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i can only get off if i picture a girl but i date boys does that make me a lesbian?
okay i date,i gt turned on by guys but the only way i can reach an orgasm is if i imagine myself wth a girl,i picture bein pleasured by a girl,so does that make me a lesbian?and yes i have tried it with a girl before but when i was younger below 11 years,now im 18,but i date boys n never picture dating a girl!!its jus for pleasure
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I understand your question; my problem is just how to answer you.
First of all NO, you are not a lesbian or even bicurious. I think we all fantasize about some things including sex. This does not mean we have to act on them. For some people these fantasy's can grow to the point of almost being a fetish. Meaning there interest in their fantasy is such that they will read about it, look at pictures of people performing the act or acts they fantasize about or even watch videos of people performing their fantasy.
The web is full of pictures and videos of different fetishes people may have. Not all the people who watch these videos actually partake in anything they view through watching them is a turn on. This does not make them weird, lesbian, gay or anything else. If you get pleasure from something and it does not physically harm you or your partner and you and your partner are consenting. Then what happens in your bedroom is between you and your partner.
I'm not sure if I fully answered your question so let me put it another way. If you like football or stock car racing does that make you a football player or race car driver. Of course not. So if you enjoy see two girls getting it on I'm sure your partner would as well. If you fantasize about it there is nothing wrong with that.
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I don't think it means your a lesbian. I think it's just a way to turn your self on. Its normal for that to happen. Just because you think of them doesn't mean you are one:P
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