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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
Having trouble achieving orgasm... alone or with your partner? Ask your question here.


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sex for the 4th time still doesn't feel good?


Posted Monday March 18 2013, 3:45 am

so i just had sex for the 4th time and it hurt alittle but all the times i had sex didnt feel good even this one is that normaly also he makes me really wet but still dosent feel good

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How do men wait for there women to climax before they do?


Posted Thursday March 14 2013, 6:58 pm

How do I make my boyfriend last as long as I do to climax?

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Masterbation


Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 5:17 pm

How can a girl finger herself? Any ideas on fingering?

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orgasms


Posted Sunday January 20 2013, 6:21 pm

How do I give my self orgasms

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My boyfriend can't stay hard.


Posted Sunday January 20 2013, 3:09 pm

22/female
Mike grew up mormon, but he left that religion a few years ago. Mike and I have been dating for a few months now, just recently we started getting sexual. Last night we hung out and it started to get hot and heavy, we ended up naked in his bed. He grabbed a condom and of course it takes forever to put them on so by the time he had it on the mood was dead. We started making out to get him hard again but after awhile, we were tired of trying, he could not get hard. I was so confused and bummed so I asked him if it was my fault he couldn't get hard, if he was even attracted to me. He said he is definitely attracted to me and the problem is that his old religion (mormon) always gets in his head at the worst time and messes him...

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Girl orgasm tips


Posted Monday January 14 2013, 1:31 pm

Hey im a 15 year old boy from London,my friend is having a party in a few weeks and he will give me and my girlfriend a room.dont bother sayin we're too young im not going to have sex!!she said she will give me a blowjob,she wants to be fingered but wont let me eat out...any tips for giving her an orgasm with fingers only?:) thanks

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I can't get properly aroused or reach orgasm?


Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 1:14 pm

Okay so, im an 18 year old girl, I've been with my boyfriend (19) for a year and a half, we are really really comfortable with eachother. But he's never made me orgasm, then again neither have I.
I try to masturbate but perhaps I'm too impatient, nothing seems to work. The first few times I touched myself, and the first few times he did- I was really sensitive. But after that I dot feel much down there, mentally I've got a really high sex drive cos i think about it/want it all the time. But I dont seem to get physically aroused and because of that nothing builds up to an orgasm:(
I don't know what to do!

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Cumming is hard, how'd people do it????!!!!! & why me?!


Posted Monday December 24 2012, 3:16 am

As much as i try to cum it never works, instead i pee a little. I get so fustrated!!! All i want to do is cum and what is really messed up i've seen other people cum like it's a hobby... Grrr... :( Will sombody give me some good girl cumming exlamation? Cause this not cumming thing is on my last flipp'n nerve!! Pls respond to this post as FAST as you can!!!!!!!!! Wait one more thing: WHY IS IT SO HARD!!!!??????

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G Spot Orgasm??


Posted Monday December 17 2012, 4:40 am

Female 22

I have had sex multiple times but I have never reached an orgasm from the g spot... I dont think anyway.

I learned that girls can have different types of orgasmns and the only one I have ever had is clitoral orgasms. The only time I orgasm during sex is when my clit is being stimulated but it's the clit that feels good not the inside. I would really like to have an orgasm from just the sex itself...

However... I have had sex before where it was so good that I didn't even need to orgasm. Just hitting my g spot until he came was good enough. Could that mean I did orgasm and just didn't realize it? I've been told that its something you would know and not question.

How can I reach an orgasm?



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When a woman has an orgasm...


Posted Friday November 30 2012, 9:34 pm

I have a quick question. So when you are stimulating a woman with your hands and they start to orgasm, should you stop what you're doing while they finish? Or should you keep going for a while? As a guy I know that for us it feels better to have all stimulation stop when the orgasm starts, but I'm not sure if women are the same way.

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what can i do to reach orgam during sex?


Posted Saturday November 24 2012, 4:42 am

Hi,what can i do to reach orgam during sex? i have only experienced when am in fear. My boyfriend apoloyised to me because he had realise l had not calm but for me i saw it normal since i have never experienced it.

