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Sexual frustration
I'm 18 and still a virgin, I'm very sexually frustrated and I'm horny like 24/7.. Not that anyone wants to hear about me masturbating, but I took an old toothbrush that used to sing (has a thicker handle) and put a little sock around it, and put it inside a condom and have been using that lately..I keep feeling like im so close to cumming but I never can and it's really annoying so I always end up giving up because I'm tired of trying after so long. I was wondering why I'm having so much trouble cumming for one, and if there's any tips for that. And also if anyone knows of a way to make a homemade dildo or something because I don't have the guts to go into a store and buy one lol and I dont have the money either. Anything helps, thanks.
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Hi there. I know...sexual tension's no joke. And now you're getting even more frustrated because you're not quite reaching a climax and letting it all out? Probably safe to say that's not doing much for your mood in general, quite apart from the 'constantly horny' factor!! Buying sex-aids is a potentially embarassing event, although you really WON'T drop dead of shame in the shop, I promise. But let's start at the beginning. Now every lady's got her preferences and they're personal to her, but I wonder if you might be concentrating a little bit too hard on 'simulating sex' rather than bringing yourself off? Now of course the whole area is sensitive, and it's true that, 'feeling full' is a big part of it for some, hence the shops full of toys. For others, that may have no appeal at all, so the toys won't help any. As you no doubt are aware, the clitoris is the part which is really responsible for making that orgasm actually happen isn't it? Possibly you could concentrate on stimulating that...which of course doesn't require any shop-bought or home-made items being inserted at all. Worth a try? Not going on long enough is a possible problem, but if your doing it until you're tired out I doubt it's that. A nice quiet place and time where you won't be disturbed will help loads. You do need to be able to really let go when it starts to happen. A proper lubricant from a chemist might help. Indulging in favourite fantasy scenaria in your mind definitely will. Physical problems that actually prevent a woman coming are very rare. I really doubt you have one. It's nearly always psychological and/or a question of technique. Getting stressed because it won't come definitely won't help. You're chatting quite openly about it so I take it you're not one of the 'it's wicked and I'll go to hell if I masturbate' clients! I reckon you'll get there, but don't get side-tracked by the do-it-yourself dildo thing too much. Concentrate more on yourself... knowing your body...what feels nice...where. Hope you might find something of use here?
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