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I want to have an orgasm but I'm having trouble getting there
So I'm 16 and I masterbaute and I've tried ALOT of things but I can't seem to reach an oragasm:/ I used a removeable shower head it kinda of works but soon as it's about to start it all just stops! I also tried a tooth brush that used to work not anymore though! I tried a carrot with a condom over it but it didn't work:( i need help what can I doo to reach one?
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It could be a case of your mind not focused. I have trouble focusing my mind on occasion. The mind has been called the greatest sexual instrument. Its the imagining of and the looking forward to, dreaming about the experience before hand that can help heighten the experience. I have a creative mind that focuses on too many things at once so I still have to practice. That may be one issue for you.
Another may be how you feel things.
Some people have a high pain tolerance and others don't. What is excruciating pain sending others for pain killer meds is barely noticeable to another.
This kind of difference I believe can translate into how we feel with all our nerve endings in sexual excitement. I have high pain tolerance. So to have orgasms, I find a need a great intensity. Most pulsating shower heads are not strong enough to give me an orgasm. As for vibrating toys, if the battery isn't totally fresh, I already can feel the difference and its not intense enough.
this could also be part of the issue if you happen to have high pain tolerance. Not that orgasm is painful but nerves are still involved in both.
And lastly, I found I had to learn more about myself by exploring myself to find my G spot and A spot and how to achieve orgasms by hitting these spots the right way. It can help to read or watch videos about orgasms and the parts and how it all works, then you choose the intensity you need to get the orgasm. If you want some links to info on orgasms, let me know.
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What my sister tells me is to watch a video that turns you on and masterbate while doing that, or rub something between your legs. i don't masterbate or watch porn since its gross, but thats what she says.
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