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Masturbating.


Question Posted Tuesday April 17 2012, 9:33 pm

I was masturbating and I got closer than i've ever gotten to reaching orgasm, but by then my arm was getting sore..and I just couldn't finish. I felt like I had to pee really bad (although i kind of had to go before i started) And yeah...Plus i was doing it in the bathroom so i was kind of limited on time because that's the only place i have privacy. what should i do for the next time?..
17/f


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dolphina answered Wednesday April 18 2012, 10:08 pm:
Imagine if you were jumping on the same leg for an extended prd of time...it would tire out. That's what was happening to the muscle groups in your arm. You should switch arms up or whatever so that you don't overexhaust the same muscles repeatedly. <BR><BR><BR>

EDIT: you gave me a 3 which is chill I don't really care about ratings because I rarely go on this site, but this is what you said: <BR><BR>

Thanks, but i'm right handed so i can hardly do anything with my left. I can barely even throw a ball straight with it XP <BR><BR>

Now, you are a high schooler and I am in a Pre-Medical student in college, and going back to that, it's all about the muscles. The reason you can't throw a ball with your left is because you probably don't work out a lot, and you probably never tried. Think about it, if you were to go out and throw a baseball with your left hand every day for a month, by the end of the month you would be able to quite decently throw with your left hand. <BR><BR>
Again, I don't care about ratings, but as a very,very athletic & health conscious individual, I would suggest you to start working out 3x a week, even if it's just for 30 mins, and working on your left = BALANCE!!! This is something you learn in exercise science classes.

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solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday April 17 2012, 11:45 pm:
It's possible this is the start of G-Spot orgasm. I have read as well as been told in human sexuality classes that a woman will feel like she has a full bladder. Then, she will feel slightly uncomfortable and an urge to push down.

It's possible you had to urinate but more likely this was associated with self-pleasure. How to know? Next time use the bathroom first and find out if anything is the same. You can't hurt yourself and it's been done when alone and unrushed.

In general and not just for this you need privacy and a place that is your own. Parents hate locks but a chain one you can put on with a hook and take off is needed so you can be alone for any reason. At 17 you need that. You should complain about a lack of privacy in general.

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