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My ex/ friend is starting to make me uncomfortable. 17M
Posted Friday March 5 2021, 10:48 pm
For me, I've always had issues from telling crushes apart from just idk appreciating someone? Well a few months ago It turned out a friend, which I've known for a few years at this point and had an "I like her, no I don't" mentality about her, that she liked me and a close friend pushed me to try it out, so we did. It was very awkward and it turned out I didn't like her so I stopped it after a few weeks. (Bearing in mind the furthest we went was holding hands.) But now she constantly texts me things like "are you okay" if I don't reply to the group chat for a little bit, then will rant to my other friend about me ignoring her when I only reply with "yes I'm fine". Which was whatever- I pictured it as she was ...
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Married but still think of my college ex fondly
Posted Tuesday March 2 2021, 3:06 pm
Is it possible that my ex thinks of me at all? We were friends for 6 months and then dated for another 8 months. While not the longest relationship...they were formative years. we were eachothers firsts and we were both mid-college. We are both married now with families but a few times a year she pops in my head and I can't get her out. We are facebook friends but outside of saying Happy Birthday, there is no contact. Do I just keep trying to forget?
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Clingy non-boyfriend won’t leave me alone
Posted Monday March 1 2021, 1:06 am
I’ve been talking to a guy for 8 months now. I haven’t met him in real life yet. At first, I was mutually interested in him up until I saw him interacting w/ other girls (through social media). I asked him about this, his response was “I only talk to them for a max 1 month”, followed by “you’re the only girl I’m serious about/want to spend my life with. And, "You’re the only girl who could break my heart, if you leave me I’ll be devastated”.
He drops the L bomb very frequently. Which didn’t make sense to me. He’s always texting me, & would often times ask me if I was talking to someone new if I had replied too late, to which I told him I wasn’t. His response would be “No.. it’s fine if ...
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Escaping the friend zone
Posted Saturday February 27 2021, 9:32 pm
I’ve developed really strong feelings for one of my friends, but it’s hard because he doesn’t see me in the same way. I met him a year ago through a Bible study group at my university. We got to know each other really well because he gives me rides to church. To start with, I had a little puppy crush on him, but I pushed it aside to keep from getting hurt. Last semester, we started becoming pretty close friends and my feelings developed even more. Unfortunately, I found out he likes another girl from our group. She politely turned him down, but they still remain friends and he still likes her. Also, last semester another girl joined our Bible study and me and her have gotten really close. Her and my crush went to high school together ...
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Boyfriend and his sister are too close for comfort
Posted Sunday February 21 2021, 11:40 pm
I’m 26 years old, my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for 2 years, recently we decided to make the big step of moving in together, he told me that his sister would move in too,she’s 17 about to be 18. At first I was fine with It bc in the other house they lived in before she was always in her room or she’d be with her dad who lives with his girlfriend. I also didn’t take the time to really think It through, i was just ready to get out of my toxic stepdads house. I’ve always known that my boyfriend and his sister are close, but I didn’t realize HOW close until I started living with them. I have noticed that they go into the bathroom with each other when one another showers or pees/poops. Private parts are covered when they...
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Disrespecting
Posted Friday February 19 2021, 7:35 pm
Is it ok for my boyfriend of 4 years to call me a fucken bitch I know it’s not all right but what should I do.
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I think I'm in love with my college roommate
Posted Wednesday December 23 2020, 9:26 am
My roommate (F/20) and I (F/20) have been friends with benefits since we began college two years ago. This arrangement started because we were both a couple of dateless losers in high school. Neither of us had ever had sex and were curious, so we decided to experiment.
From the beginning, we agreed this was just for fun and that we weren't a couple or anything. We both agreed that if a guy ever asks one of us out, then that person should feel free to accept.
Now, I don't consider myself to be gay or even bi. My roommate doesn't either. So when she recently got asked out and said yes, I was surprised by my reaction. I felt heartbroken. Course, I didn't say anything because of our deal, but I realize now that I...
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I’m lost: Tells me I'm the one... but he regularly talks to other girls?
Posted Sunday December 6 2020, 5:54 am
I’ve been talking to a guy for about 5 months now (haven’t met yet). He constantly tells me that he’s certain I’m the one he sees a future with. Always treating us like we’re in a relationship. However, he’s regularly talking to other girls & even tells me about it. When I ask him if he wants to move on from me, he’s very firm on not letting that happen. He also has a very strong visceral reaction towards me interacting with other men. I’m not sure what I should do...
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How Do I Get Guys to NOT Look At Me?
Posted Monday November 16 2020, 7:50 pm
It sounds like a weird question, but I will be sitting in class sometime in the day, and i can just feel guys staring at me, and it makes me very uncomfortable, and i want them to stop. it feels weird asking them to, because when i do they just deny it, its very annoying.
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Still trying to start a long-distance relationship.
Posted Wednesday October 21 2020, 7:06 pm
Back in May, I posted a question about me being interested in starting a long-distance relationship- my main concern was the age gap of 16 and 19. We both turned 17 and 20 in August, and the age gap honestly doesn't concern me that much at the moment (I checked and it's legal in both of our areas). My main concern is trying to start the relationship in the first place- over the last few weeks, I've said to her that there's something I want to tell her (that being how I feel), however have never manage to quite send her a message about how I feel. I've given her a few vague hints, explaining the type of 'situation' for want of another word but nothing really which signals that I'm interested in her. I think there might be some interest on he...
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What can I do?
