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How do you know when your gonna have an orgasm? I don't know how it feels
So, me and my boyfriend ended up going alittle bit farther and he fingered me. And I moaned and everything but he still says He feels unaccomplished. He says I would have to have an orgasm. But idk how it feels. Like how do you when your gonna have an orgasm? Or you did have one? Help please! Thank you(:
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You'll probably find the answer annoying but you'll just know. It's a great feeling (understatement) that you have never felt anything like it before, the first time you have one is probably the best you'll ever have so you'll definitely know when you have it.
A lot of guys aren't very good at this so I would suggest you do this yourself (yes masturbate), so you know what gets you off easiest, and you can tell your boyfriend.
For example; a lot of girls like their clit rubbed in a circle but others don't so that won't work, some like it side to side or up and down, these are things you should figure out on your own that way your boyfriend wont feel bad and well... It's always a good thing to know. As far as fingering; most girls like it the same but I guess there is too hard and too fast for the less experienced (it might hurt too much instead of be pleasuring). That is something you also could find out on your own; last thing is the "g" spot; you can never go wrong with it. If you don't know where it is look it up, you won't regret it
So I hope i helped, Gl, and let me know if you have any other questions
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There are a number of reasons why you are having a problem.
For a girl it is a little more complicated. She needs to be comfortable and she needs to feel safe in her surroundings. Remove any of these two things and she probably will not orgasm.
What I suggest is that you first find out if you can orgasm. To do so I suggest you go in your bedroom, lock the door, undress and make love to yourself. Call it self-foreplay or masturbation if you want. There is no sin in masturbation it is after all nothing more than foreplay and according to a recent survey 85 percent of us do it. Most religions condone masturbation including the Catholic church.
If you can relax in your own room and bring yourself to orgasm then there's nothing wrong with you. What you will find out is if you are clitoral or vaginal in nature. If you can orgasm by stimulating your clitoris then what you need to do is get your boy friend to stimulate your clitoris when he fingers you.
Some women are clitoral in nature others are vaginal. If you are clitoral you will need to teach your boyfriend how to please you.
I hope I have helped.
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