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How do I move on?
Posted Tuesday April 14 2020, 7:14 pm
Male 24,my girlfriend broke up with me, I still love her alot.. We see each other every day,we have friends in common, I still think about her, at times I feel like picking my phone and calling her, but I know she does not love me as much as I love her....I'm trying to move on but I can't, she's always on my mind.
It hurts, and I don't know how to make the pain stop.
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“If you love them, let them go”
Posted Saturday April 11 2020, 5:24 pm
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are both 26. He moved to my state to be with me, we talk seriously about the future, and have considered moving in together. Everything between us is pretty much exactly what I want in my life, however there are two major hurdles in our relationship. First, he has committed to permanently living in my state, 4 hrs away from his parents, to make it work with me. He is very close with his family and I know that will be very hard for him, especially when kids are involved. Secondly, we are from the same religion but he believes in certain practices/traditions that would require substantial sacrifices on my side (i.e keeping kosher in my home, attending more religious events than I would normally...
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Am in a complicated relationship with a girl I really like
Posted Wednesday April 1 2020, 9:41 am
Male 24, from Nigeria.... There's this girl am friends with, we are both in higher institution, both in the same class and both live in the same hostel.... She's very smart, honest, beautiful she has alot of good qualities, and I started crushing on her, on a faithful day I decided to tell her how I feel about her and I did, that day she and I had a romantic time together but the next day she started acting cold towards me, I asked her why,she said she regrets what happened between us the previous day... A few days later we had another romantic moments again kissing touch and other stuff but no sex... The following day she acts cold again,I asked her what's wrong,that's when she told me that because she's a Christian that her religion conde...
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Boyfriend going to prison soon.
Posted Monday March 23 2020, 9:23 pm
Hello, I'm sixteen years old and my boyfriend just turned seventeen in January. We've been dating for about a month and a half now and I really like him! No one has treated me this well for a while. However, he's going to prison soon. He's facing up to twenty years and I don't know what to do. He's currently out on PR bond and we've discussed the aftermath.He doesn't want me to wait on him but I don't want to move on.. Any ideas on how to process this?
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I feel like my light went out, and I am filled with horrible feelings
Posted Monday March 23 2020, 10:27 am
I am a 24 year old female. I feel stuck in life, my boyfriend has a house with his mother, and one day when we sell the house (5 year plan) his mother will probably have to live with us. He bought a truck in January without my knowledge or discussion and that hurt my feelings and I was outraged. I know the love and affection doesn’t live on forever but lately it’s almost non existent. Sure, he’ll love on me when he wants to be intimate but then far and few in between. Lately, I’ve been angry, upset, and resentful (introvertly), and towards him I’ve just been like Eeyore. Several small things have added up to make me just constantly annoyed with him. And in truth, it all started when the truck came home, and weeks later his best fr...
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Depression and anxiety
Posted Saturday March 21 2020, 7:58 am
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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Going through depression and anxiety after a serious relationship ended
Posted Friday March 20 2020, 12:59 am
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about my future.
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Unknown Love
Posted Tuesday March 17 2020, 1:15 am
i’m in love with a guy and I haven’t told him, now we’re starting to lose conversation and not talking as much. I regret not telling him and I can’t stop thinking about him, I’m scared to say it to him, but is it too late?
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Not sure if he feels the same way?
Posted Thursday March 12 2020, 9:37 am
Hey there,
There is a lot to this, so please read if you can. I think it will help with answering this kind of question.
Basically, I'm 18 and a freshman in college. There is this guy I met last year that became a good friend of mine pretty quickly. He is still in high school, but he is 18 right now. He is in his senior year at the moment.
Personally, I don't think the fact that I'm technically older than him is an issue. I may be in college, but he'll be there too next semester. I just wanted to give some background so you understand what kind of lives we're coming from.
Anyway, the first time I realized I may care for him as more than a friend was when we literally talked until...
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The guy i like... i think im falling for him.
Posted Saturday March 7 2020, 7:00 pm
So i like this guy and we are friends. In fact i think im falling for him. I dont think i would ever be able to tell him because then i would loose our friendship. Sometimes i feel like he likes me and other times i feel like he doesnt. But another thing is he is trying to set me up with his cousin. I dont like his cousin like that. And i cant stop liking the guy i like no matter what.
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Can a 12 year age difference work out?
Posted Sunday March 1 2020, 8:50 am
I am love someone,and I am12 year older than her can our relationship workout????
