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Ex boyfriend problems


Posted Sunday March 13 2022, 1:04 pm

Well, my family knows about my ex. His family doesn't know we dated. At least I think? We are meeting this Friday along w other families and idk what to do

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Saying "maybe" to boyfriend's proposal


Posted Wednesday March 9 2022, 6:25 pm

My boyfriend Drew proposed marriage on a romantic camping trip about 2 months ago. I panicked and said I would have to “think about it.” He was gracious and said he would keep the ring in his pocket until I was ready to decide and said he respected my need to consider my options.
Even though he was classy about it, I felt rotten to see the totally crushed look on his face when he obviously thought I would say “yes” immediately. He tried to be brave and composed but you can just tell it was like I had mortally wounded him.
He has been somewhat depressed ever since, even though he tries to hide it and act upbeat and positive on the surface. He smiles and laughs sometimes, but it is a forced laugh and there is a s...

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laws pertaining to age of consent and statutory rape


Posted Monday March 7 2022, 3:30 am

I actually have a couple questions about Pennsylvania and Florida laws pertaining to age of consent and statutory rape. I'm trying to help a friend out and google isn't very helpful.

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shaving my underarms for girlfriend


Posted Monday February 14 2022, 3:58 pm

I don’t know if there is a contest for weirdest question but I feel mine might qualify to be in the contest. My big question is about whether or not to keep my underarms shaved or to let the hair grow back to natural. I am a 14 year old guy in high school. My girlfriend is 16 years old and amazingly beautiful and way smarter than me and a funny sense of humor. I did a dare where I let my girlfriend and her friend shave my underarms in a video to prove I was in support of women who had to shave there when guys don’t have to do it. I was trying to be in support of women’s rights but I found out from her later that was just an excuse to prank me and I fell for it. I guess it was funny. I say it shows I will literally do anything to k...

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Physical Relationship With Adult Female Boss


Posted Monday February 7 2022, 2:59 pm

I have a question about how to handle something that could be awkward. It is not a crisis right now, but it is something I am thinking about and wondering how to handle it when it comes up in the future.
I am 16M. I am having a consensual sexual relationship with my female supervisor at work. She is older than me at 26. I am a dishwasher at a restaurant and she is an assistant manager in charge of my shift. After we started being physical she made sure my two shifts each week are for the closing shift when she works (which is fine with me).
It all started when she found out I lied about my age on my job application. I was actually 15 when I started. I am trying to save money to get a car. Still working on that. She ...

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Is he interested? Is he being a jerk? Why is he around me?


Posted Friday February 4 2022, 8:45 pm

This is kinda annoying but I was kinda interested in a guy who is younger than me and I am in my 30's and he is in his 20's. I don't think we are that far apart in age. He seems like a fun guy but from judging from what I can see he cares too much about what people think of him and I can see he has some growing up to do. I don't know this guy that well but he is in the dance community so I know him from seeing him and started becoming a dance teacher. Over the years I have seen him dance by me on purpose with friends or he's near me with his friends. I also think he knows that I like him and I have complimented him on his dancing. He said he was flattered when I told him I liked his dancing. In the past I have tried messaging him and he ign...

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My girlfriend has no feelings for me anymore. what should i do


Posted Thursday January 13 2022, 11:15 pm

My girlfriend has no feelings for me anymore. what should i do?






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Parents don't like my boyfriend + Doing long distance soon


Posted Sunday December 12 2021, 2:35 am

Hello. I am currently a high school senior attending an international school in South Korea. I wanted to ask for some relationship advice because I have quite nobody to talk to about this...

My boyfriend and I have been dating for ten months now. He is the sweetest guy; never cheated or looked at other girls, buys me gifts, writes me letters, facetimes me a lot, helps me improve my confidence, gives me great life advice, etc. A lot of people talk to me about how they see that my boyfriend really loves me. Even the teachers were like "You guys could get married one day."

Although I really do enjoy the good parts of our relationship and we really love each other, not everything can be perfect. And the ...

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Doubting everything... What should I do now?


Posted Monday December 6 2021, 10:44 am

Hello..
I'm 32 years old, in a relationship for 1 year and almost half..
i am a person who is so jealous and doubts everything, not just in relationships also in life..
I question everything, search for reasons till i get satisfied.
I go through my BF accounts which he doesn't know..he says if you will do it do it infront of me, and honestly till now i couldn't find anything that triggers my thoughts but i keep doing it anyways, i know i should stop or at least try to fix myself.
But..1 week ago when i was checking again i found that he was flirting with this lady that they work together.. ( he's a head chef and the lady is a Pastry chef ).
That he wants to see her and he won't go to the venue if s...

