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How to address a breakup if you work together


Posted Tuesday February 28 2023, 2:56 pm

Dated my co-worker in secret for the past 3 years. She never wanted to come out for fear of repercussions at work. We talked about a future together and I fell hard. Now she broke it off and wants space. I am in love and want some advice on dealing with it since I see her every day at work.

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Is it wrong that I let a guy finger me ?


Posted Saturday February 18 2023, 5:44 pm

Am I a slut ? I am 16 and have never had any sexual experiences. I haven’t even had my first kiss yet. Today I met up with a guy friend of mine, we know each other since we were babies. Anyway we kinda confessed to each other a while ago but nothing happened. Today I went to his house and we were alone, after chilling on his couch for a bit we started to get a bit touchy and in the end he fingered me. I was raised very strictly where I am not allowed a boyfriend until I’m 25 or so. We haven’t even kissed yet so I feel like a slut since I haven’t even had my first kiss yet but now my first sexual interaction. We aren’t even together. Please help me out here maybe with some reassurance. I feel very guilty :(

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Wedding and death of my brother.


Posted Tuesday February 7 2023, 7:09 pm

Hi everyone,
I hope whoever is reading this has the patience and understanding that I am looking for, it makes me a little uncomfortable to write here and look for advice from strangers, but I need to vent to people who might not be judgmental to my given situation.

Me and my Fiancé have been engaged for two years, we are both 29 years old and were supposed to get married in the summer, next June. My brother lives in the U.S and both me and my Fiance are live in a different country.

My two sisters, who live with him in the U.S, called me about a month ago saying he has passed away in his sleep. Of course, this was such a big shock to everyone and even to my Fiance, because he was his good friend even...

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I want to join a sport, but am not sure how to go about it.


Posted Monday February 6 2023, 3:04 am

Hello! So I'm a 7th grader, and I'm kind of a very flamboyant, non-sporty kid, even though I demonstrate being athletically pretty good. I recently went to a hockey game for our hs and I decided that I really want to play hockey. It seems to me to be a sport that I think fits perfectly within my inteserest, but I sort of have an issue; I've literally never played hockey. Apart from helping my sister with field hockey, and the occasional floor hockey for PE, I know nothing about hockey. I feel like because of my age, it's a difficult point to jump in, as many people my age are advanced. So, I guess really, all I'm asking is, how do you think I should start?

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I ask my parents to ground me when I have a lot of homework/studying to do


Posted Sunday February 5 2023, 11:03 am

I'm in tenth grade and happen to take school very seriously. Unfortunately, the same can't always be said for some of my friends and boyfriend. It seems like they're always nagging me to come hang out w/ them when they know I have a lot of studying and/or homework to do.

To get around this problem, I've started asking my parents to ground me whenever I have a lot of work to do and everyone insists on blowing up my phone. That way, I have an air-tight excuse for not being able to hang out. I usually owe them some favor afterwards, usually an extra chore or two, for enforcing these groundings, but I don't mind. It's worth the tradeoff, IMO.

My sister thinks I'm a total weirdo and dishonest for doing this. Persona...

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Valentines gift for boyfriend !


Posted Friday January 20 2023, 8:59 am

33 female
I having been dating this guy for almost 3 months and valentines day is coming up . I already got him a cd of his favorite band korn. I want to getchim something else . Am I to old to be making gifts . I was wanting to make him something. What are your thoughts . I am on disability and money is tight but I still want to get him some thing he will love . Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

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What to do if a friend acts in such way?


Posted Tuesday January 3 2023, 8:36 pm

So I have a childhood friend say her name is Becky,and we use to play together. Now we have common friends. When we ask her if she wants to come for a walk or for a outing, most of the time she says no.We do ask her if she wants to go with us but now we have heard saying her no so many times that we also have stopped asking her always. I can understand she might have issues so i never argued with her. My other friends and her had a Fallout earlier as well but things were going okay now. Resently we made a plan to go out, we were total 6 people and one more who couldn't make it.
So the organizer of the plan in middle had a fallout due to family issue and plan was cancelled but then he again said it was okay but due to that my other fr...

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Problems in new promotion


Posted Thursday December 22 2022, 6:21 am

I recently got a promotion at my work - was very excited for it as it involved my leading more higher end projects and taking own higher level individual work as well. Ever since the promotion however, all the other staff members in my department have said they want in on more of the higher level things too and have started collecting + hoarding orders to themselves (all store orders are placed in an area that everyone can access at all times, there’s no assigning of orders, it’s just who grabs what.)

The people who work the morning shift with me arrive earlier than me now, distribute the orders they want amongst themselves and then when I come in to the start of the shift, I am left what are the “lower level” orders...

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I don’t know any attractive females and that makes me angry and depressed?


