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My family wants to meet him


Posted Wednesday January 8 2020, 10:15 pm

Ok so I am 30 years old and I have been talking to this 41 year old guy that I met on plenty of fish. We have only been talking a little over 2 months . He has already met my mom and stepdad . He is a really good guy. The problem is my mom told my aunt and cousin about him and now they are saying they want to meet him already. I think 2 months is a little to soon for him to meet my whole family. U want to take things slow and not rush into anything. Is 2 months to soon for him to meet them . How will I know when the time is right ? Thank you.

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My cousin and I have a crush on each other.


Posted Tuesday December 17 2019, 4:22 pm

I'm a sixteen year old girl and I have a huge crush on one of my male cousins. He's the same age as me and has a crush on me as well. I know this because we recently admitted our feelings to each other. Now we're both really confused because we're not sure if it's right for us to date. Also, we're worried about how our family will react if we do. Any advice?

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should i pursue this guy and how to tell my friend?


Posted Monday December 16 2019, 6:26 pm

a guy that i have a lot in common with likes me and i like him too. the thing is, my friend used to have a little crush on him. she never really fell for him because once she saw him around more she thought he was annoying. now she likes someone else and has no feelings left for the first guy. but you see over time i’ve started to like him more and it’s getting harder to ignore. i do know for sure that he likes me back. we walk in the halls during school and he’s very sweet to me. i just know he’s a very good guy and i have no doubt about that. everything about him is what i’ve been looking for, from his kind and funny personality, to his looks and charming attitude. what i don’t know is how to tell my friend that i like him and...

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I'm pretty sure he likes me, but uses the excuse of us just being friends?


Posted Sunday December 8 2019, 4:04 pm

Okay, I'm in a master program in Scotland for physical therapy and there is this guy lets call him Wayne from Canada. Wayne and I didn't not talk much at the beginning of the year and then we got super close during a class trip in May. Since that trip we just clicked and connected and have been flirting with each other. Then one night have after our neuro final we all went out as a class (I drank a little too much😜) and that whole night he was all over me (dancing, drinking, close touching) and he even walked me home (interlacing hands the whole way) and he lives on the other side of town. Then I went on clinical placement, he went out of town for it and he came back to town and we all went out for a drink. That night, same thing, we ta...

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Dating while lesbian


Posted Saturday December 7 2019, 7:30 pm

16 female. I'm openly lesbian, and my life is fine for the most part. Despite living in a small, conservative town that would probably fit the stereotype for being homophobic, I do just fine. In all areas except one: dating.

Tbh, being a lesbian feels pretty lonely. I've had a few gfs before, but none now. It feels like there's such a small population of lesbian and bi girls, then you narrow it down to people you'd actually like, then the ones who are single, then the ones who would like you...and there just isn't a dating pool.

And it feels like most of the LGBT stuff is so geared towards guys all the time, it annoys tf out of me that gay and bi men get their own bars and clubs all over the damn place, but g...

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can i be disvirgined at the age of 18


Posted Monday December 2 2019, 3:50 am

well,am a girl of 18 year and I had a boyf when I was 16 BT we never had any intercourse together because I told him I am not ready then BT nw DAT I turn 18 he is asking me for it,BT I really have a mix feeling abt giving up my virginity not because I don't lyk him BT I don't just no BT recently he is really afraid and asking for it because I will be resuming into a university, pls wat should i do ,I need advice.

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Moving forward on a decision that you made


Posted Friday November 29 2019, 12:04 pm

Hi so I am 20 years old and I am a university student currently. I met a guy in July 2019. He was working in a small market and i had went in their with a family friend because she wanted to make a complaint about something she had bought there. While she was there she was "quarreling" with this guy who seemed really confused about what she was saying, then a guy stepped in and saved the poor guy who apparently didnt speak English. I had guessed that and while observing his desire to try to understand the problem even after his coworker stepped in to help him I wanted to talk to him. So after that day i kept visiting the market with this note i had written. For about 4 days i did this but every time i went it was close. Then i fi...

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I’m 16 and never had a boyfriend should I be worried


Posted Thursday November 28 2019, 12:00 pm

I’m a 16 year old girl and I’ve never had a boyfriend before, unless you count elementary when I had a boyfriend for like 2 hours then we broke up cause we had to go home for the day. I’ve come close to having boyfriends, one was 7 or 8 grade, he wasn’t the best looking but I don’t pay attention to looks and he treated me with a lot of respect so I did like him but my mom said I was too young and plus he was moving to a whole another state as well so that didn’t work out. In 6 I had a crush on a guy but he asked my sister out and she knew I liked him so she happily dated him for 3 months then broke up with him for unknown reasons. Another one was at bible camp and he confessed his feelings for me via Snapchat but my dad and ste...

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I’m seeing a guy more than fans but less than an official relationship


Posted Wednesday November 27 2019, 1:54 pm

My question is if the guy that I’m seeing wants to secretly get me pregnant and why does he go hot and cold now when before he wouldn’t. Well, he last cummed inside me knowing that I am not on the pill and we look like a real relationship but just without the title. He has been out of a bad relationship that left him with a no negative contact restraining order that was violated and he almost went to jail for it. We had a huge argument when I got jealous about him talking to my friend then I got drunk and made bad comments ever since then he’s been restraining from cuddling me and he’s backed off with that special touch that we had together before the incident like he’s slowly progressing to calling me baby etc. again. He even reg...

