Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.
Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.
What should I do?
I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.
But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.
Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?
I'm so confused...
What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.
neonfizz answered Sunday November 16 2003, 8:51 pm: I think you should just break it to them slowly, give your old friends hints you might not end up going to their high school then one day just tell them. They may be mad but tell them that you've got attached to yuor school and just don't want to leave. If they're good friends, they won't be mad and they'll find as much time as possible to hang out with you. [ neonfizz's advice column | Ask neonfizz A Question ]
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