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Posted Thursday October 30 2003, 11:43 am
I really like this guy. He has a great sense of humor and makes me laugh all the time and he is one of those "nice guys". He could go out with any girl and I just don't see how I would be good enough for him, but he flirts with me all the time. I know that that doesn't have to mean anyhing but I'm comfused. How do you tell if he is interested?
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boring guys?
Posted Wednesday October 29 2003, 7:17 pm
I'm dating a guy who's nice, but I'm just not feeling a "spark" or anything. We're comfortable together, that's all. Like really good friends. Is that enough for a lasting relationship? I'm just not the "fall head over heals" type.
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Old friend
Posted Tuesday October 28 2003, 5:15 pm
Okay. So there's this guy at my college, we've known each other for a few years already from high school. A few weeks back, we had a bit of a disagreement that wound up with us not talking to each other for a full week. The thing was, I wasn't even really mad at him initially, until he split from our one class together before I could say a word to him. Now, We've been friends for a few years and we get along really well, but tears were shed over this madness. I don't remember having such hurt feelings since... well, that's another long story. But it was a long time ago. Anyhow, another guy friend of mine and I had a two week period of not talking to each other, and it didn't bother me. Yes, we had a bit of a disagreement, but his ce...
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Ok what should i do now?
Posted Saturday October 25 2003, 7:07 am
Ok this guy i like (i kinda already told ya about this) well he's going out with my best friend and he tells me that he loves her and i don't understand why he's telling me this and when i hang around a couple of friends (really close guys) and he gets really mad and when his girlfriend wants to hug him or somehting and he sees me by a close (guy) friend he pushes her away and goes storm out the door. so do you think he still likes me??
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Got a question for anyone to answer
Posted Friday October 24 2003, 8:16 pm
Hey I was wondering if anyone who is on my advice column would answer this:
Ok if i like this guy who i've liked for along time and he's going out with someone what do i do lol
=^..^= ~Pamie~
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Sister/Sister/Friend Competition
Posted Friday October 24 2003, 7:40 pm
Okay. Here's the story. First I'll introduce the people that are involved or I will lose you. Rose is our age but went to a private school about an hour away this year. Another girl, Emily is still going to this school. Her sister Julianne just started going to our school and likes Billy. Last year, Billy liked Rose and found out that he liked her too. They didn't go on any dates or anything and Rose hasn't seen him since the end of the school year. Now, Billy likes Emily. Rose still thinks he likes her. Billy was going to ask Emily to the school dance last week but he didn't get the nerve to. For the first slow dance, he danced with Julianne. After Julianne, he danced all the dances wth Emily. Now Julianne is really jealous and not speakin...
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dump him or keep him
Posted Wednesday October 22 2003, 1:31 pm
I have been divorced for almost a year, and have been seeing a guy from work for almost a year, but used to he would always want to be around me, touch me etc., now i almost have to force him to do anything. he says he still has the same feelings for me and the thing is that when we get into an arguement he always tells me to shut up, that I am f-ing stupid, or go to He@@. He always opologizes and I know he has had a really rough childhood, both parents dying, his dad shot his mom right in front of him and his grandad used to beat him, I can deal with thie emotional rollercoaster with him anymmore, should i try to work it out or kick him out?????
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just friends?
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 7:01 pm
my friends are telling me I shouldn't even try to be friends with my ex boyfriend because that never works, but I think it can sometimes. what do you think?
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next part of question
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 5:05 pm
but what i wrote is not all. the other thing is that my parents have no idea i even like him and being the typical asian parents, if they ever found out they'd never let me go to church again. or a least not that one.
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ahhh
Posted Tuesday October 21 2003, 3:15 pm
me and this kid really like eachother. we cant go out though because this other kid likes me and we dont wanna hurt him (we are all friends) i need this kid to get over me. he has liked me for 2 years and i have tried givin him a chance but it never worked out. HELP
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There's this guy...
Posted Monday October 20 2003, 2:50 pm
Ok, there's this guy that I really like. We are good friends and I've known him most of my life. I don't know if I should ask him out or leave our friendship how it is and maybe look for other guys...(ok, I'm not from the US so I have no idea how your grade system thing works but I'm 16...not really young...). Anyways.
