my boyfriend wants me to be on top..what should i do??
Question Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:11 am
i'm a girl and my boyfriend wants me to be on top the next time we have sex but i have never been on top before so i don't know what to do.Could you tell me what to do or how should i do it??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm? stephanieheartsyou answered Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:38 pm: Considering you've never done it before, and this coming from someone who, quite frankly, SUCKS on top, I would say, if possible, do it on the floor or a couch, because it's hard to ride him while the bouncy bed is ruining your rhythm. But just make sure it doesn't hurt you first, because sometimes it hurts being on top and sometimes riding can be painful. As soon as your comfortable with it, then begin. I'm sure he doesn't expect you to be perfect at it. And if you can't bounce, then just tell him to do the thrusting while you're on top and you just caress him and seduce him with your hands in other places. Like run your hands through his hair and tug at it a little, or nibble his earlobes or kiss his neck. Maybe even a little running your fingernails from the bottom of his mid-lower back up the two sides of his spine, very gently, almost hovering. We were given hands for a reason! No worries, practice makes perfect! Goodluck. [ stephanieheartsyou's advice column | Ask stephanieheartsyou A Question ]
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