First off I'm in the navy and I'm 20 years old. Me and my fiance have.dated for about 8 months. At the beggining I didn't get off until she did like 2 times. Now honestly minus foreplay I don't last but about 7-8 minutes of straight going at it. Why is this?
adviceman49 answered Tuesday March 20 2012, 10:12 am: Your normal. The average male last from 3 to 5 minutes. If you are lasting 7 to 8 minutes you are above average.
There are somethings you can research to make yourself last longer. One such thing is the use of desensitizing creams. The other alternative is to spend more time on foreplay to get your fiance more excited so she gets her two orgasms before you get off.
One other suggestion I can make is that you and your fiance talk to each other about likes and dislikes about sex. Like most males I thought my wife when we first met was like most female and vaginal in her stimulation. Turns out she is clitoral. She had to tell me this as I was, like most males, unaware. Sure I knew you had to stimulate the clit but felt the vagina was the seat of pleasure for a woman.
Once we had that discussion we spent time relearning about each others bodies. She showed me where she was most sensitive and how she liked to be touched and stimulated in those places. I in turn showed her where I was most sensitive and how I liked to be touched.
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