Im a trans-male and i am straight. But i am not attracted to straight girls and i like the personality of bi girls. I do not want to fetish Bisexual women but i just would like to only date bisexual girls. Straight women for me "act different" and i am not attracted to that. Im sorry if I am being rude to bisexual women but i just need to know if its okay to only be attracted to bisexual girls. Thank you
As long as in your own mind, you don't feel it is wrong to be transgender or have specific sexual orientations, then the first step is already done.
So, yes its okay to like or be attracted to bi women. I had a neighbor lady who was bi and married but her husband took her to clubs where she could hook up with other bi women for the evening. So speaking of bi, is nothing new to me though I am straight.
I think that what has you most concerned deep down is how to truly find a partner or girlfriend. Granted, in your case, it may be quite a bit harder than it is for most people, being that you are not in the majority. So I am suggesting you try a chat sit or dating site for LGBTQ people. If you go with one for just Transgender or bisexual, you may not find someone who is willing and okayy with both. Even regular dating sites will have a spot for you to check regarding your sexual orientation and even though mine was checked for straight, I had bi or lesbian women contact me from time to time. Its where I met my 2nd husband. So If I were you and I wanted to find someone that met my limited criteria, I would go to the internet for help finding them. Good Luck! [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
isa9 answered Wednesday June 24 2020, 3:03 am: Hey! To start off, I want to let you know that there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being YOU.
Your gender doesn't have to fit a specific norm. Just because you are a trans-male doesn't necessarily mean you only have to be attractive to straight women.
Whomever it is you feel a better connection with is really who you should be going for. Don't ever think that something isn't okay just because it isn't as common.
It is perfectly fine being attracted to a bisexual woman rather than straight one. Don't ever feel less or weird because of your preferences.
Remember that no one is allowed to judge you for who you are or what you like. Keep on doing you and stay safe. I hope this helped :) [ isa9's advice column | Ask isa9 A Question ]
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