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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
Having trouble achieving orgasm... alone or with your partner? Ask your question here.


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help I need advice


Posted Monday May 4 2015, 11:01 pm

Hello I'm 13 and ashamed but I jerk off and I've never released white cum yet. I'd be weirded out if I asked my dad so... I'm asking anyone how to release cum.(you can tell me techniques or just give me instructions).also I wanna how to make your cum thicker or whiter. I really wanna learn how to gain son inches too just answer the questions you may have an answer to thnx!!!😉


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how can I stop doing this and focus in school ?


Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 1:52 pm

iam young and I've had sex with 4 different guys all at different times I knew them well 3 of them last night it was random unknown guy I ha just met , it all started when I was in long relationship and lost my virginty , I wa highly depressed and got a fwb , then another fwb , I wasn't to stop this these both guys are my neighbors I wanna focus in school , I don't want to get a bad reputation I've been having many problems this has been the worse I feel like the worse girl ever with no type of descensy my grades have dropped ever since too

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Why I can't continue touching myself


Posted Saturday February 28 2015, 5:46 pm

First of all I'm 52 and I have never have an orgasm so I started masturbating because I wanted to see if I could reach an orgasm on my own but I haven't being able. I want to know why when I am feeling so excited this feeling of someone tickling me make me stop and I can't continue touching myself as mush as I really want to because I know I am close to get the orgasm. but I remove my hand because I just can't take that feeling of someone tickling me and it's really frustrating; what can do I do to be able to continue when I am feeling so good!!

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my sex life


Posted Friday January 23 2015, 6:08 am

I am 18 years old.I am from Bangladesh. I have sex 3 times a month with my boyfriend but he cannot give orgasm.I get small orgasm though but rare. Should I wait or change position?

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Teddy Bear Sex


Posted Saturday January 17 2015, 1:10 pm

So I know this is kind of weird but I like to have sex with my teddy bears. I don't take off my cloth but it still feels good. But after I do it I feel guilty. How do I stop doing it. Please help me

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My girlfriend can't cum


Posted Thursday January 1 2015, 7:38 pm

Recently me and my girlfriend have been fooling around via FaceTime(waiting till marriage) . She will start bouncing and rocking her hips it's so sexy it gets me there but fior her not so much. What happens is she gets stimulate and be totally into ready to bust and everything and you can tell by the way she moans . But when it's time to reach the peak she just can't do it. We have tried numerous times. The more we tried the more upset and frustrated she becomes. I don't know what to do also im a chick so it isn't even like I have a dick or anything and I don't touch myself . But I can get there but she can't idk wt to tell her. She is a virgin to so I really don't know what to do. She said she has never came before.

Please ...

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My lover doesn't climax


Posted Thursday November 6 2014, 9:08 pm

I swear I see God when I have sex with my current partner - he's the first man to ever make me cum. The problem is he doesn't seem to get off....ever. We've been together twice, the sex has gone on for hours and still no climax for him. I have suggested we bring another woman in (hoping that would help) he says he doesn't care either way, Im not really inclined to force the issue and I don't want to pressure him about it but I feel like maybe I don't please him....what should I do?

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Female masterbation


Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 7:49 pm

I'm 15 and I reccently began to masterbate. I started by fingering myself but it really gave me no pleasure. I stopped for a long period after that and then looked up techniques but I'm not sure if I've ever orgasmed or cummed. What I did tonight, I will never forget that feeling. It was my first time masterbating in about 6 months and I went and had a warm shower and sat on the floor while the water stream was directed at my genitals. I grabbed an electric toothbrush and used it as a vibrator since I cannot obviously buy sex toys. Anyways, I warmed up and loosened my body with my fingers. Then, I used the electric toothbrush and placed it in different spots around my vaginal region. Never inside my vagina though because that could cause in...

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Orgasm and masterbation? Female?


Posted Thursday October 16 2014, 3:17 pm

I'm 15/f. And I have been masterbating since I was like 14. Although j don't really know what an orgasm feels like for what cumming feels like. I want to experience both of these but I'm not sure how ! After a while of masterbating I get kinda annoyed and bored of it because I cannot orgasm or cum. What's the difference? Also, if your a female, can you give some tips and techniques to making masterbating a lot more enjoyable ? Thanks:)

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I can't have an orgasum!!


