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Last week our school had a dance. I went and we all had fun, just hanging out, talking, laughing, and then we decided to dance. At first we were just dancing, but then the slow songs came on. All my friends have boyfreinds/girlfreinds, and my freind, whom we will call bob, and I were just standing there. We are very good friends,he asked me to dance, so I said sure, why not? He thought we were dancing as friends, I thought so too. We are just friends. There is this girl though, and now she is totally pissed off at us for dancing. When she's talking to a group, and I try and say something, she'll just say: Nobody cares, Hawley. I just give her a dirty look and start talking, I don't care what she says. BUt she's really being a total bitch to *Bob* and I, and it's pissing me off. How the hell do I get her off my case when she won't even listen to us?
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Ignore her. Seriously. You owe her no explanation, and she's acting like a bratty kid. If she's mad about you dancing with your friend, then she'll calm down when she sees that you two are obviously not together. Plus, the more she baits you and you don't respond, the more obvious it becomes to everybody that she's the unreasonable one.
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just tell her that your sick of this attitude problem she has and that you too were just dancing as friends (and tell her before you twll her what i said to tell her, tell her to listen up cuz you have somthing important to say)
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Explain to her one-on-one that you and Bob are just friends. Dancing is a non-committal thing. She needs to understand that. Ask her if she's ever danced with her dad, that sort of thing.
That said, I suspect she has a crush on Bob, since she's all mad at you. I tell you to talk to her one-on-one because in a group setting, she'll be more defensive about it.
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