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Losing friends
Posted Monday October 17 2022, 7:12 pm
As I am getting older (turning 27yrs old), I'm starting to realize that my friend group has significantly diminished. COVID caused a lot of isolation over the two years, and as time went on the space grew between me and the people who I thought I was close with. Sometimes when I see them or try to talk to them via message I just feel alienated because of how loss in touch I am with them and how different we've become as individuals. Unfortunately we don't talk anymore (they don't even try and attempt small talk either). I know that it is a part of life. They say people come and go... but sometimes I feel hurt and bummed out about it. These people who I thought were going to be my friends to the very end have moved on with their lives, are g...
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Stuck between my ex and my fiancee
Posted Monday October 17 2022, 12:04 am
I have been asking myself a lot lately if I still want my ex back, but I am very happy in my relationship with my fiance. But when I ended up finding out that my ex was talking to somebody I flipped out, I got very upset and felt like I was losing something.. I just don't know what.
I have been with my fiance almost 3 years, and in the last 3 years it's been some down and up days.. mainly up days. I don't know if I'm afraid of losing my ex because he's talking to somebody new or I'm afraid of moving on from my ex because I was with him for 12 years and we have three kids together. I just really don't know what to do, I feel like some days I just want to cry another days I just want to just scream why me.. because I don't want...
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My bofriends birthday is on Christmas!
Posted Sunday October 16 2022, 7:24 am
So I have been dating this guy for a little over 2 months and his birthday is on Christmas do I just get 1 gift and tell him is for both or do I get him 2 gifts for his birthday and Christmas?
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My side chick gives silent treatment almost every other day
Posted Saturday October 15 2022, 12:23 pm
I'm 48, and from Nigeria. I'm married without kids. I have a side chick, who is not married but has a 5-year-old son out of wedlock. She is my subordinate in my place of work. (I got her the job there). She knows I'm married, knows my wife and my wife knows her as my subordinate at work. My side chick and I love each other. She finds it hard to get a boyfriend because she has some toxic tendencies; she picks a fight at almost everything. We quarrel almost every other day over flimsy issues, and she gives me the silent treatment every now and then until I strive to get us back on talking terms. This has been going on for about 7 months now. Each time she stops talking to me, I want to leave her, but I start to miss her so much that I end up ...
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My SO came out as trans and we plan to continue dating
Posted Thursday October 13 2022, 10:05 pm
I'm in high school and the person I've been dating for a year recently came out as trans. He (formerly she) has begun dressing like a guy, has cut his hair short, and is now using a male name.
He says he still loves me but understands if I no longer want to be involved. I've always thought of myself as straight. But I'm still very much in love too and so I told him that I'm willing to give this a shot.
My parents and a few of my friends seem to think I'm crazy for wanting to remain together. Maybe I am but, like I said, I'm still in love and want to see if we can make this work. Any advice on how to make everyone back off and just accept that this is something I have to do?
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Need advice on an offline sex adventure!
Posted Wednesday October 12 2022, 6:20 pm
I need advice about meeting someone offline for the first time. I am also needing advice about what will be a first sexual encounter somewhat out of my comfort zone.
I am Linus 26M. I have been invited to an in person visit with a very fun and sexy 35F I have been flirting with online, by video, and by phone for the past 4 months. That does include some sexting and phone sex type stuff and some things she had me do for her on video. I am not going to be more specific. We are both single and just looking for a fun relationship with no preconceived idea about romance. This will be about a 3-hour drive for me so nothing too extreme or expensive as far as getting there and back. It would be for a 4-day weekend with me staying at...
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I have an STD. What now?
Posted Sunday September 25 2022, 1:44 am
I am a 24 year old woman. He’s 27. 3 months ago, I rekindled a situationship I had with this guy because I felt like I might have been too hard on him. The reason I left him the first time was because he made me feel violated. We had already been having sex just moments before it happened. He wanted to keep going when I didn’t. I actually had to push his head away. When he realized I was frozen, he was very apologetic and just saw his way out. But, after more thought I decided to give him another chance. Everything has been great for the past 3 months. We went on many frequent lovely romantic adventurous dates and we spent a lot of quality time alone together, over the phone, and with friends. We have had quite a few emotional conversat...