Posted Sunday July 27 2014, 12:54 pm

Hi I'm 13 and i have trouble reaching an orgasm, I've tried a bunch of times And I never succeeded. I Masturbate with a four-inch rounded tip marker And my electric toothbrush. Do u have any tips in how I can reach an Orgasm?!

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I just can't get there


Posted Wednesday July 9 2014, 11:12 pm

So I'm a lesbian and every time I have sex with my girlfriend I just never seem to orgasm. She's really into kinky Bdsm things but i don't think that would turn me on. Has anyone had any experience with this?

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Can't reach orgasm during sex...please help?!


Posted Tuesday April 29 2014, 11:42 pm

So I've had three sexual partners within my life time so far and not a single one has been able to make me climax yet and it's seriously frustrating! Yes I've tried having him rub and finger me, and even eat me out for a decent amount of time before having sex but nothing has worked :( it's not like I don't feel good because I most definitely do but I've never been able to get close to a climax. Are there any women who have had this issue? I've had orgasms before with a vibrator directly on my clit but that is the only thing that has made a difference. Could I have desensitized myself to sex? I can't keep having sex and not get anywhere it makes it hard for me to enjoy sex anymore. Please anyone who can help or give me tips, it's more then ...

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how do i orgasm


Posted Wednesday March 26 2014, 10:35 pm

I am confused on how to make myself orgasm


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Orgasm


Posted Tuesday March 18 2014, 6:19 pm

I search up some way to have an orgasm and I found one, so when you go to have a shower you would take the shower head and you would turn it to massage and put it close to your vagina and it would feel real good and it did. I also made myself have an orgasm, it was amazing!! But how could I make it even better??

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Vibrator? first time? scared?


Posted Wednesday February 26 2014, 4:48 pm

So me and my boyfriend are in a ldr and I've never had an orgasm. I'm 22 and he's 23. He told me to go to a adult store with a giftcard he won and buy myself two different vibes. So I did and tried one alone in my apartment. I had my first O. it was so intense I screamed and my whole body convulsed like a mini seizure. It was so scary I didn't like it. I prefer just getting to the point where I'm relaxed and feel like I have to pee and then stopping and having sex with no O. It was too intense and scared me. I don't think I ever want to feel that again. So now I just vibe to where I'm comfy and no further. Help? I want to O without screaming. I don't want it that intense. Intense but not that intense and my **** burned after. Again help? Advice?


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I am officially frigid


Posted Wednesday January 29 2014, 11:50 pm

I have been married twice, and can only orgasm by myself. Never with my former or current husband. My current husband has cheated on me because he says that I am a bad lover, and if I don´t orgasm with him he will divorce me.

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Why can't I squirt??


Posted Sunday January 12 2014, 6:57 pm

I'm 15 and I do masturbate using an extra vibrating toothbrush and a back massager I got from target. I don't have anything else but my fingers to use for penetration. I do believe I climax because my back arches and it's the most amazing feeling ever. But the problem is I can't "squirt". I don't know how to make myself reach that point. Help??

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Worried about future orgasms


Posted Tuesday January 7 2014, 4:00 pm

I'm 16 and I masturbate using clit stimulation. I use an extra electric toothbrush and even my bathtub spout to climax. I'm worried that when I have sex when I get older that I won't be able to climax because it's not clit stimulation.

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I want to have an orgasm but I'm having trouble getting there


Posted Monday December 23 2013, 6:20 am

So I'm 16 and I masterbaute and I've tried ALOT of things but I can't seem to reach an oragasm:/ I used a removeable shower head it kinda of works but soon as it's about to start it all just stops! I also tried a tooth brush that used to work not anymore though! I tried a carrot with a condom over it but it didn't work:( i need help what can I doo to reach one?

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I don't know if I have orgasmed or not? Am I normal?


Posted Saturday December 7 2013, 5:30 pm

Me and my boyfriend (16&17)have been together 5 months and we have started having a lot more sex in the past couple of months but sometimes even if it's amazing I don't know if I orgasm or not, I get to the point were I feel like I should but I don't all I feel like is I need a pee really badly but I don't know if that's it or not? Sometimes there's no issue and I know I wouldn't but when I get the feeling I should but I don't, also there was one time and he thought I had came but I didn't think I'd orgasmed and it was dark so I couldn't see, but that's the only time I might of physically cum'ed but it didn't feel as good as some other times, I'm not really sure what the question is but advise or something that says I'm normal or not?

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