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I think I might be in love !
Posted Tuesday August 25 2020, 4:40 pm
I have a huge problem . I have been having sex with this this guy for quite some time we are not dating at all we are just friends who are having sex well supposed to be just friends. The problem is I didn't plan on falling in love the first time I have intercourse with him. I don't want to tell him and lose his friendship completely and I think it's only fair for me to tell my true fee. What should I do ? Please help!
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Depression and anxiety
Posted Sunday August 16 2020, 6:55 pm
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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Is He Interested?
Posted Sunday August 16 2020, 2:26 am
F/24. This is kind of between love and work. One of my coworkers has been acting a little strange, and I didn't even think he might've been interested in me until recently, so now I'm micro-analyzing all our interactions. For example, I was working by myself, and he popped up out of nowhere and just sort of stayed there for a while. We talked for a bit but I noticed he was quieter than usual. I wasn't really paying attention to his body language because I had my attention on working.
This other time he was talking about a funny little comic taped to a door that I hadn't noticed. When I went to it to read it, he came up behind me to read it as well. I think I've seen him get that close to other coworkers as well so I didn't r...
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How to date?
Posted Friday July 31 2020, 2:07 am
Alright I just want to say I have an extremely hard time meeting guys, at the moment I do not have friends and have always struggled with friendships. However I have questions, how can I meet guys since I am in my 30's? A guy with substance, a respectable guy? I am in the process of working on myself and I have always had a very time meeting serious guys. Most guys I meet aren't serious or flake out. It's very stressful and I have lost hope. What can I do? Lastly, I want to share a quick story about a recent incident with a guy I met. I met this guy through a meet up and he remembers me in the past meet up. With him remembering me from a past meet up I was excited- I thought it was funny he remembered me in the past. From talking to him at ...
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Dating during Quarantine
Posted Sunday July 26 2020, 10:19 am
I have been talking to this guy for 4 months over quarantine and we met recently. I had a great time on our first date and we recently went on our second date, which was kayaking. I really like him and had a great time but something has been bothering me... He told me over text that he was the type of guy to always ask permission to kiss or touch a girl in anyway because of how respectful he is. He knows that I really liked that about him. When we went on our second date he had asked me how i felt about a guy slyly grabbing my hand. I said thats fine as long as you don't pull any sly moves with me...
The date goes on and we are waiting for our kayake. He knew I was scared because i've never been so he put his hand around my lower wai...
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This guy is always selling himself to me
Posted Sunday July 19 2020, 2:29 am
This man i met from tinder is regularly video chatting with me to keep me company in the quarantine and we get along well. But he does this strange thing, he is always telling me how great he is... to the point where i get uncomfortable.
He says things like “Every girl that has ever left me always came back to see if we could try it again but i don’t see any point in taking someone back who took me for granted”
“My ex keeps video chatting me and showing me her breasts and her butt and her vagina and all i ask is ‘how is your mom doing?’ “
“I take care of my friends so well to the point where if one of my friends tells me he is going through a financial struggle, i would take a GROUP of my frien...
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Confused and scared
Posted Tuesday June 30 2020, 12:42 pm
Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I caught him cheating on me several times before we reached our 3rd year together. And now we are in a long distance relationship, and I just found out now that he is being bullied as chickboy with his friends on their groupchat and i jumped into a conclusion that maybe he had a fling with his classmate (girl) 1 year ago? Should I still be with him? We are already planning for our future and both our families are in good terms already. He is responsible in many ways and I can feel that he loves and cares for me but I can also feel the fear inside me.
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I don't think I can keep a promise to my bf
Posted Wednesday June 24 2020, 12:04 am
A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I got into a fight about me going back to work, because he's worried about the risk from COVID-19 and I work in a hospital. We eventually reached an agreement and I promised him I'd stay safe, let him know about my shifts, immediately stop working if my hospital admitted a case, and immediately stop working if the virus spread rates started getting too high. The cases are "too high" now, and he wants me to stop working and hold to my promise, but if I do it now, then I'll lose my job because prior to all this, I hadn't worked in 3 months due to the lockdown and wanting to keep my parents safe. He says he can't trust me anymore because I can't keep my promise, and I said I never should have had to p...