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how to turn acquaintance into friend?
Posted Thursday September 22 2022, 9:31 pm
I am 29 years old and a diagnosed autistic. Throughout most of my life, I had absolutely ZERO friends. Almost all of my attempts at friendship were very one-sided (me making all the effort and them not showing they care on any level) and it has taken a toll on me. When I moved to NYC, I became best friends with this girl, but eventually she became very mean and toxic and I had to end things. It made me really sad, because she was the only friend I ever had. But I had to set boundaries.
So that leaves me back to having barely any friends again. There are a couple women I've encountered who seem really awesome and I'd love to become closer with. But I don't know how to advance these relationships because I don't have t...
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How do I tell my boyfriend to calm down?
Posted Thursday September 22 2022, 11:49 am
This is about my boyfriend Cameron who is a good person but keeps annoying me. He said he understands I do not want to have sex and he said he will be a virgin with me and not put any pressure on me to have sex. He says the right things but his body is saying something different. Every time we are together he is having constant erections and trying to hide it. It is embarrassing like he is a sex maniac. I do not even have to touch or kiss him for it to happen but even if I just hold his hand or hug him. He gets one every time we cuddle and I have to tell him not to touch himself and he gets mad and says he just adjusting to hide it better. Even when he tries to hide it I can now tell when it is happening because he gets squirmy and n...
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Need advise Severe pain after fingering
Posted Wednesday September 14 2022, 10:56 pm
Severe pain after fingering m facing pain n my lower stomach how can I treat it
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Do we need chaperones to keep from touching each other?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2022, 6:16 pm
So something really strange happened to me recently and my relationship with my new girlfriend has taken a weird turn. We both feel we are too young for sex even though we think about it and even talk about it sometimes just because it is fun to think about each other that way. It amazes me what we talk about late at night on the phone together. We text too but true voice is best. We are definitely bolder and more open with what we say to each other than when we are in person.
So a weird thing happened on a movie date where I bought a condom from a machine in the bathroom to show her as a joke and she thought it was funny and during the movie she said she wanted to see it. So I handed her the package. She looked at me all sexy, ...
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Why does sex have to be a reward or bribe?
Posted Tuesday September 13 2022, 6:41 pm
Hello to the whole group. I am maybe overanalyzing something about my love life with my girlfriend but I would love it if maybe there is some feedback for me to better understand what is going on between us.
I know I am 22 but this is my first serious relationship and even though we are now active sexually we are literally each other’s first so I feel I can benefit from the experience of others. I read a lot of posts before I wrote this and noticed a lot of the guys ask about sex, so I guess that is okay and I will join the crowd.
The question I have is about how us having sex almost always seems to be tied to either me being rewarded for something or sex being offered in exchange for me doing something. It started wi...
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Husband Refusing To Get Help
Posted Saturday September 10 2022, 11:55 pm
A few months ago my husband went into the hospital because of pancreatitis. The doctors said it was caused by drinking, and he was going through severe alcohol withdrawal. Thankfully he recovered, but they said he might not be so lucky next time. My husband comes from a family of alcoholics. His mom and two sisters are bar-tenders and they all have a problem with drinking too much. When he went in the hospital they couldn't possibly accept that it was the alcohol that caused it. They kept saying that they don't know how he got sick, and that maybe someone even poisoned him. I showed them the toxicology report which showed that nothing was in his system except alcohol, but they still don't believe it. They've been telling him it's ok to drin...
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Ashamed about video that is going to be exposed.
