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Hi there why wouldnt my sister make her children (15) and (12) say they are sorry for breaking into my house. Im not really all they mad about it but my boyfriend is and they have to respect that he lives here as well.
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I don't know you or your sister so I would have no idea why your sister would not have her kids say sorry. If you are okay with your place being broken into, the problem may be more widespread in the family then you initially thought. We tend to be lenient with family when they treat us in ways that a person should never do, no matter if family or not. So lets say, some homeless person broke into your house, instead of your nieces/nephews. Would you also not be mad about it? The boyfriend is partially right. It's not about who lives there, you, or him or both of you or a stranger. Breaking into someones house without their permission is not right. There is a lack of respect for another persons property or belongings and in saying they have to have respect, the boyfriend is right. So I am not sure why you are confused. I am not saying there should be bad blood between you all, but apparently something is going on in your sisters house, her life, or maybe its something observed with grandparents, but something is affecting her kids in a bad way. if you think it is trivial. Then at what point would you consider it to be an important matter> Would that be if they broke in while the two of you were having fun in bed, stealing cash or items to turn into cash, threatening you with a knife? Hey, wrong is wrong or in other words, sin is sin no matter how big or small. I will be saying a prayer for them. If you don't pray then it might be time. Some kind of intervention is needed for those kids sake and perhaps for the rest of family as well. If you don't pray, find a church and have a pastor pray for your family, and it wouldn't hurt to consider a big life change as well, being a believer.
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