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I'm tired of always being the second choice.


Posted Wednesday July 20 2022, 12:11 pm

I'll be honest. I have plenty of friends.The problem is none of my friendships are very deep.Some of them I will get closer to and feel like our friendship is doing great, but then when any of their other friends are around they completely ignore me! But if I start talking to someone else because they are ignoring me, they will start trying to get my attention. What should I do?

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Should i buy my old Subaru back now that its forsale or buy a new car


Posted Wednesday July 20 2022, 12:14 am

Im really having a tough time deciding its tearing me apart literally my brain it’s fighting with itself on this decision i loved my Subaru but it also brings back alot of dark memories so im not sure what to do i could buy back the car that i love or start looking for something different im really stuck on this and before i buy a car i want some guidance

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How do I end sexual affair with my boss?


Posted Monday July 18 2022, 12:58 pm

I have created a really messed up situation with my regional sales manager at work. We both did wrong but now I am stuck and not sure how to untangle it all without damaging my future. Even though I resent some things that have happened I am also not interested in causing problems for her or my company if it can be avoided.
I am 28M (Josh) and a field sales representative for past three years. I am still one of the youngest people with a territory my size and my growth and retention numbers are consistently higher than most. I work with buyers for other companies, so building strong personal relationships is important and my buyers seem to love me a lot and I work hard for them.
The person who hired me is a 38F (Vickie) an...

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Telling parents about mental health


Posted Sunday July 10 2022, 3:47 am

I'm a 20 year old female. Should I tell my parents about what's been going on with my mental health? Trigger warning engaged: I've been noticing that it's gotten bad and it's gotten to the point where I hurt myself, but I'm not cutting or burning my skin. I feel like I should tell my parents. But I don't want to add more to their plates, especially since my mom has a surgery coming up. I kinda don't want to tell my dad cause he's kinda partially to blame because he's kinda a narcissist and I never feel like I'm good enough for him. A part of me doesn't want to tell my parents because they have said that if I show signs of self-harm, they were going to send me to the hospital. What should I do?

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I am actually scared whether I have contracted some STI or not


Posted Wednesday July 6 2022, 1:34 pm

Hello, I am 19 year old guy from India. Two days ago I decided to test my sexuality and I had an encounter with a guy. It was oral sex which lasted for a minute or so but I did it without a condom. Before that I asked him whether he was free from STIs or not to which he said yes he had no STIs as such. After the act, I bathed myself twice.

Now this is was my first encounter which was up close. I am actually scared. I want to take a test but the cost is a huge hinderance. I cannot tell this to my parents cause they are not open about this. Luckily I have not showed any symptoms of a disease yet. I pray to God everyday that I am fine. This is a huge confidence downer for me. I am also thinking of asking him again. What should I...

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Should I ask my new BF to let me measure his manhood?


Posted Tuesday July 5 2022, 6:11 pm

There is a thing in my friend group right now where the girls are comparing their boyfriend’s size like a dare where everyone is supposed to personally measure it while their guy is having an erection. They have gotten very detailed with the rules on this. I am not even sure what the prize it. Probably nothing. There is no way to know if the person is telling the truth on their own guy. Only two of the boyfriends have cooperated so far. I know this is a stupid peer pressure thing, but I am thinking about asking my boyfriend. We have only been dating 4 weeks but he said he has been crushing on me for years so he might actually be willing to do it if I ask. He admitted he is eager to get physical but is naturally shy (which is why i...

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What do I do with my ridiculously hot new straight friend?


Posted Tuesday July 5 2022, 3:25 pm

I am an openly gay 21m and I am very lucky to go to a school where there is a lot of acceptance and encouragement and I feel surrounded by allies. I am surprised especially how some of the notorious jocks and aggressively straight guys handled it. I think it says something about attitudes in my generation.

Almost all my guy friends are straight and they deal with the awkward moments mostly with humor and have a running rant about which of them I am most attracted to which is actually funny and I play along like I am trying to make up my mind and they all act competitive about it.