Posted Sunday December 11 2022, 10:27 pm

I want to be acquainted with attractive females so badly but the ones I interact with Mostly thanks to my job or other activities tend to be unattractive or old and that makes me angry. For example, in my college classes, even though there ar lots of attractive girls on campus, in my classes the girls are pretty much always unattractive/ugly. At my tennis classes, sometimes we might get an attractive female for a session or two but most of the time it is ugly/unattractive women, and at my job at a store the female employees are unattractive and most of the customers are older including old women

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In-Laws Want Money


Posted Saturday December 10 2022, 9:30 pm

Hello. I live in the U.S. with my bf. We're both in our 20s. He has a decent paying job, but we're definitely not rich and rent is very expensive where we live. The problem is that my bf's parents live in a third-world country and they expect him to send money home every week. We used to do it, but we recently had a baby and money is very tight now. We haven't sent them money in a few weeks, and his mother is really angry about this. We decided that I would stop working for a year or so to take care of the baby, but now his mother says I'm the reason why he can't send money anymore. She is really upset and she's blaming me for everything. Also, the other day his sister made a comment saying that my bf shouldn't spend all his money on me bec...

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Relationship with my crush


Posted Monday December 5 2022, 5:12 pm

My crush has rejected me but we are still great friends. He says he relationships are too much work and he wouldn't want a girlfriend but he keeps giving me signs that he likes me, like he will annoy me when I am not talking to him or let me hug him once in while(which he doesn't allow anyone to) or just tease me sometimes. I don't know what impression should I take from this, does he like me or not? my age is 15(girl) and he is 15 too

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How to get my dog to "relieve" himself in one spot?


Posted Monday December 5 2022, 11:51 am

I recently adopted a blind dog and he poops in different spots all over the small back yard I have. I would like him to do it one area. Is it possible to teach him?

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How can I fix this?


Posted Sunday December 4 2022, 9:22 pm

Hi there, I hope you're doing well. First, I want to ask for no judgment when reading this because I am not proud of this at all, and I will do anything to fix this. So this Halloweekend, I went to my friend's college to party with her and some of our other friends. We had drank a little in the beginning before heading over. When we met up with our friends, there was a guy with them and I thought he was really attractive, but I was a little tipsy and while at the party, everyone was drinking so naturally I started dancing in front of him and got really close with him and even started feeling his chest dancing with him, but he didn't seem to mind. I even asked him many times, 'Is this okay'', 'Please let me know if this makes you uncomfortab...

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Christmas stockings for my boyfriend!


Posted Tuesday November 29 2022, 11:56 am

I am a 33 year old female and my boy friend is 34 and I was wondering if he was to old for a Christmas stocking if not what can I put in it ?

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Should I tell my family that i have a bf when they told me I can't yet?


Posted Tuesday November 22 2022, 8:30 pm

I am a younger person, my family says i can't date till I'm am 16 (i have a few years to go still), but I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart I haven't meet him in real life yet but i know what he looks like. I wouldn't say my family is strict but I'm just worried if i tell them about our relationship they will make us brake up.

Should I tell my family?

(his family knows about us and is happy for him)

I wouldn't like to say my age but I am female.

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My bofriends birthday is on Christmas!


Posted Thursday November 17 2022, 8:37 am

I am a 33 year old female and my boyfriend is 34 and we have been dating less than a month ,but his birthday is on Christmas. I was going to get him 2 separate gifts one for his birthday and 1 for Christmas I just don't know what . Any suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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jumbled feelings


Posted Wednesday November 16 2022, 12:14 am

okay so lost my virginity last month with a tinder man after only knowing him for about 2 hours this is not how i would have liked to do that not really bc it was my first time more of i just didn’t know the guy at all and to make things worse my cherry popped and it was a whole thing prior to all this the man laid things out really clearly that there are really 3 options on how things go with new people 1 relationship 2 friends but more 3 fuck buddies i understood 2 as friends that could turn into more but after the night of i came to realize that it was more of friends with benefits so i said 2 is how i would like to go about things and then he mentioned that he had no time for a relationship and 2 would work better for him anyways but ...

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Should my 15 year old daughter visit her mom who will be in jail


Posted Sunday October 30 2022, 2:28 am

The charge is a check fraud charge and it is a six month sentence. My daughter she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. They have a good relationship. The main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating. Is that ok for a 15 year old to see? Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom having to wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny.


Interestingly I talked to a guard and t...

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What do you do when physical therapist is turning you on?


Posted Tuesday October 18 2022, 3:56 pm

Hi. My first name is Tanner. I injured my right shoulder in a fall trying to do parkour on some concrete structures and I am obviously not as good as I thought. I had other injuries but the shoulder is the big deal. It sucks because I do play baseball, but at least I have lots of time to recover before next summer. So right now I am doing physical therapy for one hour 4 x week for 8 weeks and maybe longer depending on progress. After my PT they let me use one of the treadmills and I usually run for about 30 to 60 minutes. My post today is about the attractive female therapist I have been assigned.
I started with a guy but another patient who was way obese needed his help so he switched with this freaking cute as hell female th...

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Ridiculously overprotective parents?


Posted Monday October 17 2022, 7:17 pm

I posted something along the lines before but it’s really getting frustrating the way they’re treating me now. I’m 19M in UK but my parents never let me go anywhere by myself- I always have to tag another family member along; maybe they think because I’m autistic, I need more support? But in actuality, with me being autistic, I prefer my own company. I have a hobby of just going to see TV shows being recorded but all the time I have to have another person along with me; who may find whichever show’s in question boring. As well as that, I quite like exploring the surrounding area which is pretty hard to do when you have another person joined at your hip. Also, I can’t drive (I’m dyspraxic so struggle with coordination) so usual...

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