answer is a great big NO !!! Anything, and I mean ANYTHING, you post electronically can and most likely will be shared with others, strangers, the internet, and more. And you will never be able to control who gets it, ever .Permanently.
The longer answer includes not doing things like this because soeone else wants you to do it, if you have any hesitation at all yourself. Its not about being shy; its about stupidity and staying safe.
Honey, you are naive. Look the word up. Learn how to spell "my viganal part", correctly. And while you're at it, I sure hope you are smart enough to know how to use birth control regularly and correctly, every single time. You don't need to become a single mom, or even a married one right now.
And if your so - called "boyfriend", who sounds more like someone using you for sex, pressures you to do what you don't want to do or have the slightest doubts about doing, as you clearly have, do not worry about pleasing him at your own expense. Instead, always be your own best friend, first !
So do the right thing, for yourself ! Dr. Stephanie
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It's illegal to do this if the person on the other end can and does distribute it to others just so you are aware. It can lead to big trouble especially if this person breaks up with you or starts showing it to others without your knowledge. You may be an adult however, if you were any younger it would also be illegal because it would involve a minor.
Doing this is about the dumbest thing you could ever do. I would be weary of this guy and his request. You need to tell him that this isn't going to ever happen and do not feel like he should have asked and get a sense of what his motives are. You might want to move on from him too. Anyone that puts you in a position that is highly inappropriate or makes you feel icky is one to avoid. You need to put him in his place at the very least.
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