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How to Quit My Job
Posted Saturday July 1 2023, 10:49 pm
I took a break from school and started a retail job a few months ago. I thought it was going to be fun, but it turned out to be way more stressful than I thought. It's very fast paced and it seems like it's always busy with customers. When I get home from work I don't have any energy to do anything else. In the time that I've been there, many people quit. A lot of them just stopped showing up, and I understand why. I asked my boss if she could shorten my hours, but it didn't really help.It's very tiring, and the managers are nowhere to be found whenever we need help. I decided to sign back up for college and I'm starting the end of August. I was trying to hang on until then, but everyday I'm feeling more and more like I want to quit. I eve...
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Should I tell my friends about the mess that I'm in?
Posted Wednesday June 28 2023, 4:00 pm
Awhile back, I took my car for a drive and was looking at my phone when I should've been watching the road. I ended up going through a red light and collided with another car. Luckily, no one was hurt, but I was charged with reckless driving.
Yesterday, I received my sentence. The judge decided I should spend ten days in juvie (I'm 17) in order to learn a lesson about texting and driving. I'm being allowed to serve my sentence incrementally, on weekends. This is so I can keep my summer job. Basically, I'll be spending every weekend in juvie until the end of July.
I still can't believe I got myself into this mess. Why was I so stupid? Why couldn't I have just waited until I was home before responding to that t...
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not allowed to see grandchild or even talk
Posted Sunday June 25 2023, 12:01 pm
Im at my wits end, nobody seems to care. Its been 6 years , my daughter got in a fight with my son, has not allowed me to see my grandson, who I love dearly because I told her it was wrong to assult my son. She blocked me in every way. Now I'm sure my grandson probably doesnt even remember me, he was 3 . Its has devastated me . I've tried I've begged my family to help , I sent cards, gifts texts unreturned, calls ignored. ITS KILLING ME.She has never been kind or good to me, never said I love you or even called me mom. Do I give up, do I hire an attorney, do I show up and try to talk to her at her job? I don't know her address she has moved, now getting a divorce. Im afaraid I will never see them again.
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Is it weird that my roommate and I share a bed?
Posted Tuesday June 6 2023, 6:08 pm
My roommate (f/20) and I (f/20) moved out of the dorms late last year and into an apartment. Because rent around here is really steep, we were only able to afford a one-bedroom apartment. We initially planned to get a couple of twin beds for our shared bedroom but, in the interest of saving more money, we decided to get one queen bed, which we both share.
At first, we worried this might be a mistake, but it's actually worked out really well. Every night, it seems like we lie in bed chatting about anything and everything for at least a half-hour before finally drifting off to sleep. It's kind of like being a kid again and getting to have a sleep over every night. Plus, knowing we're gonna be sharing a bed at night encourages u...
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Catching feelings
Posted Tuesday June 6 2023, 5:08 pm
Ever since I started school I've noticed this guy that kept staring at me. Like one time I was at a function and I saw him looking at me from across the room, and he never broke eye contact with me. Or even sometimes when I passed him in the hallway he'd continue looking at me almost as if he wanted to say something to me (but at the time we didn't know each other yet). Anyways as time went on I started noticing myself thinking about him and finding him attractive. Fast forward to today, fate happened and we got paired up to work together for an entire school at the dental clinic. He's been very communicative through text about managing our patients together and he'll often come to my cubicle and talk to me after I'm done with the appointme...
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I can not concentrate anymore
Posted Sunday May 28 2023, 9:16 am
hi. I am in university and although I procrastinate, usually I am able to get myself into the "studying" or a concentration headspace easily, especially when I have to do something on time. but these two months I have been unable to focus at all, I won't be on my phone but I'll sit and stare around or think or I'll eat and eat instead of studying.
lately, I have been feeling very sleepy throughout the day. at first, I thought it was just the fact that I pulled an all-nighter so my mind-body needed to rest but it is so hard for me to not want to sleep when the clock hits 4pm.
my exams have started an I can not bring myself to study or do anything like clean my table or pick up my shoes. I used to pray and re...