They also push me to initiate things with guys I admit to liking just like they do with each other and girls they like. It is ...

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Awkward talk with younger sis


Posted Saturday July 2 2022, 2:12 am

Hello! I am 14 (f) and my little sister is 12. Recently i walked into her room and saw her abruptly do something on her phone and when I asked why she was acting weird she said she was just watching a t.v show. I did a little snooping and found that she was searching "hard wattpad smut" on tiktok. It's very damaging to see that stuff at such a young age (even at my age) i want to talk to her about it but i don't know where to begin or if talking to her is even a good idea at all. I don't want to tell my parents as i feel it would harm her trust in me/they would handle it insensitively. Also she knows that im am bisexual and she has kept that secret from my parents so i feel that if i tell on her she will spill my true sexuality. what should i do?? Please help!

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i dont know what the best option is


Posted Wednesday June 29 2022, 2:21 pm

So for background, I’m Latina, and usually, when one turns 15 you get a quinceañera. I’ve always wanted this since I was a kid but now there’s a problem when calling the hotel for reservations the day I wanted isn’t available so maybe the one a week later is (it’s not) so now I have to choose the 10th. Which is the only day available but I don’t want to do it that day since it’s a few days before my birthday and it just feels weird to do it before but if I don’t pick this day I won’t get anything at all. And I don’t know what to choose.

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Did he genuinly like me or did he just want sex?


Posted Monday June 27 2022, 10:53 pm

There's this guy from school who suddenly texted me out of nowhere saying hey! Big fan here. We started texting more late nights and I got attached. In the beginning he was very sweet to me and all. We would send heart emoticons to each other. After few days he confessed to me he likes me. But sometimes he would flirt with me saying I feel like giving you a hug from behind. In between we had a fight but then I sorted it out. After that he started telling me he is busy again and again but whenever we would text about about wwe or football because I like it. He tells me you are so awesome, Let's marry. Then tells me he is kidding. Then he asked me should he propose I told him I dont feel the same way. Recently he asked me If I am a virgin. I ...

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believing in second chances...


Posted Sunday June 26 2022, 2:22 am

Female 33 years old, partner same..
We've been together for 2 years.. with ups and downs like every relationship, but somehow we manage to overcome it was a strong bond that we had, or at least i believed so...
Lately the relationship started to take a different form, from his side indifference, distance, not paying attention , no communication and not involving me in his everyday life).
From my side as a result.. over extreme Jealousy, desperate for love and attention, accusing him for things like cheating flirting..
In the end we both reached to a place where he had enough and i was lonely, but we never confront each other.. and it ended so badly that whenever i remember it, it's only pain.
now 1 month l...

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Is this normal?


Posted Saturday June 25 2022, 2:25 pm

I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm really attracted to a boy I know who just turned 13. Is it normal to be attracted to someone so much younger? I admit I'm scared that this makes me some kind of pervert or something.

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flying with guy to America and having crush on him


Posted Thursday June 23 2022, 10:04 pm

Hi :)

I am a girl and I went to a Work and Travel programme. I decided to go alone, because none of my friends wanted to go with. However, I have never traveled by a plane before, I messaged to Work and Travel facebook group to see if anyone is flying the same day I am. It was flight from Budapest to New York.

To my suprise one guy texted me, he is flying the same day. We have been texting the week before the flight, and we eventually met at the airport. I saw his pic on Messenger, but I was suprised to see him in real life. He was beautiful.
We had two flights, unfortunately, we did not sit next to each other during those flights. But he was so handsome and he had so beautifú blue eye that I could not...