Posted Thursday October 15 2020, 6:07 pm
hello i work with this guy who looks at me all the time. one day he came up to me and introduced himself to me and i got kinda nervous, i didn\'t say much haha. \r\ni was wondering what kind of signals to send to this guy at work to talk to me but with being very busy at work i find it very hard to approach him. there are times i\'m not near him to say anything to him.\r\nwhat can i do? he\'s always staring at me so i\'m thinking he\'s interested. it\'s really hard to approach him when i\'m in different areas at my job and may not get a chance to see him.\r\nthe most we really have done is say hi to each other and after that i\'m not sure how to go about it more lol.\r\nhe\'s probably in his 30s like me and it\'s really impossible to get ne...
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Should i move in with my ex?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2020, 2:06 pm
I am a 22-year-old Dominican female, and ever since I was about 5 years old I wanted to get married and have two or three kids and a variety of pets (cats dogs and guinea pigs) with a man.
I met my ex while I was at work, through a mutual friend who was coming to visit me. She introduced me to him, and after like 4 months of dating we were in a relationship for almost 3 years.
I was going through a tough time with my mom where I got kicked out, and he was there for me the whole time, making sure that I had a place to sleep while I was homeless for two weeks, (as I could not sleep over his house because he had 9 people at the time living in his home already) helping me move, etc.
throughout the t...
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Relationship pressure
Posted Tuesday October 6 2020, 11:45 am
I am 18 male from India.I have a neighbour friend of mine (we know each other sonce 7 years) who I take evening walks with. Recently my friend got in a relationship with a girl who was in the same college of mine. He told me about his relationship. The thing is that even I want to get into a relationship as I am tired of being single. But my progress is leading me to nowhere. Furthermore the sexual tension between him and the girl is high so he might get to see some 'action' soon. They bonded quickly within three weeks and here the chances of me getting in a relationship is less. They bonded so much that he even knows her cousins and her distant family members. In other words I am simply jealous of him entering in a relationship. Also when ...
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What are latest fashion trends to follow now a days in wedding ceremony?
Posted Friday October 2 2020, 3:48 am
I have to attend my cousin's wedding next week and I have to look great and unique, kindly share some excellent and unique trends to follow while attending the wedding ceremony.
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confused about my feelings to crush (?)
Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 6:39 pm
Here is the backstory.
I moved to another city because of university and met a girl (who is in the same group as me). We became friends (?) really fast, which is weird because I'm shy and it usually takes me months to find a connection with others. And even faster I realize what I may have feelings for her (I was missing her when she was not around, I always tried to be as close to her as I could, and ALWAYS was distracted by her presence). It all was affecting my education, so I decided to tell her the truth (after 2 weeks of meeting her btw). And at the next day my things changed ( I stopped thinking of her 24/7, become less anxious, etc. )
I don't understand why. The only thing that was different in this 2 days is that I m...
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Relationship Jealousy/ communication
Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 10:53 am
Hi all, I am a 24 year old female and dating my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we live together. Lately I have been having serious jealousy issues. I know we love together but we don’t actually do much together, always just cooped up in the house. Honestly, there’s hardly a reason for me to be jealous of anything. He talks to his friends CONSTANTLY which is annoying but liveable. I think the main reason for my out of control jealousy is that he’s not making me feel loved or appreciated or included and no affection/attention. And I’m such an affectionate attentive girlfriend. I’ll hug, kiss, cuddle, play whatever. I’ve explained this before to him that I need more from him. Last night I told him twice that he can’t jus...
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What should I do if the guy I liked for 6 years changed and ignored me?
Posted Saturday September 12 2020, 11:43 pm
Hi Im a teenager from the Philippines and I've liked a boy since we were in elementary school. We've never really talked that much in real life but we used to talk all the time through social media about random things. We both went to different high schools and still talked after that, but one day he started to just see my messages and not reply to them until an hour later. I then knew that he was interested in a classmate of his in his new class and started to ignore me for the next several days. He probably felt nothing for ignoring me but for me it was the most painful thing that he has ever done to me. Until today I've been deep in sadness and he still doesnt chat me. Should I cut ties with him or tell him what I feel?
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How do I know if he likes me too?
Posted Friday September 11 2020, 7:42 pm
I am a sixteen year old girl in high school and there is a guy I have liked for about two years now. It’s been an on and off thing because we have both dates other people but something always brings me back to my feelings for him. I have never told him that I like him and he has never told me either, but the way we have been acting with each other seems like there’s something going on. But the thing is, I’m not really his usual type so I don’t know. He broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago and he wasn’t upset about it plus he wouldn’t tell me the reason. He has been sending small signals but he is a flirty person in general so I don’t know if I am reading into this too far or if it is really happening. How can I find ou...
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Traumatised
Posted Monday August 31 2020, 5:33 pm
Hi my ex absolutely loved bombed me from day 1 he sent me up to 50 texts a day declaring his interest and love and how I'm his whole word wasnt a day he didn't tell me how much he loved me so a few weeks ago he got drunk and lied and brought a woman to the place he stays said noting happend i forgave since then ive discovered he has a drink problem so i tried support him he ended up been kicked out of the house he lived in because of the drinking so had to return to Scotland toll he could find accommodation here....sunday i was with him and seen a womans name keep ringing phone i asked him he said was just a mate i took phone off him to to discover 2 different women he was arranging to meet up with we had words etc. i told him we would nee...
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Guys- how do I stop?
Posted Sunday August 30 2020, 12:15 am
How do I stop going after emotionally unavailable men? They're huge babies, have commitment issues, cowards, do not know how to be themselves or hold a conversation.
I have a terrible habit and I keep hurting myself. Also, I attract creeps- why is that? I attract guys who I am never interested in.
Help! hahaha
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