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bisexuality
Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 10:07 pm
i'm a bisexual girl, and i have a huge crush on a female friend of mine (we're not that close, more liek just getting to know each other/talking in classes). she doesnt know my sexual preference and, more importaintly, i dont know hers. so my question is, how would i go about finding out her sexual preferance without right out asking her. we have many mutual friends but i think i may feel weird asking them if shes straight or not, because theyd want to know why, and anyone close enough to her to know would probably tell her i asked. any ideas?
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AAAAH! There's two of them!!!
Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 7:09 pm
Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're pretty good friends. The thing is though, he's not really looking for a girlfriend right now since he just broke up w/ a serious one. I think I love him and I would wait for him to be ready if I had to. But then there's this other guy... I'm almost 16 (the first guy's 17) and this guy's 20. My parents are kind of sketched out about his age and so am I. I met him at the mall a few days ago and we exchanged phone #'s (not something I do very often). He called me and says he wants to get together. I don't really feel too comfortable around this guy, and I barely know him. Also, if I get into something with this guy, what about the first one? Do i just forget about him? I'm really confused ri...
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:(
Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 4:40 pm
Here's the deal.....I have already asked you that question about me and this kid liking eachother but his friend was in the way...remember me? Well, to make things worse, he has now found out that he is moving. His friend is finally over me and we now can date freely, but since the guy I like is moving, it is making things worse. Me and this guy have been talking and he explained to me that if we went out it would kill to move later on. So we decided not to go out. However, we are still majorly in love. We act like a couple, and do things as a couple, but we just don't call ourselves a couple. I don't know what to do. It is going to hurt so much when he moves away and I don't know if I will be able to get over it. This is how he feels, too....
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:(
Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 4:40 pm
Here's the deal.....I have already asked you that question about me and this kid liking eachother but his friend was in the way...remember me? Well, to make things worse, he has now found out that he is moving. His friend is finally over me and we now can date freely, but since the guy I like is moving, it is making things worse. Me and this guy have been talking and he explained to me that if we went out it would kill to move later on. So we decided not to go out. However, we are still majorly in love. We act like a couple, and do things as a couple, but we just don't call ourselves a couple. I don't know what to do. It is going to hurt so much when he moves away and I don't know if I will be able to get over it. This is how he feels, too....
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i dunno
Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 12:54 pm
OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:(
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?????????
Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 2:31 pm
ok ive never had a boyfriend and i really want one but i think its because peopl ethink that im fat... i really dont know what to do because ive tryed everything to loose weight but it jst wont happen and i have so many thing going on in my life and i just want someone whos there for me please help me......
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Is it ok to still like him?
Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 1:25 pm
There's this boy (let's call him...Bug) and I have this friend (lets call her...cool)
Well, I used to have a big crush on Bug last year and I told one person and that one person told a lot of other people (which I don't really care because I wanted him to know) Well...Bug is just so cute, even if he is a jerk. I started liking him last year. I didn't find out he was a jerk until this year though.
My friend, Cool, was at her locker this year, and Bug came up to her (and I was right next to her at MY locker)and Bug was like "Hey, Cool, will you go out with me baby?" and both Cool and I knew he was only joking and being an @$$.
Cool just gave me an embarrased look and then I didnt say anything but big was...
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Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 12:51 pm
Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up awile ago. And it was sort of a bad break up. And he's gotten a new girlfriend. But, he still acknowledges me. You know? But, he won't talk to me first or anything. I have to talk to him first. Oh and by acknowledge, I mean he like still looks at me...like a lot. It's odd. And as soon as one of my friends notice him looking, and he notices them noticing, he turns his head right away. Like he's trying to hide it. I mean...what am I suppose to think?
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Posted Friday November 21 2003, 10:05 pm
how do you ask a guy out with out ruining a friendship
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About A Boy
Posted Friday November 21 2003, 9:33 pm
Okay, I'm a very very shy girl. Like extremely shy. How do I get a kid I like to notice me?...I think he's seen me around, but he's just so cute and the way he walks is so graceful. I can't get him out of my mind...it's something that I just can't help. It's not an obbsession, just a huge crush. Believe me, I don't waste my time being obsessed with boys. THEY'RE JUST BOYS! (no offense) But this kid is just the perfect person for me...and I'm young but I think I', old enogh to know when somebody is almost "the one"...at least for now...
So, does nebody have advice on how to get this kid to notice me?
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love,crush or not
Posted Friday November 21 2003, 7:28 pm
ok well here is the deal i hate these things because they are all alike but i need to no
anyway
ok my friend and i are semi close and he isnt really that cute but today when i passed him in the hall in the morning his eyes caught the light just right and i literally stoped and just stared at him and i mean last year he would make my knees go weak and melt every time i looked into his baby blue eyes (they are like brad pitts eyes in interview with a vampire when he is a vampire not before) and he has the most gorgeous lips but i have to say an ugly nose lol any way the other day i told him his sister told me he had little pink piggy's on his boxers and after i told him hes like well i do see and he showwed me cuase he was wear...
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Boys are so damn confusing.
Posted Thursday November 20 2003, 11:17 pm
Alright, so I finally got this serious boyfriend. But, of course after awhile, I forgot how lucky I was to have him,(yes I was lucky, he's wonderful, despite his flaws) and I started flipping out about the most stupid stuff ever. And he couldnt' take it anymore and dumped me. He was so sweet about it, (well as sweet as you can get dumping a person) he even cried. He told me that he cried every time we fought. And I was completely shocked. He kept how he felt from me because he didnt' want me to be upset. And I went psycho trying to get him back, but it just pushed him further away from me. And he blocked me on AIM and told me never to talk to him again. And now he has this new girlfriend. And he says he's really happy. But, yet I mentioned ...
