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What do you do when physical therapist is turning you on?
Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures and I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal. It sucks because I do play baseball, but at least I have lots of time to recover before next summer. So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week for 8 weeks and maybe longer depending on progress. After my PT they let me use one of the treadmills and I usually run for about 30 to 60 minutes. My post today is about the attractive female therapist I have been assigned.
I started with a guy but another patient who was way obese needed his help so he switched with this freaking cute as hell female therapist named Hallie. I noticed her the first day and did not think I would be lucky enough to get her but it did work out. She is actually very good at her job, very smart, great at motivating and encouraging, and like full of you can do it positive energy. I am guessing she is late 20’s or early 30’s. It is hard to tell but no matter what she looks great.
So the challenge is that I am turned on every single time she makes physical contact with my body (skin on skin or through my workout shirt). The contact is nearly constant during the hour doing testing and exercises. She also measures my arm and chest muscles weekly to monitor for atrofe which was hot because she made me take my shift off right there and I was nervous but she just smiled and said “don’t worry you look great” which made me feel sexy. She is not doing anything like obviously sexual, but her hands are all over my right shoulder, right upper arm, right pectoral, and sometimes on my back in the shoulder area. She does this rubbing and poking of my muscles in those areas she calls palpating. She also has me lift my shirt and palpates my ribs which still hurt like hell. It is just exercise and legit exam stuff but I am getting raging boners from it all.
I hoped to hide the situation but I am supposed to wear loose fitting clothes and normal gym shorts do not hide anything. She noticed me getting red in the face and acting weird and panicked and breaking out in a panic sweat and thought something else was wrong and asked and I just glanced down where my shorts were like totally tented and obvious. I whispered I was sorry and I cannot help it. She laughed but not like in a mean way and told me it happens a lot and she was “super complimented” and just said I was a healthy young man. I was like so relieved she did not think I was a perv even though I am obviously attracted to her. She actually handled it like a pro.
I asked about a pillow to cover my lap and she said “no, you are good.” At first I was thinking she likes making tent up but then it was obvious I am just changing positions a lot standing versus sitting for different things. So I am tented for the whole hour now doing my PT thing and she mostly ignores it.
The most sexual comment is she asked if I considered masturbating before PT so I might not get hard during PT. I think it was like a legit suggestion to help me not feel awkward. I admitted I basically do that now every time and I still get a boner and she laughed and just said “wow” which I think means she thinks I am a stud or that I am freak to masturbate that much.
I think she is using my obvious sexual attraction to her to motivate me. She calls me “stud” instead of my name and makes a comment about trading in the obese lady for a boy athlete. I get so red in the face but laugh pretty bad which always hurt my ribs. If I am finding an exercise or something painful or difficult she whispers “do it for me” in this like sexy voice and I swear it is like magic and I power through it and even if it hurts I don’t care because she is like acting all proud of me rubbing my chest afterward.
Basically, I am enjoying her attention and I don’t want PT to end. She is doing too good a job and I am getting better too fast. I am not stupid. I know she is not into me that way (or at least I sincerely doubt it). Even if she thinks I am cute for my age, the age thing is obviously a big deal. I am jail bait. And she would easily be able to get really cool guys her own age. Sometimes it feels like she is flirting and maybe she is trying to get me as horny as possible with the compliments and feeling up my chest. On the other perspective, if you like look at it from the outside she is just doing the normal stuff to help me and also trying to motivate me in my recovery. As proof it is working I have never missed a session and I always do my best and I always run the treadmill after just so I can watch her do her thing with the next person (sorry if that is creepy).
I have resisted the urge to say outright how attracted I am to her, but would it be cool to tell her that even just as a compliment not trying to make something happen? But that might take me from innocent horndog who cannot help it to weird perv who is actively fantasizing and crushing on her. What about getting her a gift when I am done just like a thank you but also cause I hope she remembers me? I know that is maybe dumb, but do people ever do that? Probably I will not ever see her or talk to her again once my therapy is done, but it is like she has invaded my brain and just thinking about going to PT turns me on. We already text about appointments and legit therapy stuff. Should I text her at all other than that? I am sad maybe I should not text her anymore. I sort of want to see if she would ever want to see me play baseball, but why would she want to go to a high school baseball game to see some former patient play? I thought about giving her an older uniform baseball cap from my team (not one I will use in the next season). Am I crazy? Be nice please I am not a perv just I dig her a lot.
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Sounds like she is understanding. And she has learned along the way how to motivate certain people. I had PT for an injured wrist once and all it was is appts made by phone to a receptionist but never getting a phone # of my therapist. So if compared to what its like for me on West coast, that doesn't sound normal, having your therapists phone #, but then maybe things are done different in your area. However, either way, that number should be used only for therapy related stuff and should not go past the completion of your therapy. Bringing a gift to her is also not normal. I can assure you that patients are not obligated to give a gift. Then again, I've never heard of patients giving anything other than the words "Thank you" and no gifts used, new, personal. I know that you would probably be okay but you can't be handing out gifts to every pretty female you have to interact with during your life. It reminds me of a story of husband at 5 0r 6 finding a girl in class he really liked...never had spoken with her. But took most of his mothers jewelry and gave it to her as a gift. So I am sorry but my instinct is to think this is something a young boy does..
You already said "but why would she want to go to a high school baseball game to see some former patient play?" You are right, if she had to go somewhere or see all her male patients she has had daily, weekly, monthly long after therapy is done, she wouldn't have the time to live her life or even date a guy of her choosing who is also into her. When one person is still in HS and the other older, that is an age gap that doesn't work at that time of life but couples who are lets say 25 and older can have an age gap and do well. You are young and despite exaggerations of your buddies, your responses are normal. Not all women look at a mans crotch to see if they are having an affect on him, whether she's married or not. The only one who matters is her husband or boyfriend and then looking is normal. If she was concentrating on the part of your body needing therapy, then she would be focused there, not looking at your crotch and as you said, she had no idea what was wrong with you until you pointed down. To her, you are likely just another patient, part of her work. And I'll bet there are rules about patient provider not having any romance or getting together. Now if you didn't have therapy and meet someone somewhere in public, coffee shop, park, great, those rules don't apply. So best just to treasure this in your memory and don't do anything further.
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