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about how he thinks
Posted Friday May 26 2023, 12:43 pm
so, there is this guy at school i joined this school this year and now its only a month left but i've had a crush on his since half the year he's 11th nd im 10th and once i noticed him i looked at him and when i do he almost always looks back or i sometimes catch him looking at me even while he's talking to his friends and i have no idea if he like me because he doesn't smile while looking at me, well neither do i but that's because im nervous thinking he might not smile back and well people tell me im pretty but gosh i have no idea if he'll ever approach shoukd i follow him on instagram, should i approach and how? i really like him
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How do you balance Going To School And Working At The Same Time?
Posted Saturday May 13 2023, 11:32 pm
How did you manage going to school and working all at the same time? Was it difficult, easier, or stressful? I am just curious because I want to work part-time and attend school, but I am not sure if it is a good idea since I have 4 classes this semester. I don't want to mess up my grades or fail a class. But I really need the money. Also, can you provide tips on how to balance this out!
Thanks in advance!
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Please help me
Posted Friday May 12 2023, 9:08 am
i need advice for one of my problem i dont know what to do .could you help me .I had 2 friends in highschool but becuse of some problems in the past i had to keep distance from them.but they are not the cause of it.its me iam the problem.but after years also they msg me and tell me they want to see me talk to me .but when i think about them i think about my hurtful past abd its givivgvme pain .what should i do.iam in total confusion .i dont know what to do .its not their mistake that i distance from them but its just that they remind me of the dark past that i want to forget .what should i do should I reunite with them or should i ingnore them.when i ingnore them i feel like iam doing something wring but if I think about facing them i feel ...
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Coping with envy
Posted Tuesday May 9 2023, 9:27 pm
I am a 31 yo woman and married. My husband is a research scholar in USA and I am doing my PhD in Europe. Initially I moved to US with him and had a very happy and comfortable life. The honeymoon phase of marriage went well for almost 2years and then he decided to move back to our home country to pursue his dream career in academia. I, on the other hand got admission in a very nice PhD program and moved to EU and started living apart from my husband. I let him know how I want to see our future in US, so he applied to several places in the US. However, due to covid and recession, he could not secure an academic position there and got a great position in an eminent institute back home. He doesn’t want to sacrifice his dream career of an acad...
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Depression and job
Posted Thursday May 4 2023, 11:29 pm
I notice no one gave me any advice for my post the other day. I could use the advice. Guys, I need help. For some context, I am 18 in college for 3 days, and work 4 days. I have been battling depression and feel miserable at my job. I have been stuck between 2 places. I either need to ask for ADA reasonable accommodation or that requires a professional diagnosis but I honestly want just to quit. I desperately need accommodation so I can take extensive breaks or work less. I can't go to school Monday-Wednesday and work Thursday-Sunday. on top of keeping my grades up and taking driving lessons. My mental health has been tanking after 8 months of relative happiness now I feel miserable and have thoughts of ending myself(here and there, this is...
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Am I wrong and how do I trust?
Posted Sunday April 30 2023, 7:33 am
I started dating a married man, we where both in bad marriages. I planned on leaving and he fell in love then lied to me saying he was in process of leaving. I found out the truth that he was having trouble leaving but now assures me he is and wants to give me proof in 1 week. Am I wrong for this? Then again how could I ever believe anything he says now?
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I can’t seem to pull the trigger on my divorce
Posted Thursday April 13 2023, 4:43 pm
My husband (36M) and I (35F) will be together 13 years, married for 10 years this summer. I have thought about divorcing him everyday for the past 8. We have a daughter (8F) together.
We we’re always fine until we moved to his hometown 8 years ago. Before that I was in the service and he was in construction. Once we got near his family- EVERYTHING changed.