Posted Thursday September 8 2022, 12:27 pm
I am getting legal advice on this but I also need some personal advice on how to manage a nightmare I have created with a really bad decision. On a dare and because of my own insane vanity, I auditioned for a pornographic movie. It was very sketchy in a crappy motel. I obviously had to get naked and there was this really weird interview about my sexual experience (which is not a lot) and then they took a lot of pictures and some video of me with two women. I did have a condom for all that. It all took like 4 hours and I had mixed feelings the whole time like both an ego trip and guilt trip. At the end I was offered a part in some movie which fed my pride and ego, but I turned it down because it was just a prank. I signed a release at...
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Is it a straight bromance or something more?
Posted Tuesday September 6 2022, 6:22 pm
I am looking for like an outsider honest take on something about my relationship with another guy. It has some definite homo vibes and I am straight, but maybe I am way misinterpreting and maybe being homophobic by being paranoid about something that is not really gay and just a guy treating me really well and being super physical as a buddy. I truly love this dude and hope it is not a deal he is into me for a sexual reason and is not a genuine friend.
My name is Shawn and I am 14yo straight male just started 9th grade. As freshmen students we are each signed a mentor who is in the senior class. My mentor is a very popular guy named Jason. He is 17yo and like a star athlete and the center for our varsity basketball team. I am on...
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GF Makes Me Earn Kisses
Posted Wednesday August 31 2022, 2:38 pm
My GF is the greatest and I would do anything for her and I am like so lucky she likes me back the same way. She does this weird thing though on kissing. If I ask her for a kiss, she tells me I have to earn it and makes me do some kind of dare each time to get a kiss. Sometimes it is some kind of exercise thing depending on where we are like so many pushups or situps. She knows I can stand on my hands so sometimes she makes me do that for her. Sometimes she makes thump my chest and holler like Tarzan. Sometimes she makes me flex my arm for her like I am some sort of skinny body builder. Sometimes she makes me try to recite the lyrics to her favorite Taylor Swift songs. Yes, I memorized them. What is up with the whole earning a kiss...
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Should I move back?
Posted Monday August 29 2022, 6:42 am
So a couple of months ago I moved out from my mom’s house into an apartment in a new city. This city has more opportunities and I was able to find a job, that pays me well. But the problem is, that before moving out, I got into a relationship with my boyfriend, who I ended up loving more than anybody else, and became a huge part of my life. At first we were able to meet every weekend, he would drive down to be with me, and the next weekend I would do the same. But due to change in my work, I have to work even at the weekends, so we wont be able to see each other much. Only a few days in a month. I have been crying a lot, and haven't been able to enjoy myself in this city, because I miss him, and want to spend my time with him. So my quest...
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What happened to me?
Posted Wednesday August 24 2022, 10:12 pm
hi long story short a few days ago my mum woke me up screaming and yelling at me. it was about something small and it wasn't even my fault but I quickly got up and stood there while she yelled at me very loudly. suddenly my chest felt so hollow and I don't mean it in a fancy metaphor way but literally, I felt like someone was squeezing my lungs and I couldn't breathe. I started seeing a few stars and my vision was beginning to turn black and it felt like I had to lie down NOW or I would die. thankfully she was done yelling so I left the room and sat on a sofa outside but still, I was in so much pain and couldn't breathe I had to curl into myself and lean on the couch and slowly I started breathing and my vision came back but my head hurt th...
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is it normal for someone's mum to have a vibrator
Posted Wednesday August 24 2022, 10:11 am
I went into my mums room to wake her up but she had gone to the toilet and I saw it on her bed
can I ask how old you need to be so you can try one
thank you
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How do I explain to GF my pain from having sex is no big deal?
Posted Tuesday August 23 2022, 6:41 pm
My girlfriend and I have gotten to the point where we are starting to be sexually active with each other. We are both very attracted to each other, but she made me wait for a while but that is okay because she is worth it. Our first two nights together have been wonderful but not without some concern.
On the positive side, even though I am less experienced than her she said I did very well and she did not have to fake anything. She asked for repeats during the night so I guess I was doing something right. On the negative side, I did hurt myself with some joint dislocations several times each night.
The deal is I have a medical condition called Ehlers Danlos which can cause joints to dislocate easily and causes joint pai...
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