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How to have sex in different positions
Me - 20, 21 on April 4th; My boyfriend - 22
My boyfriend is a very sexual person, I tend to be as well. Usually when we have sex, I'm the one whose on top, mainly because he's quite a bit heavier than me. I notice that he's better at thrusting than I am, which he attributes to being the one with the penis.
He's tried to have sex in other positions with me, and I have had a hard time with this. I want to have sex in other positions, as well; he's only two years older than me but is more experienced than me in the bedroom, so I'm worried that he's going to think that our sex life is boring eventually. I'm the eighth girl that he's slept with, not all of which he was in a relationship with; he's only the third guy for me (and I think that he'll be the last), all of which I have been in relationships with.
How can I adjust my body to having sex with him in other positions? He's also tried anal with me, and he has rarely been able to succeed. I'm extremely flexible, and it's a stereotype that the best thing about dating a girl whose flexible is that two of you can have sex in different positions.
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You are not the first person to ask this question. In the past I found a URL for the Website I have included below. I believe this site will give you more than enough different positions to try with your boy friend with pictorial figures as instructional guides.
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You don't have to be experienced to be good or to go through a couple of positions, and most of which will be up to the guy (a heavy guy cant do very many). Let's start with a few basic ones:
Missionary: guy on top, girl laying on her back with legs spread apart. Very basic but a heavy guy might have some problems with keeping this up for a while, and you don't exactly want him on top of you (chest to chest) because he's too big. So do what you can
Doggy style: everyone can do this one. Girl on all fours and guy behind her. If he's alot taller than you it can be a problem but that's why you figure it out ( you on the bed and him standing up if he has too.
Girl laying down on her stomach and legs together: this has to be my favorite but might not be possible if your guy isn't over... At least 6 and a half inches. If he's like 4 inches don't even try it he'll probably hurt himself. But you can always do anal from this position.
The trouble your having with anal has to be because you don't use lube! You don't get wet from there like you do from the front so of course your Gunna need some help. Buy lube and put as much as you need. (to both of you).
Girl on top and variations of it. Instead of being on top and facing him turn around so he can touch your ass (guessing he touches your chest when he's facing you. From here you can sit straight up or lean forward and use her hips over gravity itself ( lean all the way forward and thrust your hips down then back up while you balance with your arms on the bed)
Many positions your going to find are variations of these; that may sound like there's not much to do or they're Gunna feel similar but it's not and they don't. You'll find some that feel better than the original and some that just dont work.
Don't worry about him getting bored of it because he won't. 90% of positions are up to whether the guy can do them or not
I have two more suggestions; look up sexual positions on the Internet and or look at porn. If you comfortable enough you can even watch porn together (he will not mind)
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