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I am 18 years old.I am from Bangladesh. I have sex 3 times a month with my boyfriend but he cannot give orgasm.I get small orgasm though but rare. Should I wait or change position?
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Try viginal sex with condoms of course but its called milking you will cum like hell when he puts his penis in your vigina finger your self at the same time or ejaculate at the same time.o
one last thing have you considered tit fuck. Tell me if these work sorry imma 13 year old boy
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You need to know how to give yourself an orgasm through masturbation first before you can teach him how. When starting, both males and females have a lot to learn, we don't all know everything the first couple times we experiment with sex. It's a constant learing experience and changes each time you have a new boyfriend as each person is different in what pleases them most and brings them to orgasm the best. It is not for him to know how but to be willing to 'learn how'.
So use some sort of personal lubricant on your clitoris and relax, a time when you can have privacy and not be interrupted. Then using your fingers rub it in different ways until you have an orgasm. You can try fast, slowly, softly or very hard, try right on the clitoris or to the sides of it when rubbing. You'll know you're getting somewhere when it engorges with blood and you feel a pronounced ridge now under the skin. Keep changing the pace until you get your orgasm.
Most females do not orgasm with the man inside her so if you don't, its not an odd thing. Most get their orgasms from the guy using his fingers on her or using a sex toy on her. Once you both have mastered the clitoral orgasm, you can move on to working on a G spot orgasm. Your g spot is on the tummy side of your vagina about 2 inches in, feels like a rough wrinkled s pot of skin and is located in front of the urethra, that tube which carries urine from the bladder out of your body. Some women also have another connecting tube that allows her in an orgasm to ejaculate like men and it comes out the same hole as pee does. In other women it didn't develop when they were a fetus and the liquid goes straight into their bladder. Stimulation of this g spot area will make it engorge/fill with blood as it gets more sensitive and aroused. However because it is right near urinary and bladder parts, it can feel like an urge to pee which is actually the signal that you are about to orgasm if you dont hold it back. If you are afraid it might be pee/urine, a female clamps down on the urge and wont have a g spot orgasm. So when you do get to the point of trying this one, remember to empty your bladder first so you can relax when you feel the urge knowing the bladder doesnt fill with urine that quickly and what you feel is your orgasm.
hope this helps.
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