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Is it bad to only like Bisexual woman?
Posted Tuesday June 23 2020, 11:34 pm
Im a trans-male and i am straight. But i am not attracted to straight girls and i like the personality of bi girls. I do not want to fetish Bisexual women but i just would like to only date bisexual girls. Straight women for me "act different" and i am not attracted to that. Im sorry if I am being rude to bisexual women but i just need to know if its okay to only be attracted to bisexual girls. Thank you
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My girlfriend words things which throw me off
Posted Friday June 19 2020, 10:17 pm
So I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 1 and half years now. I was a single parent when i met her and we are what we think an amazing couple. Very alike yet still different in the right ways. Talk out almost any and all issues. She came into my life embracing my daughter and even planning days to spend and bond with her. Well covid 19 happened as we all know and my daughter for 2 months was stuck at her mothers since I was still working and going into work. Well over that time of quarantine my girlfriend moved in. All was really good but then my daughter was able to re enter living with us on shared time. Well my girlfriend over these past month and a half has been distant at times. We talked about it and me hoping they would still...
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My best friend is bisexual.
Posted Friday June 12 2020, 2:04 pm
I have been best friends with this girl for 3 years. We have had the best memories, she is the sweetest, most caring person I have ever came across in my life and I love her to death!
We got to know each other at work, we are both teachers. I was a 1st grade teacher and she was in Kindergarten. It was my first time as a 1st grade teacher. As silly as it sounds, we both wanted to work together and so I decided to try working in K for a year with her because we had the option to do that. (we live in an arab country btw and I am half American but she is pure arab)
After 1 year of knowing one another, we started working together on the 2nd year. We had the best year together, I love her so much! She is really my best best friend...
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Don't know what to do with my relationship
Posted Tuesday June 9 2020, 10:01 am
I currently am an undergrad student living with my boyfriend in New York state. I go to college here and am originally from NJ (about 3 hours away) I moved in with him once my school closed around March because of Covid and the day before my school closed we adopted a dog. I was volunteering there and met him first. Absolutely fell in love with him and I told my bf to come in and meet him (we has been discussing getting a dog for a bit). We ended up adopting him together. My bf paid the adoption fee and license since the apartment is in his name. However, this is where is gets confusing. After living with him for some time (this is the first time we've lived together) I started noticing attributes about him that I really don't like. It's no...
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Is 16 and 19 too big an age gap?
Posted Tuesday May 26 2020, 11:18 pm
OK, I've been friends with this girl on social media for a few months, and am contemplating starting a long-distance relationship with her (I posted a question on here about it not so long ago), as we're in two different countries. The 2 of us are very similar people, with the same interests, and similar personalities. But one of the things that kind of puts me off starting a relationship is the age gap- I'm only 16, and she's 19. I'm not planning to do anything sexual or anything, but am just kind of worried that even if she is interested in me the same way I'm interested in her, that the age will throw her off. Apart from the age difference, we're very similar people and I wouldn't want to mess up the friendship I have with her already by...
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How can I come to terms with marrying for money?
Posted Wednesday May 20 2020, 11:01 am
My fiancé (30m) and I (26F) are getting married in the next couple weeks. We’ve been together for two years and live in the US. I come from a really poor family and never had much of anything growing up and it was honestly horrible. I went to bed hungry so many times as a child and even when I grew up, moved out, went to college, and got a job to support myself on; life still sucked without money. I was constantly having to figure out how I was going to make rent, how to shop for a bargain, feed myself, etc. I always had multiple roommates and counted every penny. I typically lived in college apartments so they supplied the furniture because I couldn’t afford it. I wore the same clothes for years and could never afford to do anything...
