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why does a boyfriend say this?
hi guys, why does a boyfriend wants you to cum at the same time as he is during sex? we've been dating for a 3 and a half years now and lived together for a couple of months. everything is going great. he's 48 and i'm 34. during sex he ejaculates quick and me, it takes a few minutes. but he just really wants and asks me to cum at the same time whenever we have sex. so why is it? thank you all.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Have you ever came at the same time as your partner? It is amazing. thrilling. just... oh my godness hahaha. It may be a turn on for him but he also has to understand you don't work like that. And go the little bit of thee extra mile to get you close to the climax if he wants that.
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It's because it feels really good. When a woman orgasms, the muscles in the walls of the vagina contract rhythmically. When the man is orgasming at the same time, it provides extra stimulation at a time when he's already super sensitive.
If he's quick on the draw and you take more time to warm up, he's got to practice holding off on his orgasm. You may need to switch positions mid-way to accomplish this, or you may need to get your hands involved to speed yourself up.
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He is a guy
Guys have fantasies, They have needs, They have desires and wants. Likely the idea of you finishing the same time is a turn on for him.
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I think its a case of wanting to be on all of the same levels as you or fear that he isn't pleasing you enough during sex (men like this do exist) There is a possibility it is an age thing with him (I am not judging the age between you) but I am not a medical person I wouldn't swear to it.
I think you need to decide if the best decision either to fake it or think of ways that will stimulate you to keep you at the same pace as your partner.
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