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Is it ok to still like him?
There's this boy (let's call him...Bug) and I have this friend (lets call her...cool)
Well, I used to have a big crush on Bug last year and I told one person and that one person told a lot of other people (which I don't really care because I wanted him to know) Well...Bug is just so cute, even if he is a jerk. I started liking him last year. I didn't find out he was a jerk until this year though.
My friend, Cool, was at her locker this year, and Bug came up to her (and I was right next to her at MY locker)and Bug was like "Hey, Cool, will you go out with me baby?" and both Cool and I knew he was only joking and being an @$$.
Cool just gave me an embarrased look and then I didnt say anything but big was leaving and he called Cool a HEFFER! and I was just steaming becasue yes...my friend is kind of big but its not something that she could help becasue she is big boned. Everyone calls her the black barney (not to be racist, but a lot of them who cal her that are black too) and it gets me so mad that they call her that. Anyways, I gave Bug such a cold look, and this is when Im pretty sure he knew that I liked him. He looked at me kind of sadly and then when we were walking past each other in the hall...I bumped into him hard on purpose and he just looked at me.
Then all the rest of the days I would just give him such a dirty look and roll my eyes. And Im so mad becasue my friend transferred schools because of him and his friends making fub of her on the bus.
The problem is though....I think I still might like him. He keeps giving me looks (not necessarily looks that he likes me or that hes interested) Its just makes me so confused and I don't know what to do becasue even if I DO still like him......I dont want to.......or at least I think I dont.
Please help me out
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Hmm sounds like your playing a little hard to get, but think your angry with him.To you your friend is gone and its just you and him. He does sound like a jerk if he caused her to move school. Dont be with someone like that. You will be wasting your time.
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Wait until he grows up. If he abuses your friend, he will abuse you later.
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Maybe you feel that you still like him, but after the way he treated your friend, I'd concentrate my efforts on forgetting him. I know this sounds kind of cliché, but friends will always be your friends, whereas a boyfriend most likely won't last that long. Going out with him would be like choosing him, and if your friend found out, she probably wouldn't be too happy with you. Once he was out of the picture, you'd have lost two people you cared about.
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ummm forget the jerk... avoid hiom think about how cruel he was to your friend... you like who you do for what ever stupid reason, just keep reminding yourself he is an ass and move on with your life...
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