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I didn't hang with my bff and shes mad!
Posted Wednesday November 28 2018, 4:58 pm
My best friend is super mad at me almost all the time! Today was my anniversary with my boyfriend. She and I normally hang out every Wednesday, but i want 2 spend my anniversary with my bf! But now shes mad and upset and offended! Help! What do I say or do?
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Slept with friend help!
Posted Friday November 16 2018, 12:48 am
I slept with a friend last week. We are both kind of into each other. I knew I wasn't into him enough to be sleeping with him but its been a while and he assured me he wouldn't be weird about it.
So we did it and it was amazing sex but now I feel like I sort of got it out of my system and want to go back to just being friends (I know I know it sounds bad). We are part of a larger group of friends and one friend even asked me not to mess around with him unless Im serious so I don't mess up our group. Although it wasn't a wise choice I don't really regret it I just don't think it should happen again and really don't want anyone to find out about it. How to I tell him that was fun but we shouldn't do that again? P.S. it was pret...
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My married but separated friend is dating a married man! What do I do/say!?
Posted Monday November 5 2018, 2:09 am
My friend has 4 kids and is separated from her hubby because he cheated. She is now dating a married man she met through an online dating site. This man lives with his wife and kids. As far as I’m aware, his wife has no knowledge of his relationship with my friend. To top it off, my friend knows firsthand the pain, hurt and trauma inflicted on her and her 4 kids when her hubby cheated. I don’t see how she can turn around and do this to someone else! When she talks about how “sweet” and “wonderful” this new married man is, I literally feel sick. I don’t know what to say/do! I’ve been avoiding her phone calls and texts but I can’t continue this forever. Please, if anyone has some advice I’d really appreciate it. Thanks! ...
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my friends
Posted Saturday October 20 2018, 1:12 am
I know my friends care about me but they don’t show it. They leave me out a lot and kinda talk to me like shit. What do i do?
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Friend with an attitude
Posted Monday October 15 2018, 11:27 pm
A friend of mine who used to be a very nice person went to college. Now he looks down on everyone and treats us like we're subhuman. How should i act when i run into him?
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I asked my friend out...
Posted Thursday October 4 2018, 9:58 pm
I have a friend and she talked like she likes me more than a friend so Saturday I asked her how she really felt about me during truth or dare. She avoided the question. Then yesterday I asked her how she felt again and she avoided the question. I don’t want to go out with her cuz I am still trying to figure out if it’s deep admiration for her or if I like like her but since she refused to answer the question I didn’t see another option. I asked her out and she said maybe. I don’t know what I’ll do if she says yes. What do I do if it’s just deep admiration I have for her and she says yes? I don’t want to lose her.
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Wanted to know how my friend really feels about me so I asked her out
Posted Thursday October 4 2018, 9:45 pm
My friend and I are in a fake relationship that started from a joke. One day I asked her how long she wanted to keep it going and she said, “Till you graduate.” I said, “Okay, so after I graduate you’ll marry me right?” She said in a serious way, “Yes.” I said, “Wait what?” She said, “What?” I said, “I was only joking and you answered seriously. Did you actually mean it?” She said, “No, I was joking too.” Ever since then I was wondering how she really feels about me. So Saturday we were playing truth or dare together and I asked her how she really felt about me. She said, “I love you.” I said, “In what way?” She ignored my question so Wednesday I asked her out to get the answer out of her and she said m...
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Any advice on being more social for someone who is shy?
Posted Tuesday September 25 2018, 8:21 am
So every school year in my university career has been lonely and I’ve had enough of it. I say this every year but this year I really want to change it. I’ve wanted to join clubs but with people I know so I’m not alone when I go to an event. but I realized if I wait for other people I’ll never get anything done. For example my cousin was supposed to transfer to my school this year so we could join a cultural club (my culture) together but she ended up staying another year at her school. So this year I want to join it with or without her but I’m really scared. Yes the club is my culture but there’s a lot of international students at the club who were actually born in that country. The only relation I have to that country is that m...
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My sister says I stole her friend...
Posted Saturday September 22 2018, 10:12 pm
My sister and I do not have the best relationship. Actually, it's awful. We were pretty close as little kids (she's two years younger) but that ended when I was 8 or 9. Im 19 now. I narrowed down the decline in our relationship to her taking my things when she was probably about 5. My mom told me it was because she wanted to be like me, try to have patience. Except it never stopped. She stole things from me up until I moved out of our parents' home last year. So as expected, our relationship is strained.
*side note, she's a bit behind for her age. She's almost 18, but acts like she's 14 or 15. Also manipulative. Can't tell the truth to save her life.
About a week ago, my parents had a BBQ, and my sister was all...
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I am going to a poolhall!
Posted Saturday September 1 2018, 8:47 pm
29 female
I am going to a pool hall this Monday night with a friend that is another female. I have never been to a pool hall before and have no idea what to wear. I was wondering if they drink so we could have a designated driver because i dont really drink that much and i don't want to drink and drive.
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I direct message one of my teammates friends and I have to see them tomorrow
Posted Sunday August 12 2018, 5:22 pm
Should i just go about my life and not worry about them? Should i like just not worry about it and how do i go about it
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I feel like I don’t belong anywhere?
