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Should I Tell Agent


Posted Friday November 17 2023, 1:45 pm

Hello. I was looking to buy a house with my family so we contacted a real estate agent "Reba". She was friendly and I had a lot in common with her so we kind of became friends. However, I felt like we weren't getting anywhere because she was very laid back. I did most of the house searches myself. We even took a break from looking for a few months, and she was very patient and kept in touch. The last straw was when we had some problems with the broker she worked with. Frustrated, I told her I wanted to take a break again and that I would contact her when I was ready to start looking. She said ok. We were new to the area, so out of curiosity I contacted a different real estate agent to see what else was out there. He was very helpf...

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How can I cope with my mother's words?


Posted Tuesday November 14 2023, 10:18 am

Long story short, that tiktok that says "your mother loves you but she doesn't like you" describes it well. She does so much for me, she loves me but her words are so venomous if I do something wrong. I am a young adult, I don't drink, smoke or do any of that. I mind my own business and don't get in trouble. I focus on my studies. But throughout my life, she has said things that have struck me and haunted me, comments about my looks, and intellect. She knows I will never be like her, she was practically THE girl and I'm just a girl. I want her to accept me and like me. I want her to listen to me and not just understand whatever based on the image she has of me. She lies and says she doesn't care if I end up being a disappointment ...

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Husband is upset about an issue that does not bother me


Posted Monday November 13 2023, 9:48 am

My husband is very upset about our neighbor directly behind us. This neighbor’s yard is a complete mess – piles of sticks, logs, multiple compost piles, and lots of very overgrown plants. I agree that this is totally out of line (as do our friends/relatives that have come over and seen it), but I am also able to make my peace with it and concentrate on other issues in my life that I have more control over. This is a huge issue for my husband. He can’t stand it so much that he occasionally considers selling our house and moving. He has called the village to complain and has been working with them, but that has had very little impact on the yard so far. My husband then gets angry with me because it doesn’t bother me. I know he feels ...

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Girls and pool jets


Posted Friday November 3 2023, 7:46 pm

Hi my name Is Ashlyn and im 16 my question is why do pool jets feels so good on girls??

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Boyfriend doesn't have time for dates anymore


Posted Sunday October 15 2023, 5:16 pm

Me and my boyfriend got together last spring, but we've known each other for about 5 years now. At first, it was amazing, but shortly after getting together, he got a second job. How he's working his regular full time job Monday thru Friday, then he's on call for his second job from Friday at 6 to Sunday at 4. And that's just when he's on call. If he gets a call at 3:45, he still has to go and often spends about 3 hours per call. This has led to a complete stagnation with plans and dates. We can't go out anymore because things will be closed by the time we drive to them and can't plan anything ahead of time because he might get a last minute call. I've noticed I've grown resentful of the fact it feels like we can't do any outings anymore. I...

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getting over my ex


Posted Wednesday September 27 2023, 3:23 pm

i love my new boyfriend but i think im still in love with my ex . its causing problems in my rekationship and i dont know how to get over my ex so that i move on

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Has anyone had any luck with the freezer spells?


Posted Saturday September 9 2023, 3:59 pm

Has anyone had any luck doing a freezer spell to get people to leave you alone? I have a group of people that have been bothering me for six years. Some of them have tried to physically harm me. And some of them have harmed me emotionally. One person is trying to ruin my life. He's called my job, tried to find out what school I go to, so that he can create trouble. I put this group of people that have been bothering me in the freezer. I wrote down their names and added Cayenne pepper and red flakes along with vinegar in a bottle. Will this get them to stop harassing, stalking and threatening me? Has anyone done a freezer spell?

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Can a person qualify for Financial Aid if they have an associates degree?


Posted Friday September 8 2023, 6:57 pm

I plan on getting my associates degree in nursing and then transferring to a university for my Bachelor’s. Can I get financial aid after I get my Associates? I live in Texas.

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What kind of partner is good in the long run?


Posted Monday September 4 2023, 10:18 pm

I currently have a bf and we are doing long distance. I'm still in school and he's working back home to save up for our future (we've talked about marriage). However over the past year of us being apart it has made me question if he is the right guy for me.

My dilemma is that he is and has been the best bf I could ever ask for. He loves me unconditionally, supports me, seen me at my worst and yet still loves and worships me. He would literally do anything to the best of his abilities to make me happy. He is completely different from any of the exes I've been with and that's what drew me to him. On the flip side the one thing that I find lacking in him and our relationship is the sense where I feel like he inspires me to grow...

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When is the best time to quit?


Posted Sunday September 3 2023, 4:38 pm

Ok so I work currently in a lab as of tomorrow I will be back to work. The thing is I hate the job. I knew I obsessed over germs and chemicals deemed dangerous but only after working at this job I realize how bad it affects me mentally. I think it is because I was used to working with diluted substances now I work with really extremely concentrated substances. Yes I use PPE but for me it is not enough and I have that the lab is ac'ed. I wash my hands so much times and once I get home I have to immediately take a bath. Also, I always feel like I may be sick. once I read about a sickness that can occur because of a chemical I get sick with almost all the sympytoms listed. It is frustrating. I applied to work in a new country just to get away...

