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Somebody make it stop
Ok. So I have dated this guy since summer, and he's a really busy fellow. We'll call him Chris. Unfortunately, so am I. So we've had maybe a date a month on average. I like him. He "loves" me. I am scared to say I love him because I still think way too much about the last psycho control freak guy I dated. (It has got to be sex). He doesn't communicate well with me. Its hard to have a conversation about what I called him for in the first place. He is waiting until marriage to have sex. Its a little hard on me, but its nice not feeling pressured. Chris has a tendency to postpone dates for gigs or other reasons. I understand he needs to work, but give me a break.
Well, I am waffling and waffling. In the meantime, a really interesting fellow has "hit" my personal ad. I want to call him, but as of Sunday things are better with Chris.
So choice A: call new guy anyway.
choice B: don't call new guy
choice C: call new guy and tell him about Chris
choice D: get over yourself you silly brat
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I think you should choose choice C because you can tell the guy about Chris and tell the new guy that maybe you could call him later and if things turn out great with Chris, then maybe you should stay with him. But if he gets to be the same as before, I'd try calling the new guy!
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Hm.....I say try to talk to Chris about this. And if he gives you a bunch of crap about it, dump his sorry ass, and call the new guy. Unless of course, you start to really feel deeply about him, then you should try at it.
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