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how to stay angry


Posted Monday November 25 2019, 12:27 pm

I am sure in your minds you are thinking why I want to stay angry at someone well I will tell u why
I like this boys in my class everyone now knows I like him because a couple of friends and I went to the movies and they made us sit together because some of them said he liked me I didn't believe them thought while others told him I liked him anyway we were siting together and we started cuddling up and my friends started taking pics I begged them not to tell anyone but one of the posted the pic on there statue so now everyone knows about us.
Anyway well a couple of days ago a friend of mine told me he liked me. since I liked someone else I told him I didn't like him that way but he still didn't give up he told me he was going ...

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Someone posted pictures of my boyfriend with a caption saying he’s single


Posted Saturday November 16 2019, 6:25 am

What should I tell to the girl who posted pictures of my boyfriend saying he’s single without me and my boyfriend knowing in a badass but educated way?

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Me and my guy problems lol


Posted Sunday November 10 2019, 11:55 pm

I have the worst of luck with guys and I have lots of book resources, I'm not sure why I can't find a decent guy to date. I am currently working on myself and it would be nice to date for once. Anyways, I know of this guy and I'd say he is probably 7 years younger than me. Needless to say there is a huge gap and not to mention maturity. I want to know why he is always around me then completely flakey. I get the notion he cares too much about what people think of him and is a bit weird. He is a nice looking kid and I might think he might be in the closet. Why is it so hard for us to be friends or connect? He's around me non-stop and looks at me ALOT. Btw we are swing dancers, in class he makes me laugh and I overall get the sense he's a smar...

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I have to meet the guy who ghosted me at an unavoidable party!


Posted Saturday November 9 2019, 6:16 pm

I am from Austria, 31 years old and a female. I met this guy at dinner with my friends. The two of really hit it off just talking, we had a great time, exchanged numbers. He sent me super romantic texts. So i figured it was okay to open up and i told him about stuff I was interested in plus, I asked him what his plans were for the weekend. After that he stopped responding. On the same day Friends told me, that a few days ago, he called them in the middle of the night to tell them he has fallen head over heels for me and he doesn't know what to do. So I tried it again after 36 hours, asking if he was very busy and that I hoped that he doesn't think of me as bothersome.I asked him to meet up with me to talk, because our mutual friend made me ...

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My crush


Posted Wednesday November 6 2019, 4:05 pm

My question is, my crush walks home with a girl every day. I walk home with him too but he's walked with the girl for longer. She's a lot more pretty and I feel like I have no chance, what should I do?

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Should i leave a loving bf who became possesive because of my past


Posted Sunday October 20 2019, 9:59 am

I had previously been in 4 relationships before i met this guy.. At the start of our relationship i lied to him that i only had one relation and that he was my 2nd one, but later on he came to know abou my previous relation when he found our earlier chats on fb and came to know the truth about my 4th relation..and i was physically close to the 4th guy but we never had sex.. But when my bf came to know about this we already had sex and this was my first time..so he was sad and frustrated on knowing abouth my 4th guy and that we were very close. So he brokeup later on bcoz of the gulit of making him sad and losing my virginity to him i said sorry to him..and we were back in relation but sometime later he came to know about the 3rd guy i previ...

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Guy I’ve been seeing


Posted Sunday October 20 2019, 9:29 am

27/f he’s 28/m
Hey guys! I just need some advice on my current situation. I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We talked a lot at this time and I went to his house to hang out we didn’t do anything sexual.. New Year’s Eve of 2018 we were both drunk and I drove to his house after late at night and we had sex. The sex was amazing it was passionate. After that he kind of would ignore me and our relationship turned into only having sex on his terms. I got attached and I got feelings. The things he would say to me while we were in person I believed. That he’s not seeing anybody else, that he’s into me. But then once I get home doesn’t answer my text doesn’t talk to me. He’s had sex with me while he has had a girlfriend...

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I’m worried I got in too deep...


Posted Saturday October 19 2019, 3:12 pm

So around 2 months ago one of my close friends from college introduced me to this guy. We started hanging out all the time and I enjoyed being with him. Someone who seemed to genuinely care. We started flirting, but I figured since he was friends with a lot of females he did that kind of thing a lot. I even told him that to his face. He kept telling me he didn’t and I kind of assumed he liked me as a friend. I’ve become friends with some of his friends and apparently he was telling the truth. I’m the only one he really gets they way with. A few days ago we were studying at my apartment together like we often do, and I accidentally tickled him so I took advantage of that since he always wants to tickle me. He ends up pinning my arms ba...

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Posted Monday October 14 2019, 4:59 am

my bf is not giving me any attention i want to leave him but be able to do

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My wife is aware of my crossdressing and i feel gulty


Posted Saturday October 12 2019, 12:03 pm

Ive been attracted to crossdress since i was a child. I met a wonderful woman about 5 years ago. From the beginning i was clear about how i liked to dress from time to time and she fully accepted me. I'm not attracted to males at all. I just love to wear female clothes. However...

We got married a couple of years ago and got pregnant. She agreed I could get dressed as long as she wouldn't see me or never be seen out in public as a crossdresser. That's hard to do since i didn't have a room to be my alter ego and there was nowhere to store my clothes without she noticing. I have no interest in be seen by her or anyone else. While pregnancy sex became monotonous and i wanted to experiment prostate stimulation. I told her briefly...

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How can I tell a guy that I am not interested in him ?


Posted Sunday September 29 2019, 4:25 pm

First of all, I got to know someone online on discord and now we are friends on FB but he is not my style and I don't know how to tell him without making him feel like it's his fault... He look like he is a good person but I cannot feel attracted to him . What can I do ?

Gender: female , 20 , Greece

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