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Posted Thursday November 27 2003, 5:19 pm
HAPPY TURKEY DAY!!!
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Posted Sunday November 23 2003, 4:57 pm
hey i am am the one who wrote about life being against me and i just got over a bad mood well last night i i/med him and i was like kyle... and he just came out and said Rachael i am sorry and i was wicked happy we talked things out and all and its all good i also told him i liked him liked him like a crush and he was fine with it every thing is great now i am just nervous to see him in school tomarrow because i am not the kind of person to just comeout and say i like you usually i never do so i dont no if he will act the same tomarrow becuase we sit with each other but i just thought i would up date you guys oh and to the 2 people whop responed to me thankx
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New Guy
Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 11:15 pm
Lately I've been chatting a lot with this guy. He's a friend of a friend. Anyway, it's been about 3 months now and we have loads in common. We decided to go see a movie together(not a date) next weekend. Trouble is, he's very smart, and when I'm chatting with him I always feel like I'm too stupid for him. When we meet, I'm afraid it might show even more, that he might start talking about things that i don't have much say in and he'll find me unworthy of his time and won't want to be friends anymore. How should I act, or should I plain out cancel the meeting and just stay friends on msn?
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Posted Saturday November 22 2003, 9:47 pm
i swear life is out to get me i just got over a bad mood and now i am in a huge fight with my firend and he said he didnt wanna talk to me and he hated me whate should i do?
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This is a combination of friendship and schools.
Posted Sunday November 16 2003, 4:25 pm
Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.
Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown tha...
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trust
Posted Saturday November 15 2003, 12:09 pm
i have a friend i trust with my life. or at least i DID. it turns out he doesn't trust me one bit. i even called him my older brother! i can't seem to get over it and i am really pissed off. he says he's sorry, but i don't know what's true anymore. how do i know if he's truthful to me as i used to be to him?
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lost friend
Posted Saturday November 15 2003, 12:07 pm
my best friend for over eight years (i'm only 13) doesn't wanna be my BFF no more. i don't really understand. she said it has something to do with me acting too smart around other people. what the fuck is going on with her???
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My friend lauren
Posted Friday November 14 2003, 9:37 pm
i have a friend lauren and we got in a fight the other day and we made up that night. we discussed our issues and stuff but my main one was that i dont trust her and her i. and we said we would work on that but i cant shake the feeling that she is hiding something from me and that she secretly doesnt want to trust me or just cant should i confront her on this or should i just lay low and wait for time to pass?
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Grudging
Posted Monday November 10 2003, 10:51 am
I'm 16. I "went out" with a guy (now 17) two years ago and he really really hurt me. He led me on for a year, finally asked me out, and then never went anywhere with me. I embarassed him (by wearing my knee brace in gym class) and he dumped me BY EMAIL three weeks after he asked me out. It hurt so bad because not only did I waste a year of my life on him, we were friends before that.
Everytime I tried to talk to him afterwards, he would turn the tables and place all the blame on me. I can't get over my anger on him. I never talk to him, never look at him, and generally in day-to-day contact pretend he doesn't exist. I feel bad sometimes because we had a great friendship before, but I can't trust him anymore.
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Online Boyfriends
Posted Sunday November 9 2003, 7:48 pm
OK, my friend just got an online boyfriend not too long ago. She said that he's really, really cute, sweet, that she loves him, & that he's only 16! I was in a chat with them a month or so ago, and he was acting pretty shady. So a month ago, I made a fake AOL account & IMed him. I asked him all the normal crap, like "asl?" (I said I was 21)and even "are you going out with anyone?" He replied by saying "I'm a little older, around 27, & I'm surprisingly single!" I told my friend later, that he could be unloyal, and she got so mad, she didn't speak to me for days! Should I print off the chat & show it to her? I really don't want to, cuz I don't wanna hurt her! Help!!!
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Posted Sunday November 9 2003, 7:07 am
i hope i put this in the right category... anyhoo, here's my situation...
i know this guy (we're friends, but not close) and i THINK he 'likes' my friend, but i'm not sure. he's pretty friendly with everyone, and it may just be me being paranoid, but i think he's being kinda flirty with her. AND i think she's being that way back to him. now my friend has never been out with anyone before but i think they both 'like' each other, and i'm not sure i like what's happeneing. how do you tell if a guy really likes someone or if that's just their nature? what does everyone think? what would you do if you were in my shoes?
