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why can't my partner cum inside me


Question Posted Sunday March 25 2012, 9:12 am

Hi my partner and I are very much in love we have a good sexual relationship the problem we have is he wants to cum inside me but can not we end having to do oral sex to get him to orgasm. I can climax many times while he is inside me but he can not I have my tubes tied and hoping I can get them untied next year we want to try for a baby even though I have had children before to my ex husband. How do I help him to cum inside me I so want him too, is there anything I can do to help

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solidadvice4teens answered Sunday March 25 2012, 8:14 pm:
Is he on any new or long-term medication for an illness of any kind past or present? Anti-depressants and other medicine can have sexual side-effects and perhaps this may be the issue. Have him talk to his doctor.

It's something to bring up to a urologist who can check that his plumbing is working correctly. If it's medicine causing this it's not that he can't reach climax it's that it takes too long.

The other thing could be nerves or irrational fears or fear of pregnancy etc. making it harder but it likely is medical. If he can climax on his own or through prolonged oral pleasure it proves he can and it's not your fault or his with intercourse. Have him visit a doctor.

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