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Not sure if I finished or not
For starters, i have never been able to reach orgasm before by masturbating (im a virgin still) its always been a frustration because id feel like i was close for so long and its like it was just impossible to finish. So id always give up. Anyways, i was masturbating the other night and I felt really close like I had before but this time my legs went completely stiff and felt they were both asleep or something because they tingled. I honestly felt like I was possessed for a minute or something because I could not move my legs lol (of course while this was happening I wasn't stopping masturbating) and I kept going and the pleasure did feel greater than it had before but there was no big intense pleasure wave or whatever they say an orgasm is like. I didn't feel super relaxed or anything after but needless to say I stopped (I was tired considering id been like an hour) so I'm not sure if I finished, if that was even an orgasm, and when I went pee and wiped there was a lot of white cum, usually theres just a little bit and the rest is clear..
18/F
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Well. Just a small answer. When you feel that you are right at the verge of it, start imagining the most sensual moments you must have experienced or seen in tv etc. Don't focus on your fingers. Just feel your beauty. Feel erotic. Feel sensual. Feel your vagina filled with energy. Feel the smoothness of your thighs. Feel the curve of your hips. Feel the enjoyment catching up on your nerves. Feel as if someone is really having sex with you. Focus entirely on sexual arousal. In one or two tries you would start feeling the magic. Go. You'd feel at the top of the world. Yeah ! All the best. ;)
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Hi there! Well you sound as if you're just about realising all your orgasmic potential to me! The physical side of it does involve all those muscles from the waist down gradually thightening and tensing up, just like you're experiencing. At the absolute peak they'll release, usually in a little (or pretty big!) series of 'spasms' if you know what I mean (like a squeeze, then release, then squeeze again...and so on). That's the point when you need to really 'let-go' mentally and enjoy those 'waves of pleasure' you (quite rightly) want to feel. You're right to keep going when you 'stiffen-up'. Right as the muscles about to 'do their thing' as it were, you should feel an urge to really push down hard with your pelvic muscles. It's a bit difficult to say delicately, but a lot of women say they feel as though they're going to well...have a pee as this part is happening, but you won't...so keep going! Also, some women like to get a bit vocal at that point (the brain is maybe the biggest 'sex organ' of them all), and affirming the fact that you're fully intending to finish-off big-time by saying "I'm comning!" is a great idea you could try. Just like in life in general really, saying 'God I'm gonna screw-up' is a bad idea, making you much more likely to screw-up! It's your orgasm though. Not all women thrash about and yell the house down...it's not compulsory mate! I'm absolutely certain you'll be enjoying the full-on experience you're looking for very soon. And just think...when you do find Mr Right you'll be so clued-in and savvy about yourself you'll be able to share it all with him. Lucky bloke!! Have fun.
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