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heartbroken


Posted Friday September 1 2023, 5:37 pm

So my boyfriend is wonderful to me. but one night he got a phone call from a female and acted really weird about it, so i looked at his phone and found some messages. I called the girl and she told me everything. He denied it all even with all the messages she sent me. I really dont feel like he did but am i just being crazy? I feel the love he has for me. Hes never done anything to make me question him.


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confused


Posted Friday September 1 2023, 5:33 pm

Hi there why wouldnt my sister make her children (15) and (12) say they are sorry for breaking into my house. Im not really all they mad about it but my boyfriend is and they have to respect that he lives here as well.

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My boyfriend broke up with me !


Posted Friday September 1 2023, 10:49 am

I am a 34 year old female and I was this amazing guy for almost 11 months and out of the blew he calls me on his way home from work and says we need to talk. I knew when he said that it wasn't good . He picked up from my mom's house where I live and I get in the car and saw the look on his face like he was about to cry and I said you are about to break up with me aren't you? He says yes. He says I didn't do anything wrong he just fell out of love , but the thing is up until the time he picked me up to tell me there were no signs. We never fought. Everything seemed great. He does have Bipolar disorder. But he never got mad . He just got real happy one minute and really depressed the next . He still wants to be friends. I am going through so ...

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Urgent- I think I accidentally ingested poop


Posted Thursday August 31 2023, 8:25 am

I was on the toilet, obviously defecating…. I wiped my bottom as normal, but some poop ended up getting on my finger. I was so disgusted and washed my hands about 10 times thoroughly to ensure every last trace was gone.

Now, I’m a nail-biter so cut to a few hours later when I was just biting my nails and all of a sudden I could smell poop. I told my siblings and my mom in the house with me that I was worried- they said maybe it was just me that needs a shower. It most certainly isn’t- I can quite easily distinguish between the “needs a shower” stench and the “poop” stench. Then I get a weird tingly feeling in the back of my throat (a similar sensation to when you have phlegm, only no phlegm was coming up) and r...

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Wanted Help For Anxiety


Posted Wednesday August 9 2023, 10:19 pm

Hello, I'm a female in my 20s. I've been having anxiety off and on for most of my life. It started getting worse when I moved to a new town where I only knew a few people. It's an unfamiliar place to me and I started to feel anxious whenever I would leave the house. I decided to finally get help so I went to see a doctor and explained the situation to her. After talking to her for a while she said something that kind of offended me. She said she feels like I'm withholding information. It seemed like she was trying to search for a bigger reason why I might be having anxiety, even though I just told her what it was. I felt like she was judging me or accusing me of hiding something. Why would I withhold information if I'm coming to her for hel...

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Posted Wednesday August 9 2023, 12:28 am

If a guy acts like he likes me some days but then the next second he may be hard to read what should I do


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My Future


Posted Tuesday August 8 2023, 5:07 am

My dad wants me to be a doctor but I want to become something else (engineer). And I don't know how to make him see that

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Dates for First Kiss


Posted Tuesday August 1 2023, 7:02 am

Hello, I'm a 34 year old male. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 dates now, and they have all gone very well. We get along well, and there's never been the awkward silence of dread. However, we have not kissed yet. Is it normal to go this long without one? And should it be the girl to ask for one, or the guy to ask for one after seeing a girl's nonverbal cues? She hasn't made any nonverbal cues yet, btw.

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Maybe he's just not ready for a commitment ..


Posted Sunday July 30 2023, 3:01 am

I've been with him for almost 3 years now, 1st year was amazing 2nd year was full of break-ups and 3rd party was involved, he cheated on me, but somehow we overcome the issue and decided to continue and we are still working on the relationship, sometimes i feel alone, i can't seem to find him all in, anyway we travelled so many countries and finally last month we went to Peru, his hometown where we stayed with his family for 2 weeks and to be honest it was so great.
2 days ago we were out with some friends, and somehow the commitment issue was on the table and everyone was just talking about how good/bad is the marriage and how happiness and commitment has nothing to do with each other, somehow i got the idea that he's not ready to t...

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Anniversary gift for boyfriend!


Posted Tuesday July 25 2023, 11:15 am

My boyfriend and I have been dating 9 months starting July 27th and we will be dating a year on October 27th and I have no idea what to get him for our 1 year anniversary. I am going to start putting money back now so I will have the money for his anniversary gift . Home of his hobbies are reading . He loves comic books and Stephen King books. He likes anything superhero related and Marvel related. He loves Legos . He likes to cook. He likes Night mare before Christmas and Star Wars. He likes the music artist Korn .any tips are greatly appreciated even diy ideas are welcome. Thank you in advance.


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