His family, specifically his dad, is always around- every day - all day. I wake up and his truck is in my driveway. His other family members- mom, sister, uncle’s, grandparents are constantly here too. There is no peace. To the point where I cry (to myself) from frustration and now so does my daughter. We’re just like, “GO AWAY!”. They are all good ...
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Very indecisive!
Posted Wednesday April 12 2023, 5:48 am
Hello,
So to keep it short, my sister passed away a few months ago at the start of the year and it has been devastating to say the least. My wedding is in the summer and it is a few months away. At first I wanted to postpone it a year, however, because of my family's circumstances and us always being abroad and away from one another, we decided it would just be best to have a small "reception" instead of a big wedding sometime in the summer so that me and my soon to be husband can live together since we have been waiting for that for a while.
It was a very hard decision for me to make as me and my family are grieving and we are such a close and big family. The thing is, I am okay with my decision be...
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Meeting my boyfriends daughter!
Posted Friday April 7 2023, 12:02 pm
I a 34 year old female with no kids of my own and never been married. I will have been dating this awesome guy for 6 months on April 27th that I am am in love with . His daughter from a previous marriage who lives in California to Georgia where we live for a visit for the whole summer in July. I am concerned she won't like me . I am really excited about meeting her , but I also nervous because I've never been around any kids besides family and don't want to do or say the wrong thing to make the 6 year old not like me . He wanted me to go Disney world with them for her birthday,but I politely declined because I feel like that should be a trip with just her and her dad and I don't want to intrude to early in the relationship. I was wondering ...
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what are the chances of a false positive?
Posted Saturday April 1 2023, 2:19 pm
I see my gynecologist once or twice a year since I had my daughter. I've been negative for all the routine swab tests like gonorrhea or chlamydia. last year in February I got a new primary care doctor and had to do blood work. I've never been tested for this because apparently doctors don't check for it unless you ask? so I got tested for hsv 1 and 2. 1 came back negative which is oral herpes. I tested positive for hsv2 which means genital. I have only had 1 sexual partner and I've never had a single symptom. The only thing I can think of is sometimes odor but usually only when I'm active and get sweaty a lot. my results were like 10.4 so on labcorp it says it's very hard to be inaccurate. Its been a year and I still feel like falling apart...
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My orthodontist recommended Invisalign. Should I get braces or Invisalign?
Posted Monday March 20 2023, 11:56 am
Invisalign costs the same as braces which is 5,100. I think I need braces, but ortho strongly recommends Invisalign. Does anyone have any experience? Which is the best?
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Getting married and on disability!
Posted Tuesday March 14 2023, 3:23 pm
I am 33 years old and have always wanted to get married and I currently have been dating this wonderful guy for almost 5 months and I totally in love him and want to marry him one day ,but the thing that is getting in the way is everyone keeps telling me we should just live together because if we get married I will lose my disability check and insurance , I just don't feel right about doing that for one I am a Christian and it is against both of our religious beliefs to do so and for another I feel like that's cheating the government. I just wouldn't be able to afford my medicine and my medicine is over $4,000 and I just don't know what to do please give my advice any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
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Going to club
Posted Saturday March 11 2023, 6:52 pm
So my niece is 21 and is getting a divorce and I am 33 never been married so I don't know if this ok or not . She wants me to go the club with her next weekend,but I am in a steady relationship with someone we have been dating for almost 5 months . I really don't want my niece at a club by herself ,but my niece is in a different town than my boyfriend. I am supposed to bending the with her. Do I need to tell my boyfriend about my plans and see if he is ok it because I know my niece will go by herself if I don't go with her . Please help !
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Random
Posted Saturday March 4 2023, 8:53 pm
Hello everyone, I accidently came across this website and found a section where I can ask questions. I noticed that alot of these questions date back to as far as 2006. Its 2023 now and I was wondering if people are still active. I feel really young too because of how old this website is but that's not rly a surprise I'm only 14.
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