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How do I get my 15 yo daughter to stop texting this boy nonstop


Posted Thursday June 23 2022, 9:50 am

As background, my daughter had been dating Carter for about a year when her friendship with another boy got between them. He confessed his feeling for her and not wanting to hurt him (according to her) continued contact with him. Carter knew of the friendship but was very jealous and my daughter eventually broke up with Carter over it. She and Carter are still in contact, but she claims she only wants him as a friend even though he clearly wants her back. She and this second boy have continued texting nearly all day and sometimes all night. I confronted her on the after hours and now I believe she just uses other apps to communicate with him at night so I can't see it on my cell phone report. My problem is that my daughter basically c...

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Desperately seeking cofounder participants in FoolQuest.com


Posted Wednesday June 22 2022, 7:48 am

How do I get any traction? I get almost no response. I seek first of all to ignite and then to sustain ongoing public discussion online of my project proposal. Know more at: http://www.FoolQuest.com

Where can I get the help and advice that I need? Both Elder Wisdom Circle and SCORE have outright turned me down.

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What do I do now that I know my friend has a secret crush?


Posted Thursday June 16 2022, 2:00 pm

I have a guy friend (fake name – Jackson) and we have been flirty friends but never dated or done more than a kiss on the cheek. We have dated other people but always kept our relationship in the friend zone. We both don’t believe in FWB and consider that wrong. We do talk about sex but just like in a generic way friends do. I tease him for being a man whore even though he says he has only done it twice. He calls me the ice queen as a joke because I am a virgin and have turned a lot of boys down.

The deal is he was on his tablet in my room and we were done studying and I accused him of looking at porn as a joke. He denied it but would not show me what he was doing though so when he went to the bathroom I checked out ...

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i dont know what to do about specific guy


Posted Tuesday June 14 2022, 7:30 pm

ive been talking to a guy but we havent texted in a week but theres something id like to tell him but i dont know if should text him again cause things are a bit awkward now.my friends are kinda...dont really agree(?)with me keeping contact with him, not because hes a bad person lol, hes just a penny pincher lol(we're both 18 btw, im a girl and hes a boy and we're both bisexual)

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Heavy Office and Sister Advice Needed


Posted Tuesday June 14 2022, 4:37 pm

This will consist of me venting while also seeking guidance or advice of any kind just please help me! A few weeks ago my sister saw my male manager and decided that she found him attractive. He told me that he thought she was cute also, since then I saw that she was becoming attached to the validation that he offered so I tried to prevent those two from crossing paths as much as possible. I’ve been praying profusely to god that these two can never see each other to prevent them one from trying to get romantically involved, Last Thursday was an exception and my current nightmare became true she got saw a window of opportunity and asked for his number. Of course he complied, since then it’s been stress and thinking/expecting only the wor...

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Am so scared, I might be going blind.


Posted Sunday June 12 2022, 3:32 pm

Am 26yr/M from Nigeria in west Africa . My eyes have been sensitive to light since I was 11 years old, it started when I was outdoor playing with a friend, and dust got into my eyes, since then I have this HUGE sensitivity to any/all light source(cell phone, laptop, television, touch lights, car lights, being outdoor) , and it's been slowly damaging my vision. I told My dad who took me to a nurse who gave me some drugs, injections and eye drops which did nothing. This condition has define almost all my life, causing me anxiety, depression, feelings of uncertainty about the future, making me feel inferior, there were days I would wake up at night and cry. some years later I lost my dad, and I got some money from his pension which I spent it ...

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How do I make the boy next door my boyfriend?


Posted Monday June 6 2022, 12:47 pm

You know that like saying about the boy next door. Well a hottie literally moved next door and I need advice. His name is Riley, which is so cute. Riley is 15 and he is a Caucasian boy with wavy red hair, freckles on his face and shoulders, and a goofy smile that like goes to one side. I am 16 and mixed Asian descent but our family identifies as Korean. He is younger but taller than me by a lot. He is kind of shy but kind of not at the same time. He goes around shirtless or sometimes a sleeveless muscle shirt with a superman logo or a green lantern logo. I mostly see him when he is doing chores and moving stuff and digging stuff and moving gravel and crap for a greenhouse his parents are building. The are like putting solar panels ...

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