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Confused about a guy. Is he the right one?
Posted Tuesday August 16 2022, 6:22 am
Hello!
I went on one date and spoke over call many times with this guy. He is funny, goofy, respectful and compassionate. He cares for me i know. However, he is not the one I want to be with. There is a connection and spark and chemistry. I want to touch him . But I don't want any future with him. He is from a different religion and culture plus he smokes and he doesn't want to quit smoking. I can't stand the smell of smoke. So he is clearly not someone I want to have a future with. So I said No for a second date. He told me he is comfortable and peaceful around me. He told me he feels like he has known me forever. I also feel comfortable talking to him. I can talk to him about anything but he is just not someone I want to have anyth...
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I have a few issues that bother me about my husband’s behavior
Posted Wednesday August 3 2022, 11:24 pm
My husband and I been together almost 2 years and we have a son that’s 3 months old. I’m 30 years old. I had a few issues that bother me about my husband’s behavior and just need someone to talk to about it. I wanted to address each individually.
1. He told me I was neglecting my son when he had him on the changing table while I was in bed. He went out of the room to get diapers. The baby started crying hysterically-he had his shots the day before so he’s a little more cranky. I didn’t get up to comfort him so I was told I was neglecting my son and that it was not okay. I understand to some point but I work from home and watch my son all day while he’s at work for 12 hours. I’ve been on my toes all day. Even my breaks I...
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FWB situation
Posted Saturday July 23 2022, 7:36 am
So I've been friends with benefits with this guy for a bout a month now. Everytime we try to make plans to hook up he asks me to try to bring a friend, and if I have any friends that would be up for 3somes. I honestly don't mind him asking here and there, but it's gotten to a point where I feel like he's only interested if my one of my friends join us. I know that we are only using each other to benefit ourselves, but I can't help getting annoyed that I'm not enough in this situation. What should I do?
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How do I reassure my GF I can wait?
Posted Friday July 22 2022, 5:04 pm
This question is mainly for the females I guess. So my GF asked me if I fantasized about blow jobs or hand jobs since we are not having sex for moral reasons on her religion which I respect. I admitted yes I fantasize about that stuff but then I saw she was like freaked out about it when I admitted that and I said she did not have to do that if she did not want to do it just because I fantasized about it because I would be okay if that never happened but she got so upset she was not doing anything to help me out with being good and she knows I like her that way and am trying to hide my erections. I tried to make a joke and said I help myself out as needed. She did not think it was funny like she feels like she is not a good girlfriend b...
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How do you deal with different libidos as a couple?
Posted Friday July 22 2022, 4:02 pm
I am worried that my fiancé who is super patient now about sex will become unhappy over time if we get married and we do not become intimate more often. He has not said anything but I know he wants sex a lot more than we are having it now. His libido is through the roof. We do a lot of cuddling and he is always hard and ready to go and almost every day asks me if I am in the “mood” to make love. Maybe 1 x week I am and say yes. When we do have sex he is so enthusiastic like it is his birthday and he tries so hard to make it “epic.” It is pretty wonderful, he has what seems like a lot of stamina to me as far as not losing control of himself until the end, and I will just say I don’t have to fake anything. But then not long a...
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What do I do with my ridiculously hot new straight friend?
Posted Tuesday July 5 2022, 3:25 pm
I am an openly gay 21m and I am very lucky to go to a school where there is a lot of acceptance and encouragement and I feel surrounded by allies. I am surprised especially how some of the notorious jocks and aggressively straight guys handled it. I think it says something about attitudes in my generation.
Almost all my guy friends are straight and they deal with the awkward moments mostly with humor and have a running rant about which of them I am most attracted to which is actually funny and I play along like I am trying to make up my mind and they all act competitive about it.
They also push me to initiate things with guys I admit to liking just like they do with each other and girls they like. It is ...
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believing in second chances...
Posted Sunday June 26 2022, 2:22 am
Female 33 years old, partner same..
We've been together for 2 years.. with ups and downs like every relationship, but somehow we manage to overcome it was a strong bond that we had, or at least i believed so...