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I don't know if I should go for him or not!
Posted Tuesday May 19 2020, 2:23 am
Hello,
I am from USA I am a girl and I am 18, and I have recently gotten feelings for a guy. My best friend and I are very close. My sister and her brother are even dating. My best friend has a friend who was dating the guy im into now. They were together for two years, and he ended things with her, because he didn't feel the same anymore, and things were different between them. I've been spent a lot of time with this guy before quarantine. Everyone thinks he's into me, he's a very good guy and we talk a lot over the phone as well. I like him but I don't know if I should make a move or not. If it would cause problems. My sister dislikes him, but she doesn't know him very well. My best friends brother loves him and thinks he's a really good guy. What should I do?
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New marriage dealing with porn and escorts
Posted Monday May 18 2020, 4:12 pm
25/f
Husband is 28/m
My husband let's me use his ipad for games and for looking things up. I was looking up something for my new game, Animal Crossing, continued my search and then forgot the site that I originally liked so I went to the history page. That's where I found all these porn sites.
We've talked about porn and where we both stand with it. I told him I'm fine with it as long as he's not watching it while he's hanging out with me. He told me he doesn't like to watch it often because he knows some men who got addicted and how it could ruin relationships. He also has pictures of me on his phone as well as some videos of me and of us and I asked him why he saved those and he said this is what I use when I ...
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Could a long-distance relationship work?
Posted Thursday May 14 2020, 1:15 am
I talk to this girl a lot and get along well- and just from speaking to her on Instagram- I've realised we have a lot in common- we even came across each other via the same interest. I'd love to start a relationship with her- issue is, she's in a whole other country (she's American, whereas I'm in the UK), I've never actually personally met her, have spoken to her through Instagram Live though so know what she looks and sounds like (so I know she's not a catfish or anything) and also I thought long-distance relationships have some sort of connection to bad luck. I genuinely think she could be the perfect fit for me though, because:
We both came across each other through the same interest, Strictly Come Dancing (well, the Amer...
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confused about feelings
Posted Wednesday May 13 2020, 8:35 pm
This is my first time using this site; II live in Canada. Male. I am just getting over a bad breakup (only 2 days ago) with someone I was and still am in love with. However, a friend of mine has been helping me through this and whenever I talk to him I feel my face heat up a bit and I feel... strange?
I can’t tell if I’m developing feelings for this friend (which seems weird to me seeing as how I still definitely am in love with my ex). Any ideas about my feelings?
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Do I message her first?
Posted Tuesday April 21 2020, 10:31 am
Hi, I'm 20 yrs old
I'm courting this girl that I've known since 1st year college (we're now in our 4th year)
And since our government issued a community quarantine we are just talking through messenger and sometimes I'll call her during the night.
But last week I felt that she's not interested in talking to me anymore. And I told her that it's hard to communicate to her these past few days. Then she said that she said that she's not in the mood to talk to anyone these days and that she gets drained and don't want to talk to anyone and that she doesn't know when that will stop. She ask if I'm upset about it.
I said No and I'll try to understand her and I'll wait for her.
It's been a week since then.
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"Modern Dating my a.."
Posted Thursday April 16 2020, 10:13 am
I am in my 30's and the guys in my generation are an absolute joke. Throughout my whole life I have been working on myself and have the worst of luck with guys. I don't understand why I can't simply date and I REFUSE to be apart of the trashy hook-up culture. Guys have never chased me and I have always been the one going after guys. What am I doing wrong? They reject me 24/7 and I am beyond sick of trying anymore. I don't settle for less, I don't take crap from anyone at all. I'm old fashioned. I have tried online dating- which is a complete joke, virtual/speed dating- another joke and if I try to develop some kind of connection it disappears. I have been ghosted, lied to, treated like crap on so many accounts or treated like an option. THE...
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