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G Spot Orgasm??
Female 22
I have had sex multiple times but I have never reached an orgasm from the g spot... I dont think anyway.
I learned that girls can have different types of orgasmns and the only one I have ever had is clitoral orgasms. The only time I orgasm during sex is when my clit is being stimulated but it's the clit that feels good not the inside. I would really like to have an orgasm from just the sex itself...
However... I have had sex before where it was so good that I didn't even need to orgasm. Just hitting my g spot until he came was good enough. Could that mean I did orgasm and just didn't realize it? I've been told that its something you would know and not question.
How can I reach an orgasm?
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It's all about foreplay. We can't go into too much detail about techniques here, but decent clitoral stimulation for a good amount of time before sex can get blood flowing around and throughout the vagina and make the nerve endings more sensitive.
Also, most women have another spot more sensitive than the g spot called the anterior fornix. It's located on the front inner wall (closer to your belly button) slightly in front of your cervix and when fingered it feels a little like a vein going horizontally. I've found that it's usually easier to give most girls orgasms by stimulating the anterior fornix than the g spot. In the missionary position, it can be more easily stimulated if you put your legs on his shoulders and lean back with your hips up and he aims upwards.
The most important thing is communication. Talk to your partner (or make it clear through moaning) about what feels good and what doesn't. A healthy sex life starts with healthy communication. And plenty of lube.
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Oh kid, I'm sorry to tell you this, but most women don't have orgasms from sex alone. Sadly. I mean, I guess it *could* happen. I have friends who've had it happen to them. But most folks I know require clitoral action during penetration to get there. You can work on your kegel exercises to strengthen your vaginal walls -- that will intensify your orgasm: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
In terms of feeling pleasure from plain ol' penetration, though, for most gals, it's "meh".
But do not despair! Because there are ways to experience all kinds of wild and intense orgasms, if you're willing to do a little -- pardon the pun -- sexploration. Solo expeditions can teach you quite a bit about your body. There are two toys in particular that I will recommend to you in order to explore that whole "G-spot" thing. These are not cheap toys, but trust angelgalwendy, they will be the last toys you will ever need. ;)
The first is the Njoy Pure Wand, which has this angle that gets in *just* the right spot. Here's a link to the company's website, but you can get this cheaper on Amazon:
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The second toy is the Erocillator. It is fun for a girl AND a boy. Fun for the whole famdamily. Trust me.
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So using these two toys together, you can discover the magic of deep stimulation -- and yes, Virginia, that *does* exist. Not only do you have a G-spot, but there are all kinds of other interesting hotspots "down there" that you can find, with a little patience and plenty of lube.
Happy hunting!
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