Lately the relationship started to take a different form, from his side indifference, distance, not paying attention , no communication and not involving me in his everyday life).
From my side as a result.. over extreme Jealousy, desperate for love and attention, accusing him for things like cheating flirting..
In the end we both reached to a place where he had enough and i was lonely, but we never confront each other.. and it ended so badly that whenever i remember it, it's only pain.
now 1 month l...
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flying with guy to America and having crush on him
Posted Thursday June 23 2022, 10:04 pm
Hi :)
I am a girl and I went to a Work and Travel programme. I decided to go alone, because none of my friends wanted to go with. However, I have never traveled by a plane before, I messaged to Work and Travel facebook group to see if anyone is flying the same day I am. It was flight from Budapest to New York.
To my suprise one guy texted me, he is flying the same day. We have been texting the week before the flight, and we eventually met at the airport. I saw his pic on Messenger, but I was suprised to see him in real life. He was beautiful.
We had two flights, unfortunately, we did not sit next to each other during those flights. But he was so handsome and he had so beautifú blue eye that I could not...
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What do I do now that I know my friend has a secret crush?
Posted Thursday June 16 2022, 2:00 pm
I have a guy friend (fake name – Jackson) and we have been flirty friends but never dated or done more than a kiss on the cheek. We have dated other people but always kept our relationship in the friend zone. We both don’t believe in FWB and consider that wrong. We do talk about sex but just like in a generic way friends do. I tease him for being a man whore even though he says he has only done it twice. He calls me the ice queen as a joke because I am a virgin and have turned a lot of boys down.
The deal is he was on his tablet in my room and we were done studying and I accused him of looking at porn as a joke. He denied it but would not show me what he was doing though so when he went to the bathroom I checked out ...
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i dont know what to do about specific guy
Posted Tuesday June 14 2022, 7:30 pm
ive been talking to a guy but we havent texted in a week but theres something id like to tell him but i dont know if should text him again cause things are a bit awkward now.my friends are kinda...dont really agree(?)with me keeping contact with him, not because hes a bad person lol, hes just a penny pincher lol(we're both 18 btw, im a girl and hes a boy and we're both bisexual)
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How do I make the boy next door my boyfriend?
Posted Monday June 6 2022, 12:47 pm
You know that like saying about the boy next door. Well a hottie literally moved next door and I need advice. His name is Riley, which is so cute. Riley is 15 and he is a Caucasian boy with wavy red hair, freckles on his face and shoulders, and a goofy smile that like goes to one side. I am 16 and mixed Asian descent but our family identifies as Korean. He is younger but taller than me by a lot. He is kind of shy but kind of not at the same time. He goes around shirtless or sometimes a sleeveless muscle shirt with a superman logo or a green lantern logo. I mostly see him when he is doing chores and moving stuff and digging stuff and moving gravel and crap for a greenhouse his parents are building. The are like putting solar panels ...
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I need advice on how to seduce a cute guy friend.
Posted Wednesday June 1 2022, 4:26 pm
So I have a friend who is a guy who I have started to think about more romantically after I saw him wearing a spiderman costume which showed off his very cute muscles which I had never seen before. Side note he had the costume because he is a marvel maniac and we were going to a children’s hospital and thought it would be fun to do costumes. The kids loved him and he totally got into the moves and hanging from stuff even upside down. He only fell once. He has always been a cute guy but nerdy and shy and totally hid his bod in clothes too big for him. Our friend group includes some athletes and I can see him being intimidated being smaller. But the truth is he is sexy fit. He has visible well-defined abs. We are not talking huge mus...
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Why do gay guys like to fake out straight guys online?
Posted Wednesday May 11 2022, 4:46 pm
I am consistently getting faked out online by gay guys posing as females with female pics and profiles. I would guess more than 70 percent of the people who private message me are men posing as women to flirt with me.
I am a straight guy and this is noted in all my chat profiles. It sucks more females do not message, but what is up with the dudes faking out other dudes? It is annoying and frustrating.
I totally know lying about yourself online is not limited to gay guys or transgender people faking out straight guys. People of all kinds pose as younger or older than they are, richer and more successful, use fake body stats, and obviously fake pictures. When I was under 18 I pretended to be older to talk ...
