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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
Having trouble achieving orgasm... alone or with your partner? Ask your question here.


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Posted Tuesday September 11 2012, 10:41 pm

when imaturbate i never get orgasms please help me and also when i masturbate it fells good in a bad way am i bad for doing this

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my boyfriend wants me to be on top..what should i do??


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:11 am

i'm a girl and my boyfriend wants me to be on top the next time we have sex but i have never been on top before so i don't know what to do.Could you tell me what to do or how should i do it??

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I have never orgasmed with my boyfriend


Posted Saturday August 11 2012, 3:50 am

18/f

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months and generally when we 'fool around' he'll finger me or go down on me. It always feels great but I've never reached an orgasm before and I always feel like I have to fake it because I'm taking too long. I don't want to tell him and hurt his feelings, but at the same time I'd like to reach orgasm! Is there anything that I can do? Thanks!

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premature ejactualation


Posted Sunday July 29 2012, 10:05 am

I'm 17 male and having sex,I have day where I will cum aloast instintly ,techniques?? Is masturbating regulary good?

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Lack of Orgasm


Posted Sunday July 29 2012, 2:57 am

I have been sexually active for 6 years. I have had a number of different partners of different penis lengths, widths, sizes, shapes, and talent. Although I've had such a variety of different sexual experiences, one thing always remains the same: I can't orgasm during intercourse.

Not only am I unable to orgasm during intercourse, it just simply doesn't feel good. I love my boyfriend dearly, but sex has come down to having a 200lb man thrust himself into me until he cums or who makes me get on top, knowing my insecurities about my body - which just makes things even worse.

The most embarrassing part about this entire issue, is that I will soon be attending graduate school to work towards a PhD in Human Sexual...

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embarrasing orgasms.


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 1:31 pm

Well i don't masturbate and I haven't really done anything sexual but for some reason, when im doing my casual daily chores, i can feel something wet in my pants and i always find out that i had an orgasm and its really embarrassing. i don't know how to stop it and i get really embarrassed and some times it even happens at school and i cant sort it out cuz the teacher wont let me go to the bathroom so i just have to put up with it and im tired of it. How do i stop it?

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Painful intercourse


Posted Monday June 25 2012, 1:26 pm

19F
Boyfriend 20M
To start off I have been sexual active for about 4 years now, I have never had too many problems until I started dating my boyfriend I am with as of now, Most the time sex is fine and great, however some of our favorite positions can't be done, when we do doggy style or I put my legs a certain way he goes to deep or it just hurts too much and we'll have to stop, he's not very big, about 6 inches, I don't know what the problem could be, because I've been with bigger guys and it never hurt, could there be a reason why? It feels like he's going too deep and it hurts a lot, Is there some kind of exercise or something I could do to stop this from happening??

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i cant orgaism!


Posted Friday June 22 2012, 5:07 pm

Basically since I lost my virginity I have never been able to reach an orgaism during intercourse I have tried so hard to find how I like it but nothing works I have only had an orgaism during sex twice and I'm now 19. My partners have to go down on me before sex to satisfy me otherwise I'm left frustrated. It has started to really get to me! How can I try and figure out how my body like it to make me reach that point and I think its starting to get to my boyfriend.

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i want to know what the penis is supposed to feel inside the vagina... i don't feel anything


Posted Sunday June 17 2012, 6:02 am

i got married recently and after that i do may times sex but i could not feel that my penis is rubbing and touching any thing inside the vagina even she also did not where the penis inside the vagina.only top of the vagina ,feel that touch and rub but inside it no feeling ..wat should i do ..even length not so bad its appro 6 inch..pls help

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New girlfriend is frigid... how do I deal?


Posted Friday June 15 2012, 7:15 am

M/15
I used to have sex with my girlfriend always, but when we broke up obviously we couldn't anymore. I got a new girlfriend but she's frigid. Dunno what to do?
Men, answer plz

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Cant reach it


Posted Monday June 11 2012, 1:09 am

Im a female who is not a virgin and i dont think ive had an orgasm...even if i try to please my self i can not reach my orgasm...and if i was to have one what would it feel like

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Penis erection


Posted Friday June 1 2012, 3:14 pm

My penis does not erect when it should.

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He fingered me but I didn't cum


Posted Saturday May 26 2012, 9:34 pm

I was with this guy and both of us were really horny so one thing led to another and he started to finger me. It felt good and I was moaning but I didn't cum. Why?

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new at masturbating: Why does it make me feel uncomfortable?


Posted Thursday May 24 2012, 7:45 pm

So im a 16 year old female and i just tried masturbating for the first time. i found that pillows and stuff like that dont work, only direct stimulation to my clit. at first it felt good but then i started to shake uncontrollably. i figured i was close to having an orgasm but i starting getting really uncomfortable. i thought masturbation was supposed to make you feel good not make you feel uncomfortable?

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I don't no I'f I'm having an orgasm


Posted Wednesday May 23 2012, 5:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a month and I'm A little more experienced then him .it takes him about an hour to cum wen were having sex but I can't cum at all .hes tryed eating me out before n I felt this feeling like I had to pee n my legs felt warm n kinda numb n then i started tossing n turning but i didnt make any noise because wen we started having sex the first time i had to be quiet n eversence ive been kinda quiet during sex but wen i tossed n turned I kinda made my boyfriend stop eating me out and my cutie (as my boyfriend calls it )kinda pulsated n then it kinda hurt toutching it ..did I cum ??

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What Is the best way to hit your g-spot during sex


Posted Thursday May 10 2012, 12:38 pm

i have never had an orgasam during sex or hit my g-spot what is the best way to hit your g-spot and have an orgasam during sex

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can't do it


Posted Monday April 30 2012, 12:31 pm

How do you cum?

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Masturbating.


Posted Tuesday April 17 2012, 9:33 pm

I was masturbating and I got closer than i've ever gotten to reaching orgasm, but by then my arm was getting sore..and I just couldn't finish. I felt like I had to pee really bad (although i kind of had to go before i started) And yeah...Plus i was doing it in the bathroom so i was kind of limited on time because that's the only place i have privacy. what should i do for the next time?..
17/f

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Orgasm problems


Posted Monday April 16 2012, 7:30 pm

I'm a male

So my girlfriend has been trying to get me off with her hands and mouth.. but I can't orgasm when she does it..

I noticed when i masturbate i lay down my feet kind of go farther then shoulder length apart.. and i tense up in the legs, more of a flexing of my muscles..
When I am standing up i can only if i get more on the tips of my toes and my muscles in the legs are flexing again..

Now i am very self conscious about this and have low self esteem and stuff.. I was wondering if this is normal.. and if i should tell her that is how i am or what i can do to be more "normal" I have seen porn and those guys just seem to be flat footed and stuff and just shoot it like not...

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how to orgasm


Posted Sunday April 15 2012, 9:24 pm

when im having sex with my boyfriend and i go on top and ride him . as soon as i start rideing him he cums and i dont get my orgasm how can i stop him from cuming so fast. and we can finish at the same time.

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