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how to orgasm
when im having sex with my boyfriend and i go on top and ride him . as soon as i start rideing him he cums and i dont get my orgasm how can i stop him from cuming so fast. and we can finish at the same time.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Trouble Reaching Orgasm?
Hopefully, you've worked this out already.
The obvious answer is to start out by working on pleasuring you first. Make it fun. Start slowly and let your boyfriend know what you like and how you like it. Be honest, but let him know you are going to be honest. Men, unfortunately, have very fragile egos when it comes to sex. Emphasize what you LIKE, (not what he's doing "wrong").
Go from there. Be creative. Sex is fun. Make sure you are relaxed and are actually having fun.
Realize too, that finishing "at the same time" is vastly overrated. It can take many years of wonderful practice to get that to happen on a consistent basis. And, once you achieve that on a regular basis, you might find it's not that great. Remember, great sex is about wonder, and surprise and the unexpected.
You now know how to make him come quickly, so make that the finale. Maybe he can help you with two or three orgasms before that. Wouldn't that be fun?
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From the way you make it sound, I don't think he has control over him self. Be safe and use condoms is your best bet, but the way that I see it is he is just really horny. Are you trying to get your self pregnant? He can try to hold it but I don't think some guys could, other then that you can keep sexing with your partner and he can pull out, and continue until he cums again. : ) hope I helped..
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