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how can i make him last longer?
Hiya there, 16/f..
Me and my boyfriend are going to lose our virginity to eachother pretty soon and I've heard that boys often climax too quickly and get too excited during their first time.. so has anyone got any little flirty foreplay tips or something to make him last longer so we can both remember it?
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Before I answer your question I have listed below a URL for a website I believe you and your boyfriend should look at before you have sex. I found this site when answering questions like yours from other young ladies.
I hope you and your boyfriend are old enough to be having sex. As young teenagers your bodies are old enough to perform the act but you really do not have the maturity to be having sex as a young teenager. There are ways to enjoy each other intimately without having sex and fear of unwanted pregnancy. Also if you are not on birth control I would suggest you wait until you are. You boyfriend should use a condom as you can get pregnant the first time you have sex and condoms are only 85% effective when worn correctly. Both off you being virgins the possibility is good that he will not know how to properly use a condom. This will decrease the effectiveness of the condom as a method of birth control.
Now to answer your question: You could give him a handjob or blow job before you have intercourse. Being young his recovery time will be quick so this may not slow him down to much. Before you have intercourse it would be best if you two work at having fore play to get to know each others turn ons and how to get each other off with foreplay then take the next step to intercourse.
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He should be fine as long as you use a condom; not something so thin so you might wanna try ribbed ones. Other than that work your way up to sex. Start slow; kissing, touching, maybe doing it dry for a minute, oral sex should also be fine (don't take it the wrong way but you probably won't be good enough at it to make him cum) but it'll still be pleasurable for him.
I know you didn't ask but just to make sure you know; use lube and condoms. Don't be one of those stupid teens that think they won't be one of the girls that gets pregnant. And the lube is just encase he doesnt make you wet enough ( it'll also help make it not as painful)
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