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Old friend


Question Posted Tuesday October 28 2003, 5:15 pm

Okay. So there's this guy at my college, we've known each other for a few years already from high school. A few weeks back, we had a bit of a disagreement that wound up with us not talking to each other for a full week. The thing was, I wasn't even really mad at him initially, until he split from our one class together before I could say a word to him. Now, We've been friends for a few years and we get along really well, but tears were shed over this madness. I don't remember having such hurt feelings since... well, that's another long story. But it was a long time ago. Anyhow, another guy friend of mine and I had a two week period of not talking to each other, and it didn't bother me. Yes, we had a bit of a disagreement, but his ceased attention didn't affect me at all.

My question is, what does this mean about my feelings for the first guy? I know NOTHING about relationships. Please help!


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Additional info, added Saturday July 10 2004, 12:00 pm:
--In case none of you geniuses noticed, this question was asked nearly A YEAR AGO!! Did it occur to any of you to look at the date and think, "Hmmm, by this time, either the matter is resolved, or the point is moot?"

Let this question die a natural death, and stop browsing so far into the archives, for pity's sake. No one wanted to answer it when it was asked, and I don't want answers for it now.

Sheesh.--
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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday July 10 2004, 1:47 am:
Maybe you were just more scarred of loosing a really good friend and when it happaned the 2nd time you were thinking in your head that it already happaned once before and everything turned out fine so in your head your thinking everything will be fine and just like the last time you'll wind up good friends again-trix

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:49 pm:
Well it may seem like you may have feelings for the first guy, but I wouldn't really know because only you can decide if you have feelings for him. But if you dont have feelings for him, maybe it was because the fight hurt you more than the second guy. And that may of been why you were crying because you were more hurt by this fight then the second guy. If you still need to talk about it for me to understand this more, just post back!!!

xoxo Kourtney

***You gave me a 2 and told me why. I'm sorry I know I realized the date after I posted my answer. I'm really sorry about that.***

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