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if my ex like me
Posted Thursday November 20 2003, 6:49 pm
Ok, I had a boyfriend let call him (troy) but anyway I really like him but i broke up with him to have sex with someone else. he stop talking to me for a year and now we just started to talking again we are closer than ever. he said that he would take me back if his two friends give him a good reason to go back with me. But i don't understand what he means? I think he cares about me but don't like me. Because i fall asleep in the cafeteria and no body woke me up. BUT HE DID. So does he like me or what?
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Hey, total stranger! Does my crush like me?
Posted Wednesday November 19 2003, 7:03 pm
Whoo, it's another question suspiously similar to every other question asked here, but is getting asked here because the person who is asking it thinks that their situation is somehow inherently special and different from everyone else's.
So, still want to help me?
Ok. I've been friends with this guy (I shall refer to him as... um... Blarg) for about 3 years total. (I am in 9th grade, as is he.) I started liking Blarg about 2 1/2 years ago, and I've told him I like him, abeit via other people. I *suspect* that he likes me "as more than a friend" (I DESPISE that phrase but it will have to do), in fact I'm nearly positive, but recently something happened at his birthday party that made me wonder.
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i can't do this anymore
Posted Wednesday November 19 2003, 6:45 pm
I see a school counsleor and a counsler outside of school and there is this one girl who is going out with my ex and she's spreadin crap about me like saying that i'm tring to break them up and crap like that and i want to kick her ass cuz other ppl are stoppin me in the hall saying don't break them up or i'll kick your ass. and even her boyfriend (my ex) is getting really pissed about this so like i want to kick her ass so bad but i'm not sure if i want to. and my counsler said to talk to her but i can't cuz she's pissin me off and if i try to talk to her i'm afraid to i might kill her. and plus i got into a fist fight with my really good friend.
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Somebody make it stop
Posted Tuesday November 18 2003, 9:40 am
Ok. So I have dated this guy since summer, and he's a really busy fellow. We'll call him Chris. Unfortunately, so am I. So we've had maybe a date a month on average. I like him. He "loves" me. I am scared to say I love him because I still think way too much about the last psycho control freak guy I dated. (It has got to be sex). He doesn't communicate well with me. Its hard to have a conversation about what I called him for in the first place. He is waiting until marriage to have sex. Its a little hard on me, but its nice not feeling pressured. Chris has a tendency to postpone dates for gigs or other reasons. I understand he needs to work, but give me a break.
Well, I am waffling and waffling. In the meanti...
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Now what???
Posted Monday November 17 2003, 5:40 pm
Ok, so I hung out with the guy I like on Friday night. He came over my house and we watched movies and talked about life n' stuff. He stayed till 11:50 p.m. and apparently (he said so) he had a good time. I was sooo happy he came, he's really cool and fun to hang out with. I'm pretty sure he only wants to be friends right now though (although he did admit to one of his friends that he thought I was pretty). He just got out of a serious relationship and I think his EX screwed w/ his head a bit. She was really clingy and I think he's under the impression that that's a normal relationship. I want to go out with him, but I'm willing to wait until he's ready. What should I do in the meantime? He knows I like him, but should I ask him if there's ...
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Posted Sunday November 16 2003, 3:52 pm
What do I do if this kid (lets call him peanut) asked me out so much last year. He would say "I love you" all the time to me and he would always ask me to the dances and when I said no he just wouldn't take a hint. We were kind of friends I guess but Peanut just doesn't understand that I don't like him like that.
Now this year, in the beginning of the year, Peanut would still say how he loves me and stuff and then all of a sudden he started saying how we were just friends and Im like "whatever" now I like him much better but he sometimes seems upset because I feel awkward around him when he says hi (in a shy tone) I dont like Peanut and I wont go out with him but i guess I still consider him my friend. ...
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Posted Sunday November 16 2003, 12:25 am
Okay, there's this guy at my college, let's call him Jacen. We met at an organization bonfire, and as it turned out, we live in the same dorm. So he comes over and chills in my room from time to time. I don't mind this. I think he's interesting to talk to, and in spite of the fact that he never leaves until an hour after I tell him to, I don't mind his visits. For the most part.
So the other day at lunch, he asked me if I'd like to go to the opera performance with him. Not being able to come up with an excuse not to, and kind of wanting to see an opera anyway (I'd never been to one before, and I'd only seen a recording of a P.D.Q. Bach opera... that doesn't really count), I said sure. He then went on to explain that he had t...
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snibble
Posted Saturday November 15 2003, 8:09 pm
ok i like this kid...lets call him snibble...any way lets get back to the storywel me and him are really good friends and one time he told me that he loved me (then quickly turned away)but didnt say anything except joke with me and all our friends( 12 other people at one table it gets crowded anyway) he acted like nothing happened and went back to the conversations we were having and he has done stuff like that before and then me and him went to the movies together to see scary movie 3 and then some of our friends saw us and were like smushy (me) and snibble (him) are on a date adn i was yelling at them to stop because i didnt want him to think i liked him when i did and he wasnt saying anything and then i asked him if he was upset bout it ...
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