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comming out of the closet
Posted Sunday October 19 2003, 9:10 pm
I'm a bisexual girl, who comes from a pretty small town/highschool that doesnt have much diversity. My close friends all know im bi, but no one else does and I'm thinking of comming out. I don't realy know how to do it, however. It's not like I'd make an announcement about it or anything. "Hi, nice to meet you, I'm a bisexual." lol. Anyway I guess my question is does anyone have any advice about how to go about doing it? I mean if it comes up I'll be honest. but there are people who are friends who I'm close enough to to tell them, but would it be like overdramatic or self centered or something to just say it? any ideas on the topic?
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the dance
Posted Sunday October 19 2003, 12:29 pm
ok there is this guy .....and he is cute and everything...so i really wanna dance with him at the event next friday but.... my dad and brother are not allowing any danceing with boys ....plus my sis is going to so if she ses she will blab...what do i do?
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Confused love
Posted Saturday October 18 2003, 5:21 pm
I have in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now, and we have both declared our love for each other. I believe that we have a pretty strong relationship. We have a had the highs and lows, we both survived each other's families and each other's quirky little habits. I love him.
I'm currently enrolled in a theater class which requires us to sometimes be pretty intimate with each other. One of my really good guy friends is also in this same class with me. We had to do one scene where we had to kiss. That wasn't a big deal, it was a pretty quick kiss and it didn't mean anything in my part, however, during the time that we presented the scene, when he kissed me, he held onto much MUCH longer than necessary. There I was, wit...
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Jonathan and me
Posted Saturday October 18 2003, 4:21 pm
I have been going out with this boy for 4 mnths and i really care about him. I feel like everything thats going wrong in school or home i take it out on him and he will think i'm acting to bitchy and i'm scared of him breaking up with me. what should i do?
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Does he like me?
Posted Friday October 17 2003, 11:35 am
Okay, there are a couple of guys that I like, and I've never had a boyfriend before (I'm a junior in high school). I keep getting hints from other people that they like me, but I just don't have any clue whether or not they like me, and I really am getting tired of trying to listen to people who have no clue what they're talking about when they say that someone likes me. Any suggestions on how I can figure it out for myself without asking them straight out or asking their friends or mine?
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I'm to shy!
Posted Thursday October 16 2003, 8:25 pm
Okay, so i REALLY like this guy. But I don't think he would like me back. I'm in 8th grade and i've never gone on a date or "gone out" with anyone before. If I asked out any guy in the school they'd probably rush me to the hospital or ask me if I was joking. I dunno, maybe i just have low self esteem. But the guy I like is pretty quiet and really smart. Please don't tell me to just go for it, cause if he said no, it would haunt me forever!! (i'm sort of a drama queen. shut up.) So I guess my question is: How can you tell if a guy likes you/would go out with you without actually asking him?
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how do i turn him down
Posted Thursday October 16 2003, 8:15 pm
there is this guy who just asked me to homecoming. i dont really like him so i said that i would think about it, and fortunately for me a guy i like asked me and i said yes, now i dont know how to tell him that i am going with someone else because he was really expecting to go with me. how should i tell him i am going with someone else?b
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I want... no NEED a boyfriend
Posted Thursday October 16 2003, 6:17 pm
Everybody in my school has already had like 10 boy/girl friends... I've had none. Thats right... zip, zero, zilch! They all say how great it is to be hooked up, and they always have someone to dance with at activity nite. I have nobody!
Sincerely,
BoyCrazy
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I realize I am a dumb male, but I am trying to do the best I
Posted Tuesday October 14 2003, 11:54 pm
I realize I am a dumb male, but I am trying to do the best I can wth it. There is a girl I like, but due to several things, I can't ask her out or tell her how I feel for a while. That bugs me, but it's not what I'm writing about. We're getting to be pretty good close friends (which I feel is better for the long run anyway), and she's really cool. She's also big into feminism. I've always sort of considered myself a feminist, but never really thought about it too much. So now I'm wondering if I really am becoming more of a feminist due to her influence, or if I'm just sort of wearing it on my sleeve so she'll like me more. I don't like to do things half-heartedly, I feel it would be unfair to myself and to feminism in general. So am I really a feminist?
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