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I think I upset my boyfriend and want advice on what to do


Posted Sunday December 5 2021, 6:59 pm

I'm a 17 year old girl and I was wondering, does anyone have any advice on what to do when you make a mistake with your boyfriend? I explained what happened underneath if anyone has the time.

Yesterday, I messages my boyfriend to hang out on a game called VR chat. He said yes, and when I got there he was with his cousin. His cousin created a voice chat for all three of us to talk while far away from each other. His cousin and I are friends so we started talking. We were in a plane flying map with a city and everything. My boyfriend was driving a plane and his cousin liked the ground shooting machines. His cousin went to a city building and was saying how no one could find him. I was said that I could see his name. I told him ...

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Trusting my husband when he is still friends with his ex?


Posted Sunday October 31 2021, 10:04 am

my husband is still friends with his ex. They have also been friends since they were teenagers through now. He had got her flowers about 6 months before we started dating, then a few weeks into our dating relationship, he took leave and and he had hung out with her back home. They went rock climbing and out to Olive Garden.
He never told me nor did he mention it was his ex. I seen a post on her Instagram and that’s how I found out. I got a little worried since I had seen a reciept that he got her flowers 6 months previous. I was thinking maybe he still had feeling for her. And I was upset that he never mentioned it was his ex. I let it go, cause we’re just dating and he’s allowed to have girl friends. Well we ended up getting ...

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Confusion with a boy


Posted Monday October 18 2021, 2:02 pm

So, I like a boy. He seems to have a lot of interest in me, and I like him too. But here’s the problem. He says he likes someone else, but also shows that he likes me as well. I’m confused and he’s confusing my brain. I truly don’t know what to do but I like him a lot

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Crush on my brother´s best friend


Posted Thursday October 14 2021, 6:30 am

Hi,
I´m 22 und im in the 1st year of my master degree.
Over the past year I had several crushes,some of them lasted longer than the other. In high school i had crush on my brother´s best friend (boy). I was in the same class with my brother as we are twins, my crush was in the same class as well. I hated that i was in the same class as my brother because guys in class treated me differently. This crush of mine teased me a lot but in a different way. My classmate told me its because he liked me. I never told him anything because he was my twin brother´s best friend.


After high school, we hung out a couple of times in a group of friends. One time it was without my brother. We were in a car with other ...

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Ex boyfriend broke up with me for dropping out of nursing school


Posted Monday October 11 2021, 1:44 am

About 2 years ago, my boyfriend at the time of four years broke up with me because I dropped out of nursing school and saw me as 'unstable'. He basically did me wrong and our breakup never had that closure. All of my friends and family knew what he did to me and they all think he's an asshole. Fast forward present day we both moved on and have new relationships. But a couple days ago, my cousin texted me and said that she saw him at a bar with him and his current gf. Apparently he was drunk and thought he saw me. And he also approached my cousin and kept grabbing her face and pushing her, asking if she hated him (I'm assuming because he knows that everyone close to me know what he did to me). Ever since we've broken up I've always wanted hi...

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I'm in love with two people


Posted Tuesday October 5 2021, 6:01 pm

I have a girlfriend that I love a lot, but I've also fallen for another person. I love both of them and I don't know what to do. This new person is stuck in my head but I know they don't like me the same way.

What do I do?

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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?


Posted Monday October 4 2021, 11:25 am

I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a...

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Ace dating an allo


Posted Sunday October 3 2021, 3:49 pm

So, I'm asexual but my boyfriend is not. I've already told him about it, and we're both fine with it, but we haven't actually talked about the sex part of our relationship yet. I'm not interested in having sex at all, but I'm wondering what I can do instead in case if he still needs SOMETHING?

And also, how should I bring it up to him to talk about?

-Cas, 26

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OCD About Searching Somebody Up. How Do I Stop?


Posted Thursday September 30 2021, 6:20 pm

How do I stop searching up someone’s username without blocking them?

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Cheated On Twice


Posted Wednesday September 22 2021, 11:32 am

Hi everyone. I'm 24/f and my bf is 28. So a very hurtful thing happened to me. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and then I found out that he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and got her pregnant. And the worst part is that he lied about it for so long. I didn't find out until the child was already 1 year old! So I broke up with him, it was very devastating because I loved him and thought we were going to get married. He was my first serious bf. He said it was just a mistake and that he was really drunk that night, and that he still loves me. Anyway, I didn't talk to him for about two years even though he kept trying to reach out to me. After a while I decided to talk to him again, and he really seemed like he changed. He was very lov...

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Cheated on partner


Posted Tuesday September 21 2021, 10:59 am

I have a bf and I cheated on him with his best friend. He loves me and I too love him but this thing is stuck in his head and he needs my help how can I help him forget this thing. The thinks that if he leave me ever think will be okay but we cannot be without each other what shall I do I'm really sorry for the mistake

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