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I don't know if I have orgasmed or not? Am I normal?
Me and my boyfriend (16&17)have been together 5 months and we have started having a lot more sex in the past couple of months but sometimes even if it's amazing I don't know if I orgasm or not, I get to the point were I feel like I should but I don't all I feel like is I need a pee really badly but I don't know if that's it or not? Sometimes there's no issue and I know I wouldn't but when I get the feeling I should but I don't, also there was one time and he thought I had came but I didn't think I'd orgasmed and it was dark so I couldn't see, but that's the only time I might of physically cum'ed but it didn't feel as good as some other times, I'm not really sure what the question is but advise or something that says I'm normal or not?
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The feeling of the urge to pee is normal because the g-spot is wrapped around the urethra where your pee comes out. This spongy feeling area will engorge with blood when stroked with a finger or two in a "come here' motion. Those muscles that hold back the pee will also hold back the orgasm from coming. So what you need to do is go empty your bladder before engaging in sex. Also, you might put a towel under you so you aren't afraid to wet anything. Then when you get to the point of feeling the urge to pee, let go and you will have your orgasm. Some women have connecting ductwork that allows their ejaculation fluid to flow into the urethra and out thus making one feel they have peed. Other women also ejaculate but the fluid drains into their bladder to be held instead of directly into the urethra. You can also do research on line for you tube videos that teach about all the types of orgasm and what to do to achieve them. There is clitoral orgasm, g-spot which is the upper wall of vagina about 2 inches at the most in, a spongy area that swells with stimulation. Then lastly, I have heard that there is the A-spot which is also the upper wall of vagina the side closest to your navel. This spot will be right in front of the cervix. If you have felt with your fingers, the cervix kinda feels like the tip of your nose. This one can also be stimulated, maybe not by fingers but use of sex toy but also by the penis. And I know for myself that often when this Aspot is triggered, it also triggers a secondary orgasm from the g-spot which results in release of the female ejaculation fluid, known also as gushing or squirting. Even if your body isnt built to do that, the walls of the vagina will still ooze a thicker lubricating fluid and can produce quite enough of that to make a wet spot.
I will post two videos by Univ. of Ore. Health Ctr on a lecture about Orgasm. The physiology of it and the diagrams and models used help explain much better than what any health class in high school could.
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So don't worry, you are normal. Even if any real pee did leak out a few drops, its nothing to worry about because urine is sterile.
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