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angry friend
Posted Friday November 7 2003, 8:42 am
i have this friend who made me very angry all the way back in august. he enraged me so much, i still refuse to talk to him. the terrible things he said about my best friend were unacceptable. but now... he won't leave me alone. i don't even want to go online now because he might bother me. i don't want to forgive him and my life has seemed so much easier now that i don't bother with him. but how do i get that message across to him, the guy who JUST DOESN'T GET IT???
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my so-called friends
Posted Sunday November 2 2003, 8:35 am
Ever since three years ago when my friend (We'll just call her Caitlyn) moved to my school, she's been one of my best friends. We told each other EVERYTHING! And then, the next year, Caitlyn and I were still as close as ever. And I was going out with this guy, (let's call him Mark), who went to Caitlyn's church, and they were pretty close friends. Now, skip forward to the present...
In the beginning of the year, Caitlyn and Mark(who I've broken up with but am still really close to as a friend) introduced me to two other friends of theirs from church (We'll call them Brian and Chrissy). Well right away, we were all a big group of friends. Chrissy was on my field hockey team, and I was dating Brian for a short period of time. Then whe...
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moving
Posted Saturday November 1 2003, 6:40 pm
how can i convince my friends to help me move? should i offer food? entertainment? a "i'll help you move" coupon? when's a good time to ask this sort of thing? i'm trying to borrow their trucks too, so i need to do some major sucking up here :)
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People People.
Posted Monday October 27 2003, 7:53 pm
What's a good way to meet new people?
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Posted Sunday October 26 2003, 1:05 pm
Last week our school had a dance. I went and we all had fun, just hanging out, talking, laughing, and then we decided to dance. At first we were just dancing, but then the slow songs came on. All my friends have boyfreinds/girlfreinds, and my freind, whom we will call bob, and I were just standing there. We are very good friends,he asked me to dance, so I said sure, why not? He thought we were dancing as friends, I thought so too. We are just friends. There is this girl though, and now she is totally pissed off at us for dancing. When she's talking to a group, and I try and say something, she'll just say: Nobody cares, Hawley. I just give her a dirty look and start talking, I don't care what she says. BUt she's really being a total bitch to...
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antisocialness
Posted Sunday October 26 2003, 11:59 am
I'm not really a social person, even though I do like having friends. The problem is that sometimes they call me up and I just don't feel like going out, and they get all insulted about the fact that I'd rather curl up with a book than party with them. I have a lot more "me" time than the average person, and I like it that way, but they don't get it. I've lied to them about other stuff going on but feel bad about that. How can I tell them I'm not in a going out mood without hurting their feelings?
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how come...
Posted Saturday October 25 2003, 4:48 pm
A friend of mine is getting married in a few months, and all she talks about is her freaking wedding. She's so annoying I just want to smack her. Some of our other friends feel the same way, others are all into this wanting to help plan and decorate and buy pretty white crap that I can't get excited about at all, because I'm just not a pretty white crap kinda girl.
She used to be so cool and normal, we'd talk about what was going on in the world, fun weekend activities, etc. Now she's wedding 24/7. What's wrong with her? How do I shake her out of cinderella land and get my friend back?
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i moved
Posted Friday October 24 2003, 8:05 am
I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"
Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough.
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Should I tell her?
Posted Monday October 20 2003, 8:38 pm
My best friend Joleen has been dating this guy Tom for a month now. Tom and my friends Allison and Grace go to the same school, but Joleen and I go to a different one.
Well, Tom, Allison, and Grace's school had a homecoming festival. Allison, Grace, and this other girl Mary were hanging around a fire pit, when Tom comes up and sits on Mary's lap. Then, he says "Oh, no. I'll crush you, you can sit on my lap." and Mary did. Apparently, that wasn't all that happend, either. They were flirting a LOT.
Should I tell Joleen what Tom did? Or should I keep it to myself?
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