Thanks.

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Not sure if I finished or not


Posted Saturday November 3 2012, 8:11 pm

For starters, i have never been able to reach orgasm before by masturbating (im a virgin still) its always been a frustration because id feel like i was close for so long and its like it was just impossible to finish. So id always give up. Anyways, i was masturbating the other night and I felt really close like I had before but this time my legs went completely stiff and felt they were both asleep or something because they tingled. I honestly felt like I was possessed for a minute or something because I could not move my legs lol (of course while this was happening I wasn't stopping masturbating) and I kept going and the pleasure did feel greater than it had before but there was no big intense pleasure wave or whatever they say an orgasm is...

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My boyfriend finishes too fast.


Posted Tuesday October 30 2012, 5:04 pm

Whenever my boyfriend and I "Get to it" I always have fun but it's usually short lived, he lasts about 5-7 minutes tops and I'm always left hanging, he tries after with foreplay but it doesn't work because he gets completely uninterested and tired and I want him to be excited. Is there anyway I can get him to last longer? Positions or tips? I got him a ring and it helps a little he lasts about 1-2 minutes longer but nothing substantial. Does anyone know anything that will help?? Please??

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sex :pleasing her


Posted Monday October 22 2012, 9:54 am

how can i make sure shes having a good time in the sack. sbe keeps comming back for more but never cums while im with her.

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My boyfriend and I have sex but I never reach an orgasm


Posted Sunday October 21 2012, 8:43 pm

My boyfriend and I have had sex more than once but I never orgasm what should I do to orgasm so he will feel like he's good and I will feel better after having sex. 14/f

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Problem Cumming: It takes 2 to 3 hours for me to cum. (I am a guy)


Posted Saturday October 13 2012, 6:06 pm

Can someone please help me. When I am having sex it is wonderful and I feel great, but the only problem is that i takes me up to two to three hours to cum and then sometimes I don't at all. It doesn't worry me but my girl really loves my cum and wants more. Is there any way I can cum faster?? - Thanks in advance

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What could the cause of my wife's low sex drive be?


Posted Tuesday October 9 2012, 7:38 am

my wife has low sexual drive or interest, what could be the cause from the age 24years and she is currently 44 years old?

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Sexual frustration


Posted Saturday October 6 2012, 11:11 pm

I'm 18 and still a virgin, I'm very sexually frustrated and I'm horny like 24/7.. Not that anyone wants to hear about me masturbating, but I took an old toothbrush that used to sing (has a thicker handle) and put a little sock around it, and put it inside a condom and have been using that lately..I keep feeling like im so close to cumming but I never can and it's really annoying so I always end up giving up because I'm tired of trying after so long. I was wondering why I'm having so much trouble cumming for one, and if there's any tips for that. And also if anyone knows of a way to make a homemade dildo or something because I don't have the guts to go into a store and buy one lol and I dont have the money either. Anything helps, thanks.

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Why can't I reach orgasm?


Posted Saturday October 6 2012, 12:53 pm

19/f

I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. We haven't had sex yet but we have done everything else. He is so good at touching me but for some reason I never orgasm. I feel guilty about this because he tries so hard and always does such a wonderful job but I still can't orgasm. Sometimes I fake it but honestly I just want to orgasm for real. Please help me I don't know what's wrong with me.

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Boyfriend won't finish me.


Posted Friday September 21 2012, 9:14 pm

So, I have a very healthy sexual relationship with my boyfriend, we have sex about 1-2 times a day. However sometimes we just like to engage in foreplay and we don't even have sex(Which I don't mind) However, I usually end up taking the lead during this. Though if he finishes he tends to just flip over and go to sleep after leaving me hanging. I've tried to stop pleasuring him and see if that would give him the hint to pleasure me for a while but that doesn't work, I've tried tons of things but nothing works. What should I do to give him the hint that this girl needs the same back?

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