Question Posted Thursday October 30 2003, 11:43 am
I really like this guy. He has a great sense of humor and makes me laugh all the time and he is one of those "nice guys". He could go out with any girl and I just don't see how I would be good enough for him, but he flirts with me all the time. I know that that doesn't have to mean anyhing but I'm comfused. How do you tell if he is interested?
metawidget answered Sunday November 2 2003, 1:00 pm: If he's flirting with you, he's probably interested in some sense... flirt back, lick his forehead (if you think he'd be OK with that), see if he wants to catch a movie or a show ... it'll all become clear. Nothing's predestined, but it doesn't sound like he's uninterestd.
He's probably standing there, feeling unworthy of you and wondering if you're interested: give him a clue, and realize that worthiness doesn't have anything to do with how people interact ... words and actions do.
ScaperJess answered Saturday November 1 2003, 4:29 pm: What makes you think your not good enough for him? You’d be surprised, its a common thing to feel like perhaps your not good enough, but always remember its his view, he might very well think he's not worthy of you... as for telling if he's interested, aside from strait up asking him out you can let him know he's interested, flirt you little heart out, pay him complements, 'run into him' ironically more, this will all boost his confidence if he likes you, to perhaps asking you out, but remember there only one way to know for sure, and that’s to ask him out, you only live once might as well... [ ScaperJess's advice column | Ask ScaperJess A Question ]
Girlwithamansname answered Friday October 31 2003, 9:30 am: Flirt back.
Turc answered Thursday October 30 2003, 9:47 pm: First of all, don't pull the "he's too good for me" stint. You are worth any guy's time, so don't try to fool yourself.
Secondly, study his behavior around other girls. Does he flirt with everyone, or just with you? If he flirts with everyone, he's just a friend; but if it's just you he's seeking more. [ Turc's advice column | Ask Turc A Question ]
trailer_dan answered Thursday October 30 2003, 9:17 pm: yeah, i get girls telling me all the time how i can get anyone i want and i'm so nice and stuff cause i help people wit there problems and stuff, and i just tell them "yah baby but i gotta find da right girl who will not get all pissed off about dumb stuff like the ocean all getting smaller or some shit like that." and then they dont care no more. what im saying is that you can tell hes interested by how much he calls you dumb names like "baby" and "sugar buttah" and some like that. [ trailer_dan's advice column | Ask trailer_dan A Question ]
neonfizz answered Thursday October 30 2003, 6:36 pm: Well... you could start playing truth or dare in the middle of class with a bunch of friends and ask him who he likes. Or you could just ask him out. Either way works. [ neonfizz's advice column | Ask neonfizz A Question ]
MFS answered Thursday October 30 2003, 3:39 pm: Lick his forehead.
If he runs away screaming, it was never meant to be.
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