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embarrasing orgasms.
Well i don't masturbate and I haven't really done anything sexual but for some reason, when im doing my casual daily chores, i can feel something wet in my pants and i always find out that i had an orgasm and its really embarrassing. i don't know how to stop it and i get really embarrassed and some times it even happens at school and i cant sort it out cuz the teacher wont let me go to the bathroom so i just have to put up with it and im tired of it. How do i stop it?
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Both of the other advisors have given you good advice. They are both correct in that you do need to see a GYN to make sure this is not a medical problem and if there is something the doctor can offer you to help you if it is not a true medical problem.
Until you see the doctor I would suggest you or you ask mom to purchase some light days panty liners. This will make you feel more comfortable and save your panties from becoming wet and uncomfortable as well as stained.
One more thing: What you are experiencing is not sexual. It is a biological function of your body. The same as any other biological function just that it happens to be with your reproductive system. You have no reason to be embarresed about it be it talking with you mom or your doctor.
Now if you are are 14 I can offer some advice to make it easier. By Federal Law known as HIPPA IF YOU ARE OVER 14 YEARS OF AGE YOU HAVE MEDICAL PRIVACY WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM.
This means if you are 14 or over you do not need parental permission to make doctors appointment or to see a doctor for anything relating to your reproductive health. The law is very specific on this and was passed by Congress so that young adults like you would seek medical help with problems or questions concerning their reproductive health.
By law you can see your doctor in total privacy, meaning if mom goes with you she must stay in the waitng room. The doctor cannot and will not examine you if mom is in the room. Anything you say or the the doctor treats you for stays between you and your doctor. Any information about any vist or examination and treatment can only be released upon written request by you to the doctor. A violation of any part of this law by the doctor or staff is punishable by up to 5 years in prison.
So you have no reason to be embarrased. You need to see a doctor; If you would be more comfortable seeing the doctor in private that is your right. So go see the doctor and have this checked out.
What is happening to you sounds very normal for a young teenager going through the hormonal changes of puberty. But I am not a doctor and it is always better to consult a doctor when you have a question like this.
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I don't think you mean that you are having orgasms. Those you would feel, rather than "find out".
Instead, most likely, you're just having discharge. It's a natural process and it is good for your vagina.
However, if you are concerned about it, it would be a good idea to see a gynecologist.
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You NEED to see an ob/gyn to rule out any health issues causing it and learn what to do to curb it.
I know you don't want to see a doctor but it's the only way and you have to know if it's medical or not. I've looked online for you to find out standard causes but there's not much to go on just theories and personal stories which vary.
I did however, read that one person had their doctor figure out that it was birth-control related. Apparently, some contraceptives increase vaginal fluids for no reason.
You also need to tell your mother about it so she can help despite it being awkward. As for the teacher tell him/her you drink lots of water because of medication and have to relieve yourself a lot more frequent than most. If he/she still won't let you walk out anyway and do it.
Either that or produce a note from a doctor not saying what the reason is but that you need to use a restroom more for medical reasons. But, you won't need that once you see the doctor. As far as protection for immediately be sure to carry pads and switch them when you need to. But yes, try to see an ob/gyn tomorrow if possible.
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