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i dont know what to do about specific guy
ive been talking to a guy but we havent texted in a week but theres something id like to tell him but i dont know if should text him again cause things are a bit awkward now.my friends are kinda...dont really agree(?)with me keeping contact with him, not because hes a bad person lol, hes just a penny pincher lol(we're both 18 btw, im a girl and hes a boy and we're both bisexual)
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Ignore your friends, it is your feelings that matter, not theirs. You don't say why things have become awkward, but that may be why he hasn't reached out. If you have something you want to say then reach out. If he doesn't respond or responds badly at least then you will know and can move on.
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Bisexuality or ones sex has no effect on whether a person will text back or not. I just figured you'd want to know since you made sure we know where you stand. So far, all you did is trade phone numbers and texted a couple times. So who asked for cell #, did you ask for his, or did he ask for yours. You may have liked him enough to ask for his cell but if he didn't ask for yours, he may not be interested in pursueing anything with you, even just friendship.
It has nothing to do with anything you did wrong. Usually, its due to lack of having the right pheromones. There are pheromones that cause you to want to be friends with one person and not get along with someone else. Same with the romance pheromone. Both people need to have close to the same kind and you can't tell ahead and there's no way to change yours. Its pheromones that help animals find their mate. Humans have hardly done any research on it. I lost track of the good articles I did find but mostly its hinted at as a scientific possibility. However, in dating after a divorce, I got to check out this thing called pheromones. If just right, you won't know by any way other than being really drawn to someone, a kiss from that someone is heavenly, whereas if pheromones are missing, the kiss feels like a brother or uncle gave you a romantic kiss and that is just so yucky a feeling, I know, i've felt it.
I personally wouldn't consider a person who sticks to a budget as a bad thing but there can be extremes in penny pinchers, however that should not be the reason you do or don't text someone.
If he has not called or texted, he is not interested enough initially to want to get to know more about you so he knows whether he wants to date you to get an even deeper knowledge of who you are. When this happens, often it is lack of pheromones being the cause. Oh you both have pheromones, just not ones in sync with each other, but they will be with someone else.
Also, don't expect much from young men 18 to 29 as they often are not ready to seek out the kind of girl to marry some day. Right now, they are not sure of what they want, only choose girls by how they look, or for sex but without pheromones, he will not go on forever with the sex, leaving and seeking someone else. So decide if you want dating just for the social fun, someone to hang with sometimes or go out to dinner or been seen with like an accessory, or if you are serious and ready to find a long term partner. Then even in long term, theres people who want to marry as soon as they have met the right one, and others who fear marriage or hate it, either through their own bad previous marriage or that of parents or other couples they know of. Worrying about not getting a text back is such a little thing. Keep looking hon. When I met my current husband, we talked on phone every night til midnight, he couldn't help it, he wanted that contact with me and that lasted one week until he had to see me again in person and we never stopped. Thats when you know a guy is into you.
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