Posted Wednesday August 1 2018, 12:23 am
Growing up I’ve always struggled with friend groups and keeping friends. So for years I’ve been searching for that friend group where I belong but no luck. Today I was hanging with a couple of my work friends and some of them are already best friends and consider themselves sisters. I was in the car with them and I almost started crying (obviously I didn’t) because it was so nice seeing a group of friends and it looked like a movie. I’ve never had a group of best friends like that and I just feel like I don’t belong anywhere what do I do?
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Losing best friend of 20 years
Posted Tuesday July 24 2018, 10:59 pm
I found out about this last month and it’s still killing me inside. I turn 20 next year. My cousin/ex-best friend just turned 20 last month. We are exactly 2 months and 10 days apart. We have pictures together when we were infants and have always been inseparable. We both have always had trust issues, but she is the only person I finally came to trust. We opened up how we both went through depression and were self harmers. We used each other as support to help us through this time and only trusted each other. We also drank together and snuck out when we were 16. I just finished my second year of college and I’m in SGA. I helped out with the school dance and went with my friend Ericka. My ex-best friend helped me get ready. My parents ar...
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My younger friends are stressing me out over my spending habits
Posted Tuesday July 24 2018, 8:16 am
I just turned 26, and my two closest friends are only 2 years younger. I wish I could throw caution to the wind and spend all of my hard earned money the second it hits my bank account like they do, but I cant. I treat myself here and there but there's bigger things I want to do. Trips I want to take. A place of my own. I respect the fact that my friends can throw away money like it's nothing because they don't have any responsibilities but the ones to themselves and theres nothing wrong with that. The issue and question is why cant they accept the fact that I don't want to? I'm just tired of being picked at for not dropping hundreds (sometimes thousands) of dollars just because they want me to and because I can. What do I do?
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ANYONE WILLING TO LEND A HELPING HAND?, THANKS??
Posted Sunday July 15 2018, 2:37 am
www.gofundme.com/lost-my-job-and-i-have-a-sick-mom
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Should I just stop trying?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 10:56 am
I have this friend from high school the last time I saw her was the ending of 2016. However, every time I try to make plans with her she would disappear and then respond the day after we were supposed to hangout. I’ve always gave her the benefit of the doubt but it’s not like she’s busy cause she’s not. Everytime I text her she says she’s always home because she didn’t go to school after high school and she didn’t get a job either so I’d figure we could hangout but she’s always flaking should I just stop trying? One time the day we were supposed to hangout long story short my other friend and I were at the place we were supposed to meet her at and she didn’t answer her phone calls and didn’t text me till two weeks late...
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can't be friends after a relationship?
Posted Friday June 1 2018, 10:17 pm
24/f
so to make a long story short, this guy and i dated for about two years before i ended things between us. it wasn't a toxic relationship or anything like that, but i had a lot of growing up to do and at the time, i was struggling with a lot of self-esteem issues and basically i felt unworthy of dating someone. the relationship itself was also quite bland. we didn't really do anything, except hold hands, go on movie dates, and once in a while hang out at parties. we were pretty young.
it's been about six years since we broke up. and honestly, he is a good person and i would like to be friends with him still, and I have tried to keep our friendship alive despite breaking up, but even after all this time, he ...
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Bulimic friend
Posted Monday April 23 2018, 9:14 pm
14 year old male. I was in a gender nuetral bathroom at school, and I heard vomitting from another stall. I stuck around to see if that person needed any help, and out came a female friend of mine of the same age. She didn't look like she had the stomach bug and kind of panicked when she saw me. After some questioning, I realized she was making herself puke and has been doing this for a month without anyone noticing, and begged me not to tell. I told her what she is doing is bad and she could really hurt herself, and she got all angry and defensive.
I told the guidance counselor at my High school, and now she's getting a doctor for it and everything. The thing is, she's been my close friend for a very long time and now she re...
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How do I deal with my best friends moving away and leaving me behind?
Posted Sunday April 15 2018, 5:54 pm
I'm 23 and my best friends are 24 and 27. Just in the last month both of them announced they're moving out of state.
I can't help, but feel like I'm being left behind. They both have a significant other they're moving with and one has a baby. I feel like they're both taking the easy way out and it makes me mad...and admittedly a little jealous.
The one is leaving with her SO because she's tired of working and he said she could be a stay at home mom if she leaves with him (he's joining the military). The crazy part is she just saw him for the first time in a year because they had been broken up, but now that he's offering her that she wants to get back together with him.
The other got her degree, ...
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Friend making me extremely angry!
Posted Sunday April 15 2018, 4:55 pm
I'm friend's with this kid. We aren't very close, but I still hung out with him every once in a while. He just makes me so angry! He thinks he's higher up than everyone else! He'll butt into conversations that he has no part being in, and talk shit about random people when they make the tiniest inconvenience. This one time in class we wrre discussing religion. He kept whispering to our table that none of this ever happened, and that god wasn't real. I'm fine if you don't believe in that kind of stuff, but there's no need to put down other peoples beliefs like that! Recently though, a friend if his told me he had some form of autism and can't help this type of stuff. Now I feel extremely bad for getting so angry. But he keeps doing this type...
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