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Trouble Reaching Orgasm
Having trouble achieving orgasm... alone or with your partner? Ask your question here.


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First time with this


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 12:06 am

I apologize if this should be in the Virginity section but to me it doesn't fit in that.

Anyways, this weekend my girlfriend wants to have some "fun" and by this she means a hand job and then me fingering her.

I have never gone past making out with a girl, i'm nervous especially because she has done stuff before but with only one other guy, that is what she said and i believe her. But as i am a guy and have masturbated before i have noticed I can only orgasm when i'm in a certain position..

When i lay down my feet kind of go farther then shoulder length apart.. and i tense up in the legs, more of a flexing of my muscles..
When I am standing up i can only if i get more on the tips...

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how can i make him last longer?


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 5:38 pm

Hiya there, 16/f..
Me and my boyfriend are going to lose our virginity to eachother pretty soon and I've heard that boys often climax too quickly and get too excited during their first time.. so has anyone got any little flirty foreplay tips or something to make him last longer so we can both remember it?

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masterbation


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:24 am

16/f.. this is really weird asking this but.. I always masturbate fingering on my back and I was wondering if you could develop a problem reaching orgasm with a partner if you always masturbate in the same way? If so, what other ways can I do it to mix it up a bit? Thanks..

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Posted Tuesday March 27 2012, 9:44 am

Never had I have an orgasim woman


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I a woman and I never had an orgasim what can I do


Posted Tuesday March 27 2012, 9:42 am

Im a woman and I never had an orgamism what can I do to fix the problem?




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why can't my partner cum inside me


Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 9:12 am

Hi my partner and I are very much in love we have a good sexual relationship the problem we have is he wants to cum inside me but can not we end having to do oral sex to get him to orgasm. I can climax many times while he is inside me but he can not I have my tubes tied and hoping I can get them untied next year we want to try for a baby even though I have had children before to my ex husband. How do I help him to cum inside me I so want him too, is there anything I can do to help

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how can i leave masterbuting?


Posted Thursday March 22 2012, 1:26 pm

i see horney videoes everytime and masterbuting please give me an idea to leave it

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How can I finish... no matter what my boyfriend does, I can't finish!


Posted Wednesday March 21 2012, 10:27 pm

21 - female

I cannot finish no matter what my boyfriend and I do!!! A couple nights, he ate me out/fingered me for at least an hour and still didn't finish. We've tried 69, everything...

He tries so hard to please me and give me what I want but I feel terrible that I can't! I have never finished before (I don't think so at least)

I don't know what to do anymore!!!


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Women's Masturbation


Posted Wednesday March 21 2012, 4:13 am

I occasionally masturbate but every time I am about to climax I start having thoughts about how shallow it is. I don't try to have these I just do and I lose it. It's getting kind of annoying and have tried many different masturbating techniques but none have worked. Is there a way to fix this? Thanks.

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How do you know when your gonna have an orgasm? I don't know how it feels


Posted Monday March 19 2012, 5:31 pm

So, me and my boyfriend ended up going alittle bit farther and he fingered me. And I moaned and everything but he still says He feels unaccomplished. He says I would have to have an orgasm. But idk how it feels. Like how do you when your gonna have an orgasm? Or you did have one? Help please! Thank you(:

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going to soon


Posted Sunday March 18 2012, 11:54 pm

First off I'm in the navy and I'm 20 years old. Me and my fiance have.dated for about 8 months. At the beggining I didn't get off until she did like 2 times. Now honestly minus foreplay I don't last but about 7-8 minutes of straight going at it. Why is this?

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I can't orgasm -_-


Posted Thursday March 15 2012, 8:57 pm

I am seventeen female I have been with my boyfriend fir two years and we have been having sex for one year already and I can not orgasm I have no idea what I'm searching for like in what it feels like or if I'm even close to ever having one can anyone help me I'm getting disgraced and my boyfriend is getting even more frustrated I don't know what to do anymore please help...

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Masterbation vs. Sex


Posted Saturday March 3 2012, 9:45 pm

Is masterbating and having an orgasm what sex feels like?

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Orgasm


Posted Friday February 24 2012, 10:08 pm

what is an orgasm? i have an idea and I'm in health right now in "the unit" but it's never talked about and i don't want to embarrass myself and ask.

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How to have sex in different positions


Posted Monday February 20 2012, 10:57 pm

Me - 20, 21 on April 4th; My boyfriend - 22

My boyfriend is a very sexual person, I tend to be as well. Usually when we have sex, I'm the one whose on top, mainly because he's quite a bit heavier than me. I notice that he's better at thrusting than I am, which he attributes to being the one with the penis.

He's tried to have sex in other positions with me, and I have had a hard time with this. I want to have sex in other positions, as well; he's only two years older than me but is more experienced than me in the bedroom, so I'm worried that he's going to think that our sex life is boring eventually. I'm the eighth girl that he's slept with, not all of which he was in a relationship with; he's only the third guy...

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why does a boyfriend say this?


Posted Monday February 20 2012, 2:31 pm

hi guys, why does a boyfriend wants you to cum at the same time as he is during sex? we've been dating for a 3 and a half years now and lived together for a couple of months. everything is going great. he's 48 and i'm 34. during sex he ejaculates quick and me, it takes a few minutes. but he just really wants and asks me to cum at the same time whenever we have sex. so why is it? thank you all.

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i can only get off if i picture a girl but i date boys does that make me a lesbian?


Posted Monday February 20 2012, 9:35 am

okay i date,i gt turned on by guys but the only way i can reach an orgasm is if i imagine myself wth a girl,i picture bein pleasured by a girl,so does that make me a lesbian?and yes i have tried it with a girl before but when i was younger below 11 years,now im 18,but i date boys n never picture dating a girl!!its jus for pleasure

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Masterbation For girls: whenever I get close I start to feel weird... so I can never orgasm


Posted Monday February 20 2012, 12:49 am

So I rarely masterbate but I have never orgasmed because whenever I get close I starts to feel weird. I get past the peeing feeling but it almost hurts in a way. It's uncomfortable and not very good feeling. This is why i dont masterbate a lot too. Why is this? Thanks! :)

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just the women please


Posted Monday February 13 2012, 12:17 pm

how can i make myself orgasm? my boyfriend can do it but i cant. thanks:)

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So Horny and No Way To Get Relief


Posted Thursday February 9 2012, 10:51 am

17/F

I'm not a virgin first off. But I am always so so so horny. I have no way of relief considering I don't have a boyfriend and I'm not into one nighters. I want to get a Jack Rabbit Vibrator but I don't anyone to know that I'm getting one. I can't send it anywhere and I cant walk into a store and get one. any advice. using my fingers doesnt help. I get to the point where I'm throbbing. Any advice is welcomed.


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