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Boyfriend won’t call me!!
Posted Monday May 9 2022, 7:07 pm
NEED SERIOUS HELP okay my bf and i have been doing long distance and it's been going pretty good, we do things like text and voice memos all the time but for some reason he just REFUSES to call me. He's done it once and it was great but after that he keeps saying he's too "nervous" or js changes the subject. At first i wanted to give him time to adjust but now it's seriously annoying, every time it's the same "sorry" and broken promise that he'll call me the next time…like I love him but i'm seriously getting tired of this sh**, what should I do???
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No privacy with GF due to flirting sister who is single.
Posted Wednesday April 13 2022, 1:00 pm
Lucky 17M dating incredible 17F. My girl’s sister goes with us on most dates because the sister broke up with her guy (who was awful). Used to go on double dates which is why I know the dude was truly awful and no good for her. My girl and her sister are twins but not identical just similar. Very different personalities. My girl is sweet and modest and so kind and more religious. She can be a tease but she is serious about waiting on sex and I know I have to just be patient and know the teasing is just for fun. Her sister is blunt and likes to say and do things for shock value and has had bad relationships and admits she is not a virgin. She has a bad reputation which is sad but some of that is bogus and due to jerks talking trash...
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Young engagement
Posted Tuesday April 12 2022, 12:00 am
I’m 14 (trans male) and I have a bf (14, trans male), and I know we may be a bit young but I really want to propose to him. He’s definitely the one for me. And I could imagine loosing him, and I want to make a promise to keep so what should I do? Should I hold off or just go for it?
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Why is he like this?
Posted Sunday April 3 2022, 7:20 pm
I have a guy that I have liked for quite some time and I think he's a bit of a jerk then I'm confused about what to think about him. In person he seems to like being around me or sometimes finds ways to be near me. We don't talk much. He might be autistic but I'm okay with that. A few years ago I overheard him saying he thought I was hot to one of my friends and it gave me some hope about him lol. I'm in my 30's and he is in his late 20's. I tried reaching out to him via message and he has ignored me. I also asked for private dance lessons from him and he felt fattered and suggested someone else. Overall I'm trying to make friends with him. Today I reached out to him trying to invite him to a group and he never messaged me about it. SO ag...
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Should i let go of him at this point.
Posted Saturday April 2 2022, 8:57 am
Hi there, I will attempt to keep this as brief as possible and explain it as well as I can.
Female 33, partner same...
We've been together almost 2 years, we moved in together after 3 months of relationship, everything started so quick, as if i didn't want the relationship but he was so insistent that till now i don't regret any minute of it..
It was all good in the beginning, in a way that you don't question anything, shortcut he was the full package.
later some ex appeared and my doubtful old self took place ( been cheated twice..) He didn't do anything wrong on the contrary he was so assuring and did nothing wrong. and after that i started to check everything, question him and at some p...
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Need advice: My boyfriend cheated on me, but doesn't know I know
Posted Monday March 21 2022, 7:00 am
My boyfriend has cheated on me although we have been together for only 1year I can't believe he did that. His ex-wife of 11 years may she RIP she passed cheated on him when they were together and when we started talking we both told each other that we were not to cheated on each other. But for some reason I had a feeling and I would never have done it but I looked in his phone and he's talking with 2 women and has had sex with one of them. What should I do
P.s he obviously doesn't know that I know
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I fell in love with my best friend, confessed to her and now I need help. (We're both girls)
Posted Monday March 14 2022, 3:28 pm
(English is not my first language)
Hi. Me and my best friend are both girls, we are both 19 and we both like girls. We've known each other for 5 years now and we were always close since we first met. We just hit it off, you know? We felt this strong connection towards one another like we've never felt before with anyone else. It was a friendship that felt like home. So, we were always close but in 2020 we got closer and that's when I fell for her (it would be weird if I didn't), but I only got the courage to tell her my feelings this year, mostly because this year she is going to go abroad to study in Canada for 2 years and maybe she won't ever come back to our country. And so I told her, I was afraid she would want to stop tal...
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