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Why can't I squirt??
I'm 15 and I do masturbate using an extra vibrating toothbrush and a back massager I got from target. I don't have anything else but my fingers to use for penetration. I do believe I climax because my back arches and it's the most amazing feeling ever. But the problem is I can't "squirt". I don't know how to make myself reach that point. Help??
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The answer to your question is most women do not squirt. It is not part of the makeup of a women to squirt. Those that do will not squirt as one might see in a porno movie.
In a porno movie the gush of fluid that is ejaculated from the woman is actually trick photography. The action is stopped. Her vagina is loaded with fluid and through muscle contraction she is able to expel the fluid. She is not squirting or ejaculating in the manner you are thinking
For most women when they orgasm they will just have more fluid, enough to coat the penis or finger if masturbating, so you can have less friction during the orgasm.
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To be completely honest, not all women CAN "squirt"(aka "female ejaculation"). It's sort of a randomized hit-or-miss situation. Some women squirt every time they orgasm, and others never ejaculate. A larger number of women only ejaculate during more extreme orgasms.
They can all secrete fluids, but not all of them have the physical ability/reactions that actually cause the fluids to squirt. Squirting is caused by a certain series of muscular contractions that a woman has during an orgasm, but not everyone reacts the same way during orgasm.
So, you may not be able to. Or, you may just require the kind of feeling that only another person's touch can give you.
Now, I'm not saying to go look for someone to make you squirt, as you are only 15. At your age, intimate touching and sexual intercourse can be perfectly ok if you're ready for it, if it's with someone you care about and trust, and most importantly if you practice safe sex.
Anyway, I guess what I'm saying is don't worry about it. It's not a big deal. You'll find out some day whether or not you can, but for now, just enjoy the orgasms you DO have.
I hope this helped you feel a little better. :)
~Panda
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