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It’s way sadder now
Posted Thursday February 27 2020, 7:17 pm
I’m 13 and a female. I was bored and was reading weird stuff and recently got a boyfriend. I think it’s way worst now a days with 13 year olds doing out ragous stuff, have you even seen tiktok¿ it’s horrible what Dani Cohn was and still is doing. I’m sorry teenagers and tweens are so horny these days. With respect. Thanks.
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How to ask out a police officer
Posted Thursday February 6 2020, 11:45 pm
There is a cop that has been working on a case involving the place where I work. He comes in all the time when I’m there and seems like he’s flirting with me. Is it weird or inappropriate to friend/message him on Facebook?
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Dating dealbreakers and disclosing information
Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:33 pm
I have a vast history of sexual assault. I am in therapy and attempting to recover but I still struggle with the symptoms of PTSD on a daily basis. I am not necessarily comfortable talking about this part of my life with people and would prefer to not bring it up all together. Men, would you prefer a woman to be open about her past experiences? I don’t want to feel like I’m not being honest in relationships by not telling my partner. On the contrary, I am terrified of being seen as damaged goods and having way too much baggage for anyone to want to be with. Do you view women who are rape victims as too much drama and not worth it? Would it be a deal breaker?
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This girl love/loved me, but I don't know why she's giving me altitude
Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:09 pm
23 years male from Nigeria..... I met this girl about two months ago in school, you see I just got admission into university and we are both in the same class. When I first met her we clicked we had so much in common we became beasties,she would follow me around school and we call and talk to each other on the phone...she tells me deep personal stuff after herself and her family, she even jokingly said I should ask her out in like 3 months time....everything was going great until we both traveled for Christmas break but still got in touch with each other on the phone... She was even the first person to call and wish me happy new year...although I've not officially asked her out but we were like boyfriend/girlfriend..... on getting to school...
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Mental Health gone down the drain.
Posted Wednesday January 29 2020, 1:43 pm
Hi Everyone,
Its been a while since I posted here. I stopped asking for advice a long time ago because I never felt like talking about how i felt. However, I decided to give it a try and see what answers i get. I have been feeling so terrible and just need someone, anyone to listen to what i have been through the past few months, and past 3 years. It is a little long so please bare with me.
I have known this guy (lets call him M) for 10 years. We became friends when i was 17 and Now i am almost 26. I was head over heels inlove with him for years. I ended my first long term relationship when i was 17 and when i met him, i fell for him a few months afterwards. We share an amazing bond and have great chemistry. We unders...
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Cheating
Posted Saturday January 25 2020, 1:36 pm
My boyfriend of over a year just informed me that he cheated on me three times about six months ago. And my trust for him is just about gone, but I don’t know if I should go or stay. But he’s said he’s changed since then. I’m just not sure what to do??? - Female, 15.
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Am i a bad person
Posted Thursday January 23 2020, 1:40 pm
I need to know if im a bad person. I was recently broken up with due to something i did months ago. It was wrong and i should have been honest and not waited this long. When i was fresh into my new relationship i had a best friend. we had unfortunately dated thus my boyfriend did not feel i should be communicating with an ex. i dropped him from my life. social media, text, from hanging out. everything. just so my now ex would be OK. I accidentally forgot to delete him off of snapchat and one day he snapped me. i freaked out because i forgot i had not deleted him and i acted shady. i said it was someone else and would not show my now ex boyfriend. i panicked and deleted the app... after a week or two of begging he took me back. we broke up ...
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Does she still have feelings?
Posted Saturday January 18 2020, 9:08 am
Male, 21. PH
My ex and I broke up months ago (last year) and we recently had a closure in our relationship. But I still have feelings for her (she's the one who broke up with me). She made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, but these past few days she started messaging me again. We talked casually liked before. And again she made it clear that she just want someone to talk to because she doesn't have that someone who'll listen to her and that she doesn't have feelings for me.
What do I do? I'm confused. Does she still have feelings for me and that maybe she's just confused about it?
I still pray for her everyday.
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Wife's past is ruining our sex life.
Posted Friday January 10 2020, 3:53 am
Good day all,
I'm asking this question because I have nowhere else to go.
So here follows the situation:
The day I asked my wife out, she confessed that she had been in a sexual relationship with her previous boyfriend. Although I had been saving sex for the woman I would marry, I assured her that I understood her situation and accepted her past. I was, however, fairly foolish, and never asked to what extent she had this relationship and wrongfully, by judging what person she was, assumed that it was a case that certain things happened that she was not proud of, but all within relative bounds.
About two years after we had been married, and our sex life was taking strain, I finally put one...
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